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Topic: I need some advice
ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Wed 04/15/09 05:29 PM
I was just chatting with a guy and we were getting to know each other. And he asked about my interests and what kind of man I was looking for. I said "here are my dealbreakers" ....I don't want a bad or abusive temper, don't want someone who has no job or can't hold a job, and someone who can handle my sarcastic sense of humor. Guess what???? He closed his im window w/o even say good bye, kiss my azz or anything. What did I do wrong?

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21376	Wed 04/15/09 05:31 PM
He either has no job or his wife or boss walked in.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 04/15/09 05:31 PM
Nothing!! Ya told it like it is! F(:k. Him!

ReddBeans Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 6930	Wed 04/15/09 05:32 PM
Just count urself lucky cause obviously he met one or more of ur deal breakers

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Wed 04/15/09 05:32 PM
sounds like you hit a nerve on him, I wouldn't worry about it Liz. There are more guys out there that WILL fit your criteria

dolphin14 Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 1123	Wed 04/15/09 05:32 PM
NOTHING,,,, better now then after u wasted any more time with him. He obviously had issues....

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Wed 04/15/09 05:32 PM
He probably can't hold a job.

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Wed 04/15/09 05:33 PM
Maybe he just lost his job and he is very sensitive about it. You are so mean! lol

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Wed 04/15/09 05:34 PM
you did yourself a favour,..

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Wed 04/15/09 05:35 PM
maybe he was all three...I would not worry about it that much..

Baabs Joined Mon 03/30/09 Posts: 224	Wed 04/15/09 05:35 PM
your deal breakers are pretty reasonable. He probably doesn't have a job or who knows has a past record of battery. At least he didn't lead you on and continue the conversations.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 04/15/09 05:37 PM
Red flag over load

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Wed 04/15/09 05:39 PM
don't give him your phone number...

Spirograph Joined Mon 09/15/08 Posts: 7011	Wed 04/15/09 05:40 PM
your deal breakers are pretty reasonable. He probably doesn't have a job or who knows has a past record of battery. At least he didn't lead you on and continue the conversations. i approve of this message

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Wed 04/15/09 05:45 PM
He just saved you a lot of "wasted" time!!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 04/15/09 05:47 PM
I was just chatting with a guy and we were getting to know each other. And he asked about my interests and what kind of man I was looking for. I said "here are my dealbreakers" ....I don't want a bad or abusive temper, don't want someone who has no job or can't hold a job, and someone who can handle my sarcastic sense of humor. Guess what???? He closed his im window w/o even say good bye, kiss my azz or anything. What did I do wrong? Those are basic dealbreakers...his loss.

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Wed 04/15/09 05:50 PM
He either has no job or his wife or boss walked in. well he has been seperated for 2 yrs and that was a red flag!

dolphin14 Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 1123	Wed 04/15/09 05:52 PM
He either has no job or his wife or boss walked in. well he has been seperated for 2 yrs and that was a red flag! Step away from the computer girl

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Wed 04/15/09 05:53 PM
Separated but not divorced is one of my deal breakers. Because part of me wonders if he is really separated at all or just saying that.....

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Wed 04/15/09 05:53 PM
lol, thanks everyone!