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I will move on thank you
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some men don't like commitment just ask Charlie Sheen I believe David Duchovny too, if I'm not mistaken. |
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when so many of the famous one are such sleaze bags what do you expect in the real world? someone name a monogamous male famous person that's not a politician or religious person or something.
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i still say there is fiddle playing going on, but she might like the guy, and if she gets on the cello, he might like her song.
 
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well you could try telling the guy that whatever deal the girl that he's been secretly cheating on you with doesn't offer the best deal for you...that you can offer him SO much more then any s***
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three years as friends and after one day he`s lost interest.
there is something missing there has to be more try to remember the party did you get on with his friends? was their another girl paying him attention? an old flame? I`ve had a girl dump me 6 times but came back every week. she dumped me coz her friends/ family told her to. finally i got sick and said no more. then the same friend you split us asks for a date. I don`t know it`s her who`s caused the split till after i`ve started another relayionship with anoyher mindgames champ. oh i hate mind games i just don`t trust anyone like that. so mercenary selfish how can you ever trust them. it`s happened more than once. your situation could be similar can`t you talk to a mutual friend and get more feed back. if he`s being played he`ll find out and he`ll be back. you`ve got to be careful he`s not the one playing mind games. if he is your better off staying away from him friends an all. what ever happens get out with your friends flirt alot and have a good time. |
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you know what you did and if you didn't do anything move on it aint worth it
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IF you were good friends with him, never cross that line in the first place. BUT since you did, he is being a jerk and you need to forget him even as a friend. Move on with your life and find some new friends and don't let him back into your life!!
You are a young lady who is very pretty...go out and give some of those other young guys a chance!! BUT when you find someone, DON'T let this loser back into your life no matter what!! Good Luck 
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somebody will get burned if they go backwards instead of forward.
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wow just being me looks really hot now
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I had a friend that i have known for 3 years and the week of the 12th this month we decided to be a couple. I met up with him and his friends last Thursday to Halloween Horror nights and that went ok I guess. I started to notice after that he wasn't calling me as much and I have these weird feelings something was wrong with him, the sound in his voice was different he seem to have a headache each time i talk to him. So Monday morning I decided to text him "hey we haven't had a real conversation whats going on and I asked If he wanted to be with me still or just be friends just let me know. So the whole day went by and I text-ed him again he responded that there was a lot going on with him and work was crazy and on top of it I sent him that text. so he didn't talk to me for 3 days after that. Last night he finally texted me and what I found out was that hes visiting another girl today and taking a few days off from work just to be with her he says" he was going to help her out cause hes such a good friend. I though that was messed up of him. Honestly....and I am a dude....us guys just cannot decide what we want...sometimes. I say this because it is true. We think we have it figured out, but then we don't. What I see here, from what you posted, was that he "thought" he wanted to be a couple with you, but then this other girl came along and now he isn't sure. What I see is that he wants to see what can happen with her, keeping you on the sidelines to wait. Now, he did eventually tell you the truth, but it still took him time to do so. Yeah, three days probably isn't much to him, but to you I am sure it seemed like a lifetime. You wanted to know what was what. You did nothing wrong here. You just got caught in a weird situation where this guy is now trying to decide what he should do. No, it isn't fair to you at all, but that is what I see here. And, I don't feel that his feelings were strong enough for a relationship with you. If they were, you never would have been in this situation. |
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u heard it froma dude.
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I had a friend that i have known for 3 years and the week of the 12th this month we decided to be a couple. I met up with him and his friends last Thursday to Halloween Horror nights and that went ok I guess. I started to notice after that he wasn't calling me as much and I have these weird feelings something was wrong with him, the sound in his voice was different he seem to have a headache each time i talk to him. So Monday morning I decided to text him "hey we haven't had a real conversation whats going on and I asked If he wanted to be with me still or just be friends just let me know. So the whole day went by and I text-ed him again he responded that there was a lot going on with him and work was crazy and on top of it I sent him that text. so he didn't talk to me for 3 days after that. Last night he finally texted me and what I found out was that hes visiting another girl today and taking a few days off from work just to be with her he says" he was going to help her out cause hes such a good friend. I though that was messed up of him.
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MOve on with your life hun, you certainly do not need this kind of treatment. Let this miscreant go play his little mind games elsewhere, capitalize on who you are.............A woman, and a damned good looking one at that!! Good luck.
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I had a friend that i have known for 3 years and the week of the 12th this month we decided to be a couple. I met up with him and his friends last Thursday to Halloween Horror nights and that went ok I guess. I started to notice after that he wasn't calling me as much and I have these weird feelings something was wrong with him, the sound in his voice was different he seem to have a headache each time i talk to him. So Monday morning I decided to text him "hey we haven't had a real conversation whats going on and I asked If he wanted to be with me still or just be friends just let me know. So the whole day went by and I text-ed him again he responded that there was a lot going on with him and work was crazy and on top of it I sent him that text. so he didn't talk to me for 3 days after that. Last night he finally texted me and what I found out was that hes visiting another girl today and taking a few days off from work just to be with her he says" he was going to help her out cause hes such a good friend. I though that was messed up of him. Inside a steel cage....with chairs. 
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Threw out the 3 years I've known him I didn't pay attention to him. just every few months call him and that was it. So since he asked me to be his girlfriend I made an effort to call him once a day everyday. It is doubtful that you totally dedicated three years to a guy you only contacted every few months so don't exaggerate the loss and make yourself feel worse than you need to. This guy wanted a girlfriend that was distant and once he ask you to be his girlfriend you redefined the relationship and went to contacting him every day so he lost what little interest he had. Bites that this happen but it makes sense. |
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now Pacific Star is becoming interesting...so harsh...yet truthful.
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Southern you have made my day that was a great call.. A little more honesty is what is needed between courting possible couples.... what do you want??? sex and a companion... relationship? just a F*&k,,,its seems these questions are hard to answer even by someone stating they want marriage or a relationship.. Just sort through the bullsh** i guess??? Who knows
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Ohh and youre better than that!!! find someone else and he'll be texting you again.. if not who cares..Move on ... that was in bad taste.... Giving the good ones a bad name
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