Topic: Offensive
EkkoLost's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:06 PM
Yer that monkeys wikid!

citygurl's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:07 PM

What's the difference between being offensive and holding an unpopular opinion?


No difference really... it depends on who's caring, listening, responding

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:07 PM
If by subjective, you mean a way anyone can arbitrarily label something they don't like or feel uncomfortable with then yea, I agree ohwell

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:09 PM

If by subjective, you mean a way anyone can arbitrarily label something they don't like or feel uncomfortable with then yea, I agree ohwell


I think we all have our buttons that might be offensive to us but not others.

good question...I just don't know how to explain it. but I know it when I see it laugh

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:14 PM


If by subjective, you mean a way anyone can arbitrarily label something they don't like or feel uncomfortable with then yea, I agree ohwell


I think we all have our buttons that might be offensive to us but not others.

good question...I just don't know how to explain it. but I know it when I see it laugh


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MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:15 PM

Yer that monkeys wikid!
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:16 PM



What about when someone has an "offensive" odor, or wore an "offensive" colour...

It seems to me like the word "offensive" is the go-to word for anything that isn't socially acceptable or popular.

ohwell
grumble MirrorMirror get offended when people say he sling monkeypoogrumble

laugh

Yer so cuuute bigsmile


blushing

markecephus's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:17 PM
In a word,

Presentation..simply put, but true.

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:21 PM

In a word,

Presentation..simply put, but true.


so if someone puts on an evening gown and make-up with lots of lights and glitter....that's good right? laugh

markecephus's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:25 PM
More of an observation, regarding human behavior. How a person presents themselves..and especially on first meeting, is important.

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 10/09/09 10:37 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Fri 10/09/09 10:39 PM





hmmmmmm maybe the presentation???? good question...not sure I can explain it


I think this is a viable answer. flowerforyou

Eloquence in speech and organization, verification of facts, and not putting your audience on the defensive is more palatable than someone who spews their opinions willy-nilly with ignorance, hate, and unfounded information.




Eloquence....check.

Organised speech and grammar....check.

Verification of facts.....check.

Not putting the audience on the defensive.....hmmmmm....so that's the problem....thanks Melody.


I guess I am just naturally abrasive....(it's the accent, isn't it?):wink: laugh


lol I wasn't thinking of that....I was thinking more along the lines of what metal wing says. when you start something out like "hey biotch" that could be offensive

I get called that often so I'm ok with it laugh


OOOps....please be offended.... I thought melody posted that!

Please get offended at my lack of observation and my slight of acknowledging you as the poster....


noway :wink: :tongue:

Be even more offended....she did post the original quote!

noway noway noway laugh


You were right -- I posted that second quote -- in reply to YellowRose. It offends me that you made this mistake! :laughing:

BTW, the accent is never the problem. That could actually memorize your audience into giving you money! :laughing:

Mr_Music's photo
Sat 10/10/09 06:08 AM
I keep it simple. I just don't give a ****.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 10/10/09 06:13 AM


What's the difference between being offensive and holding an unpopular opinion?
:angry: im offended by this question:tongue:


laugh

no photo
Sat 10/10/09 07:55 AM

What's the difference between being offensive and holding an unpopular opinion?


Depends on who you ask.

Some people think any opinion other than their own is offensive.

I personally hold a lot of unpopular opinions, and it has surprised me how offended some people can be!

But that's a choice they make. I certainly don't try to push my beliefs on anyone else, and they're not going to be able to push theirs on me, no matter how many poorly-constructed and somewhat incomprehensible e-mails they send me.

msharmony's photo
Sat 10/10/09 08:04 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sat 10/10/09 08:13 AM
Being offensive is subjective, taking into account a specific persons singular feelings and can change from person to person. Being offensive is doing or saying something that makes another person feel imposed upon in some way or disrespected. An unpopular opinion is objective, taking into account a groups agreement with you.

To give an opinion from this forum,,,,

Not all offensive opinions are unpopular,,like the one that islam is an enemy and not all unpopular opinions are offensive either,,like the opinion that Barack Obama is a wonderful man.



no photo
Sat 10/10/09 09:34 AM


What's the difference between being offensive and holding an unpopular opinion?


I would guess personal view...I hold plenty of unpopular opinions.smokin


So do I, however, now I wear it as a badge of honor.....laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 10/10/09 09:36 AM



What's the difference between being offensive and holding an unpopular opinion?


I would guess personal view...I hold plenty of unpopular opinions.smokin


So do I, however, now I wear it as a badge of honor.....laugh


We're that good.smokin

no photo
Sat 10/10/09 09:55 AM




What's the difference between being offensive and holding an unpopular opinion?


I would guess personal view...I hold plenty of unpopular opinions.smokin


So do I, however, now I wear it as a badge of honor.....laugh


We're that good.smokin


Yes, we are.love love love love smitten

EkkoLost's photo
Sat 10/10/09 10:04 AM
It would take a very wise man,to not need to learn from another?,sometimes its just arragonce or pride?,or simply personal diffrences!,its what makes each person unique!,we,r not inbred clones!

no photo
Sat 10/10/09 10:05 AM

It would take a very wise man,to not need to learn from another?,sometimes its just arragonce or pride?,or simply personal diffrences!,its what makes each person unique!,we,r not inbred clones!


We still inbreed in West Virginia.....pitchfork laugh