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Topic: How can a guy know exactly what a Woman wants or is looking
snarkytwain's photo
Sat 08/01/09 04:04 PM

Were were you 27yrs ago... when i did the same thing and yet... I was not appreciated for anything I did..

well hat's off to you and don't stop just because one dose not or two or three..

Perseverance is the key to a women heart.. she just might not have be a spontaneous women..

most say they want this and yet they hate it...

next time if your still with this chick..

1. don't do anything with out her permission. don't even go to the bathroom she might think your hiding a women in the toilet...

2. check with her before you put on your aftershave for she might feel intimidated and think your going to get the new paper an flirt with the post women... all because you wanted to take a shower and smell good for your lady.

3. make sure before you plan anything, you have the time, date, the second to what time she will be ready to have her spontaneous reaction so you can be surprised by her!

Last result... get rid of her... and Sweep me off my feet and take me away for the rest of my life.....

P.s. no kids allowed.... o dang I'm a lesbian! Umm can you dress up like a women in the bedroom>>>>>>> lol




Well damn. I have five kids and can never be a lesbian.

I just like men WAY too much. Call me a glutton for punishment. laugh

Christinacospgs's photo
Sat 08/01/09 04:46 PM

Were were you 27yrs ago... when i did the same thing and yet... I was not appreciated for anything I did..

well hat's off to you and don't stop just because one dose not or two or three..

Perseverance is the key to a women heart.. she just might not have be a spontaneous women..

most say they want this and yet they hate it...

next time if your still with this chick..

1. don't do anything with out her permission. don't even go to the bathroom she might think your hiding a women in the toilet...

2. check with her before you put on your aftershave for she might feel intimidated and think your going to get the new paper an flirt with the post women... all because you wanted to take a shower and smell good for your lady.

3. make sure before you plan anything, you have the time, date, the second to what time she will be ready to have her spontaneous reaction so you can be surprised by her!

Last result... get rid of her... and Sweep me off my feet and take me away for the rest of my life.....

P.s. no kids allowed.... o dang I'm a lesbian! Umm can you dress up like a women in the bedroom>>>>>>> lol





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FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 08/01/09 05:54 PM

You were with a paranoid schitzo?

Honestly, from my POV, those would have all been very nice. It was her issue, babe, not yours.


I'm schizo...what did we do now?

Tazz42's photo
Sat 08/01/09 09:57 PM


No one knows this for sure, but a woman herself. I myself have tried everything that I know, but it has always been the wrong thing. Lets just say that you try to do something nice or romantic for her, well that is where you have done something wrong. She will think you have done something wrong or cheated on her, and then question things that you do. Ok - here are some things I have tried in my past with women, and you can tell me what I did wrong? These are just a few things that I thought would help a relationship, but it turned out wrong.

1. Just say that she came in from a hard day,but you got to the house before her & thought you would do something nice for her. So you send the kid to the babysitter, and you fix her a nice dinner and set it to candle light.

2.She may go out to a party or the club,so you want to add some spark to things. Well you set up something fun and try to make it something she will never forget.So you leave a note on the door that leads her to another note somewhere in the house.-
(you can all see where this is headed) So the last note leads her to the bedroom where you have left rose petals all over the bed.

3.She had a bad day at work, and is just so up tight from the day she had. So you run her a hot bath, and try to relax her for a bit. Here is where you start with just a good oldfashion foot rub, and work your way into trying to make her feel better. ( I know what some people would think, but she has got to be first,)Now you work on her calf muscles, then the back of her thighs. Keep going all the way, until you have worked on her back and shoulders. Relax her from head to toe, but be sure to listen to her and watch her body movements. because she is the only one, who can let you know how she feels.


Maybe I have always been wrong, but I have always thought that a woman-lady only wanted to be Loved and treated with respect.I know that they are not just looking for sex,or just a rich guy to pay for something that doesn't last.


OK ,here is how some of it turned out.

On #1- I was acused of seeing someone else.

On #2- It was that I was screwing someone else.

and #3-It was that I must be cheating on her.



So ladies please let me know where I went wrong ?

And guys well, just think about it before you act on it.



Yes It was with just one woman, and that would be because the way I was raised. Old school- by my Grandfather. He taught me when you are with someone and you love them, you will do everything to make them happy.I always do things like that to be nice, and because I like doing them. There is never a motive behind what I do for them, it's simply out of Love and respect.



JMO...coming from a very opened minded and very loving woman.......(take that like it is)


Your woman is a b*itch and doesn't appreciate you.....she hasn't got a freaking brain in her head and deserves nothing but KARMA!!!!!!!!!



I am not one to EVER protrude my opinion on ANYONE!
But I will say this:
If you were my man and you went through all that JUST FOR ME.........
I would be EVER so grateful!

And that the Man I loved knew what I was going through in life at the this time, was trying to show his love and support!

IF this stupid woman was thinking that this was out of guilt for cheating on her......my first reaction is that:
She is accusing....then SHE is cheating!

Been there, been accused and found in my total innocents, HE was one the one that WAS DOING THE CHEATING!!!!!!!!!!!!


I REALLY hope that you find a peace and love....flowers


horse1andonly's photo
Wed 08/12/09 10:26 AM
Thanks Tazz, kind words really can make a person feel better sometimes. and I hope that you have a wonderful day. flowerforyou waving flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 08/12/09 10:29 AM
Wow.....you did all that????


I will be right over!!bigsmile

malektaus's photo
Wed 08/12/09 11:24 AM

No one knows this for sure, but a woman herself. I myself have tried everything that I know, but it has always been the wrong thing. Lets just say that you try to do something nice or romantic for her, well that is where you have done something wrong. She will think you have done something wrong or cheated on her, and then question things that you do. Ok - here are some things I have tried in my past with women, and you can tell me what I did wrong? These are just a few things that I thought would help a relationship, but it turned out wrong.

1. Just say that she came in from a hard day,but you got to the house before her & thought you would do something nice for her. So you send the kid to the babysitter, and you fix her a nice dinner and set it to candle light.

2.She may go out to a party or the club,so you want to add some spark to things. Well you set up something fun and try to make it something she will never forget.So you leave a note on the door that leads her to another note somewhere in the house.-
(you can all see where this is headed) So the last note leads her to the bedroom where you have left rose petals all over the bed.

3.She had a bad day at work, and is just so up tight from the day she had. So you run her a hot bath, and try to relax her for a bit. Here is where you start with just a good oldfashion foot rub, and work your way into trying to make her feel better. ( I know what some people would think, but she has got to be first,)Now you work on her calf muscles, then the back of her thighs. Keep going all the way, until you have worked on her back and shoulders. Relax her from head to toe, but be sure to listen to her and watch her body movements. because she is the only one, who can let you know how she feels.


Maybe I have always been wrong, but I have always thought that a woman-lady only wanted to be Loved and treated with respect.I know that they are not just looking for sex,or just a rich guy to pay for something that doesn't last.


OK ,here is how some of it turned out.

On #1- I was acused of seeing someone else.

On #2- It was that I was screwing someone else.

and #3-It was that I must be cheating on her.



So ladies please let me know where I went wrong ?

And guys well, just think about it before you act on it.
dude women don't even know what or who they want.........i proven that.

Tazz42's photo
Wed 08/12/09 09:47 PM

Thanks Tazz, kind words really can make a person feel better sometimes. and I hope that you have a wonderful day. flowerforyou waving flowerforyou



Back atcha...Handsome!!!!!!!!!!!:banana:

Monier's photo
Wed 08/12/09 10:43 PM
A deep understanding of the Force is helpful

seahawks's photo
Wed 08/12/09 10:45 PM


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JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 08/12/09 10:52 PM
dude women don't even know what or who they want.........i proven that.


You have proven nothing except the fact that they, up until this point, don't want you.

Just because you aren't what they want, doesn't mean they don't know what they DO want.


no photo
Thu 08/13/09 01:48 AM

dude women don't even know what or who they want.........i proven that.


You have proven nothing except the fact that they, up until this point, don't want you.

Just because you aren't what they want, doesn't mean they don't know what they DO want.




they need an applause emoticon on here:wink:

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Thu 08/13/09 02:43 AM
You need to find a woman who enjoys her job or at least can do the job without coming home all exhausted, whiney, pissy, sultry, bitchy, surly, hormonal and a general pain in the patooty. Probably the reason she turned on you with accusations is because you took away her excuse to be all of the above.

no photo
Thu 08/13/09 04:33 PM
Maybe all of these actions are not consistent with who you really are, and she knows it. It it tough to understand if someone is not usually attentive to you and then all of a sudden is.
Out of character behaviour = questions

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