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Topic: Do you care about looks?
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Sun 08/23/09 03:20 AM
Are looks important even if the person has a good heart, and could be your perfect match, would you turn them down if they looked bad?

nnason's photo
Sun 08/23/09 03:48 AM
for me i don't think so good character matters than beauty

lesd's photo
Sun 08/23/09 03:49 AM
I do believe inner beauty is THE most important thing, but unfortunatley, most people tend to look on the outside of one another to determine if he/she is compatible with them. Hence u have a hell of alot of doomed relationships from the beginning. It is a good thing to be sexually or physically attracted to who ur with, otherwise what is the point?

djinn127iamme's photo
Sun 08/23/09 03:52 AM
Physical attraction does come into play but ask yourself when your old wrinkled and the looks are gone. Who do you want by yourside? Someone who used to look like a model or someone you could always talk to?

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Sun 08/23/09 03:57 AM

I do believe inner beauty is THE most important thing, but unfortunatley, most people tend to look on the outside of one another to determine if he/she is compatible with them. Hence u have a hell of alot of doomed relationships from the beginning. It is a good thing to be sexually or physically attracted to who ur with, otherwise what is the point?


exactly

chelseite's photo
Sun 08/23/09 04:13 AM
if appearance wasn,t one of the most important factors why do dating sites advise you to post a photo? and how many profiles do you reply to that don't have one?:

bad_girl's photo
Sun 08/23/09 04:17 AM
Truer words have never been spoken

I do believe inner beauty is THE most important thing, but unfortunatley, most people tend to look on the outside of one another to determine if he/she is compatible with them. Hence u have a hell of alot of doomed relationships from the beginning. It is a good thing to be sexually or physically attracted to who ur with, otherwise what is the point?

uk1971's photo
Sun 08/23/09 04:28 AM
It's not what's on the outside that matters. It's what comes from within that counts.

papersmile's photo
Sun 08/23/09 04:32 AM
while i woudn't ever date someone who i thought was ugly, i do believe - for me anyway - that attraction begins with the emotional and as i fall for him, the physical grows and deepens and once i am in love, he is always the most beautiful man in the world.

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 08/23/09 06:18 AM
Ya know

I thought my ex was beautiful at one time

Now I look at him and I'm like "what did I see in him?"

And I always wonder

What if I was blind!!

I think then:heart: I would be able to "sense" true beauty in a person

ladywolf9653's photo
Sun 08/23/09 06:37 AM
Some attraction is necessary, but I also believe that the more attracted you are to who the person is, the more attracted you become to what they look like. If the container is pretty but empty, where is the satisfaction in that?

digger56's photo
Sun 08/23/09 06:54 AM
I have tried a relationship based on looks only,. It doesn't take long to figure out it's not going to work. I believe there has to be a attraction to whats inside. I will never date on looks only again. The pretty wrapping is nice but when it's open, if the box is empty it's disappointing. JMO

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Sun 08/23/09 09:32 PM
yes and yes. just being honest.flowerforyou

andreajayne's photo
Sun 08/23/09 09:35 PM

Ya know

I thought my ex was beautiful at one time

Now I look at him and I'm like "what did I see in him?"

And I always wonder

What if I was blind!!

I think then:heart: I would be able to "sense" true beauty in a person


haha i feel the same way about ALL of them!

robert1652's photo
Sun 08/23/09 09:37 PM

if appearance wasn,t one of the most important factors why do dating sites advise you to post a photo? and how many profiles do you reply to that don't have one?:
Or profiles with fuzzy pictures

for me there is a rule on these sites

if no flash you're in the trash

LonleyRedneck27's photo
Mon 08/24/09 08:39 PM
FOr me it is very low on the list. Some studies show a person forms an option of someone within 10 seconds and it is ushall wrong. SOmeone whoo seems like a duch might be a big softie, while on the other sprectrum a person who seems nice could be a big dick. I personall for options only afrt talking with some one for awile.

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Mon 08/24/09 08:42 PM
For meeting online, yes.
If I were to get to know someone in real life, not so much.

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 08/24/09 08:43 PM
Edited by Ladylid2012 on Mon 08/24/09 08:45 PM
I'm holding out for both.. what?? I can have both.:smile:

edit to add here..looks being what I find attractive, and that
could be just about anything.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 08/24/09 08:44 PM

Are looks important even if the person has a good heart, and could be your perfect match, would you turn them down if they looked bad?


Everyone is different, some people yes...others no, I really fail to see the point in these threads anymore...

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 08/24/09 08:48 PM
I must admit I won't date a woman I find unattractive. I won't even have a ONS with her. It's been my experance that attractive women are MUCH easier to get along with.

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