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Topic: What about
TxsSun's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:30 AM
dating your first boyfriend from high school 23 years later?

Is that still going backwards? Does that still fall under "It ended for a reason?" Or does that fall under "we were young and dumb?"

I need opinions please.

Emerald582's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:36 AM
In 23 years people can change A LOT..Hell I've changed a lot in the past 5 years. What were the terms of the breakup? That in itself would say a lot.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:37 AM
Do it!!!

Your two diff people now

It cant hurt right

If anything you become friends!:heart:

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:38 AM
nothing wrong with that...it's been 23 years, your grown ups now, different people...give it a try.

seahawks's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:40 AM
go for it , if it doesn't work out im available.!!laugh :wink:

no photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:44 AM
Why was he your boyfriend and why did you leave him, yes people change and evolve but he must still have the basic trait to him that he had then.

My first girlfriend would mean 34 years ago, I only dated her because she asked me and that what we did then, date girls, I didn't love her she was very cute and funny but she was a friend and we had fun together she was not a lover.

TxsSun's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:46 AM

In 23 years people can change A LOT..Hell I've changed a lot in the past 5 years. What were the terms of the breakup? That in itself would say a lot.



We broke up because he cheated on me.

Winx's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:48 AM


In 23 years people can change A LOT..Hell I've changed a lot in the past 5 years. What were the terms of the breakup? That in itself would say a lot.



We broke up because he cheated on me.


Wasn't he a kid when that happened?flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:49 AM
Young & dumb...let's hope he grew up in those years...I'd go for it but proceed with a lil caution, of course...:wink:

TxsSun's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:50 AM

go for it , if it doesn't work out im available.!!laugh :wink:



Can I have you instead???:wink:

TxsSun's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:50 AM



In 23 years people can change A LOT..Hell I've changed a lot in the past 5 years. What were the terms of the breakup? That in itself would say a lot.



We broke up because he cheated on me.


Wasn't he a kid when that happened?flowerforyou


That was kind of my point there. We were young and dumb laugh

Winx's photo
Wed 08/05/09 08:52 AM




In 23 years people can change A LOT..Hell I've changed a lot in the past 5 years. What were the terms of the breakup? That in itself would say a lot.

We broke up because he cheated on me.

Wasn't he a kid when that happened?flowerforyou

That was kind of my point there. We were young and dumb laugh


Hopefully, he's gotten smarter since then.laugh

trgirl's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:27 AM
noway OMFG.... i cant believe i just read that, one of my first boyfriends found me on facebook, we met out a few weeks ago and OMG what a wierdo he turned out to be...

pitchfork i think i will just stay single and become the disc golfin cat lady

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:31 AM
My first boyfriend was a total pothead and drug dealer

Now he's an actor on a soap opera

We spoke a couple months ago

What laughs we had!!

auburngirl's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:33 AM
noway

I say don't do it. Two different people now. And X's are X's for a reason. Besides, let's HOPE he's outgrown his high school habits of pot etc. Most adults do.

TxsSun's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:38 AM

noway

I say don't do it. Two different people now. And X's are X's for a reason. Besides, let's HOPE he's outgrown his high school habits of pot etc. Most adults do.


He never noway smoked pot.

He was just a cheater and car theif at 17 laugh

auburngirl's photo
Wed 08/05/09 09:42 AM
Oh...laugh ..well then...

Sorry about that. Think I got a few posts confused. laugh

no photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:43 AM
Sounds like fun to me.

Dragoness's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:51 AM

dating your first boyfriend from high school 23 years later?

Is that still going backwards? Does that still fall under "It ended for a reason?" Or does that fall under "we were young and dumb?"

I need opinions please.


I recontacted my ex and went around him to see if the spark was still there. Either he changed alot or I did or we both did because I could not see what I used to see in him anymore.

I think if you go back expecting what was there before you will be disappointed.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/05/09 10:53 AM

dating your first boyfriend from high school 23 years later?

Is that still going backwards? Does that still fall under "It ended for a reason?" Or does that fall under "we were young and dumb?"

I need opinions please.
flowerforyou no problemflowerforyou

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