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Topic: ''Why do most people treat you like you are not there?
puggirl7 Joined Mon 03/02/09 Posts: 63	Thu 04/02/09 05:03 PM
I'm going to vent my problems here concerning another forum i am a member of. I don't understand why everytime i post a new topic or talk about new and important news, people treat me like an outsider and what i have to say is not important! All my entire life people in my family and people that claimed to be my friend have snubbed me and left me out!A lot of people are in cliques and i feel like what i have to say is never important to them!I just want to be heard, loved and made to feel like i belong! this forum is not on mingle, it is a horror forum known as guts and gory!this has happened a lot! people are

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 04/02/09 05:03 PM


heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Thu 04/02/09 05:04 PM
I'm sorry. People will really only treat you as you allow them too. Doesn't sound like that's the place for you.

Mattikins476 Joined Wed 03/25/09 Posts: 37	Thu 04/02/09 05:04 PM
huh, that sucks. If your friends seem to snub you then you have the wrong friends. I know what you mean though. i have gotten that before as far as forums go. its just part of life i guess. usually high school life though >.>

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Thu 04/02/09 05:06 PM Edited by feistybaby on Thu 04/02/09 05:07 PM
This happens to me all the time as well. I am the original thread killer. I don't let it get to me. The forums are for posting your opinion whether anyone cares to read or comment to it or not. So I just state what I think and don't worry about the rest. You can't let it be personal.

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Thu 04/02/09 05:10 PM
Hang in there, most of the people here are great, just give it time!!!

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Thu 04/02/09 05:10 PM


puggirl7 Joined Mon 03/02/09 Posts: 63	Thu 04/02/09 05:12 PM
I have been a member since 2006, i only joined because i am into horror films! but it seems like they are only interested in talking just about freddy krueger and jason and michael from halloween! i think there are other horror films that need mentioned!i use to have a poetry thread over there when one of my favorite movie actors use to log on and join in! now his thread has been deleted!and the only place to post horror poems is on guts and gory, the pit!everytime you post you get to move up in the horror world!i love to watch scary movies! i went to see a haunting in connecticut and to me that was real horror! but the other pit members overlooked my thread and went on to other stupid topics!! once you see the remakes of halloween and friday the 13th to many times it gets to be old news!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 04/02/09 05:14 PM
Sounds like Mingle2....all guts and gor..... I mean gore.

Baabs Joined Mon 03/30/09 Posts: 224	Thu 04/02/09 05:14 PM
This happens to me all the time as well. I am the original thread killer. I don't let it get to me. The forums are for posting your opinion whether anyone cares to read or comment to it or not. So I just state what I think and don't worry about the rest. You can't let it be personal. "Original threadkiller" most original line I've heard all day.

canaryrx8 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 361	Thu 04/02/09 05:17 PM
cliques man, it's all about the cliques.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 04/02/09 05:18 PM
How many people does it take to make a clique?

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Thu 04/02/09 05:23 PM
Welcome to my world I would just stick with Mingle if I were you They will pick and prod you at anytime and you won't have any time to feel ignored

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Thu 04/02/09 05:35 PM
..dont all women have their own clique...

gerowulf Joined Sat 01/17/09 Posts: 181	Fri 04/03/09 08:24 AM
Post so many topics as you can,after a time they will accept you.Here on mingle is that not a problem.

ReddBeans Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 6930	Fri 04/03/09 08:27 AM
I have been a member since 2006, i only joined because i am into horror films! but it seems like they are only interested in talking just about freddy krueger and jason and michael from halloween! i think there are other horror films that need mentioned!i use to have a poetry thread over there when one of my favorite movie actors use to log on and join in! now his thread has been deleted!and the only place to post horror poems is on guts and gory, the pit!everytime you post you get to move up in the horror world!i love to watch scary movies! i went to see a haunting in connecticut and to me that was real horror! but the other pit members overlooked my thread and went on to other stupid topics!! once you see the remakes of halloween and friday the 13th to many times it gets to be old news! We've got Poetry and Movie forums here. Just join in Hun!

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Fri 04/03/09 08:30 AM
So sorry to hear that hope you will enjoy the Mingle site and good luck.

realfranklucas Joined Wed 04/01/09 Posts: 29	Fri 04/03/09 08:31 AM
you gotta be more assertive "your 1 of 2 things in this world, your either somebody or your nobody".

realfranklucas Joined Wed 04/01/09 Posts: 29	Fri 04/03/09 08:32 AM
you gotta be more assertive "your 1 of 2 things in this world, your either somebody or your nobody".

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 04/03/09 08:35 AM
This happens to me all the time as well. I am the original thread killer. I don't let it get to me. The forums are for posting your opinion whether anyone cares to read or comment to it or not. So I just state what I think and don't worry about the rest. You can't let it be personal. We all think we are thread killers, fiesty! OP.... how long have you been a poster on this site?