Being single isn't great but it beats being with the wrong person.

Couldn't tell ya, sorry

Considering the relationships I've been through, I think being single is preferable.

Sure, it's nice to have someone around who allegedly cares, but there doesn't seem to be anyone out there who isn't boring, illiterate, or committed to changing me into something I can never be.

Under the circumstances, I'm better off not bothering.

good luck i hated being single but now i have a real good lady in my life an it feels so good it takes time

You know.... I don't find that being SINGLE sucks. It's being single and LOOKING that has sucked big time. Really, for 10-12 years, I was mostly a very happy single person. Now that I'm looking again, I'm having to deal with sorting, drama, creeps, jerks.... Thank God for the occassional nice man, but then, sometimes... there's no chemistry to grow the relationship.

Nowadays you don't have to be taken

In order to have kissing , sex , etc.

I think being single is not that bad

JMO

Being single does have some advantages.... would someone care to tell me what they are now? I seem to misplaced my list of them.. really its ok some days but I would rather be with someone and deeply in love.. NOTHING gets any better then that.

my life is full of longing, unfulfilled desires. you're at the beginning of yours. i know being single sux, but it likely won't last forever. find something that you enjoy doing, a hobby. and don't think of being single as being alone. think of it as having freedom.


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freedom is the main key in being single. you are no longer tied down enjoy life to the fullest. if you forgot to do anything before you were in a relationship now is the time to do it.

Being single has its ups and downs.. I do understand missing the cuddle time, taking walks hand in hand, having someone to come home to, talking with that special someone on a daily base, and exploring desires with one another...

The ups my laundry loads are smaller, my cleaning has become lighter, if I don't feel like cooking no need, the only person I have to hear b1tch is me, if I don't feel good I don't have to worry about sex, If I don't feel like shaving I don't, I buy what I want when I want it, I can finally find the time to sit and read, I'm finally following some of my dreams, Its about what I care about now...

You will get through this and it will take awhile, I suggest you surround yourself with friends and family, not jump into anything to quickly because of your urges, learn to be a better lover to yourself so that you may become a better lover for that right person when they come along... Use this time to really search yourself and figure out exactly what you want out of a partner and don't settle for less than that... Anyway this is just my point of view... Also welcome to Mingle its a wonderful place I have met many new and interesting friends

I've been single my entire life, and I have come to the conclusion that there are worse things that could happen. The culture we live in is way too sex obsessed, and it disturbs me.

I'll never go looking for someone just to fulfill "that need." Sure, it would be nice, but my heart has long since been numbed to the pain of being alone. It's probably for the best, as it'll make me appreciate such things as love when I find it.

Abstinence is good for the soul people. Try it sometime.

Of course being single sucks. But it's not as bad as having to deal with the drama that would be "the relationship". Nothing's worse than dealing with the mind-games and the drama that can only come from the person you're dating. It's not worth the trouble, as far as I'm concerned.

I like being single. I own the remote.

Is it just me....or does this seem like a bit of a ploy to get someone to cyber with her??

He looks happy, I wonder why they broke up