ya but didja ever notice that it's these guys with beer guts and stupid T-Shirts on who insist on having a woman who looks like Megan Fox? good grief.

I am about 10-15 pounds over weight still from being off with an athletic injury - I was about 30lbs over, but even then I got more attention from guys who were thinner while at the same time reading overweight men on the internet saying they wouldn't accept a gal with a few extra pounds. kinda funny really

a lot of time I think it's how the weight is distributed. Some frames can carry a few extra pounds and not look "fat" especially if the person (male or female) is in good athletic condition

and yes, please, don't date me. I prefer a man who likes me as I am. I will continue to lose some weight as I gradually resume my work outs, and as I regain my normal size, I will remember who still liked mt anyway when I was heavier, and I will kick to the curb the guys who r all of a sudden interested now that I am thinner.

Being a few pounds overweight (even tho it was not on purpose) has been an excellent litmus test as far as the integrity of the guys I am meeting - weeds put the shallow ones

Ok why not...I'll put my 2 cents in and see what happens.

I like women of all shapes and sizes. My standards when it comes to how a woman is shaped is not as strict as most. This to me is a bonus....as that there are more proverbial fish in the sea for me to choose from, which in turn, doesnt have me relying on my left hand for a change in the acdtion every now and again.

What I tend to go for more are the "not so skinny" girls. Reason being, (ok gonna get a little personal here so please dont get offened), is that I'm all about being tough and rough in the sac. Most skinny girls Ive been with end up not being able to handle that for very long. The curvy, thick, whatever you want to call them girls seem to be the freaks in bed as well. And I'm def a freak.

Now with that being said....what I see as fat and what I see are curvy are two different things. And whats really a turn off for me, is a big girl, who's blinded by her "I'm overweight and dont care" confindence that she doesnt see the health risks involved. And I'm not just talking about 10 to 20 lbs....I'm talking 50+ lbs over weight. I understand that life is sometimes a ***** and you cant control what happens to your body. But by all means, at least be activly trying to improve yourself. If your not, I see that as being lazy, and thats no good.

....and to not sound like I'm just harping on the ladies. Guys need to do the same. Dont expect that super model if you yourself sport a beer gut and cant run a mile without weezing.

It takes a lot of courage, confidence, and most of will power to try and be healthy. No matter what size you are, if you have that drive, thats a major turn on for me.

I am fat.. Deal with it

For me the issue is squashing. I don't want a woman to squash me if she sits in my lap.

well I see myka's here with her eyes shining!!

I am fat.. Deal with it

Lol...You are the one that has to deal with it, not me!!

r u pregnant? Yanno, when I was pregnant with my youngest son, I actually lost enuff weight in childbirth and breastfeeding that I was thinner than B4 my pregnancy within a month to 6 weeks time. Usually, you will lose weight fairly rapidly at first, the last 10 lbs or so are a little more work

with my last little guy, I just got lucky I guess! Plus we were very active in that I was constantly on the go with a house full of kids.

Yes of course I'm here... gotta represent for curvy women

Well it's true but they said i have been losing too much weight i have lost 20 pounds in the past 2 weeks and 10 pounds the 2 weeks before that. I only gained 10 pound my first3 months then just keep dropping it.

but never the less i was only kidding around about im fat deal with it.

Oh that was a total burn you *******.