Topic: what did I do wrong?
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Thu 10/22/09 06:47 PM

kick him in the balls and smack him over the head with a frying pan hes got a small dick and hes a loserflowerforyou


i find junk punching to be more effective and fun

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Thu 10/22/09 06:48 PM


kick him in the balls and smack him over the head with a frying pan hes got a small dick and hes a loserflowerforyou


i find junk punching to be more effective and fun


lmao yeah that is one of my classic favorites laugh

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Thu 10/22/09 06:57 PM
Thanks everyone for the advise

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Thu 10/22/09 07:03 PM
ima old lady, but this guy....u r describing... is a ficker.

and furthermore, he left you hanging/danging by your heart strings.

so dump him, and find a prince more charming. one that drives a porche....not a clunker.

and this time put your nose in the air, and act like a queen, don't snivel, because you behaved with a graceful nature that i don't see very often from a woman who has been put on the back burner while prince goes and rescues another damsel. my guess is he is getting a new boink or 2.

And plays u both like a fiddle..

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Thu 10/22/09 07:09 PM
I don't believe it necessarily follows that you did anything wrong.

Event the girl story by your bosom guy could be a false pretense.

Anything might have happened.

1. He could have been told he's got a forn of incurable cancer.
2. He could have started on heroin and he's realized how stupid that was to do.
3. His mother told him that his father was not his father, but his father (supposing he's catholic.)
4. He lost his entire weath becaus the other guy had a pair of tens and a queen.
5. Everything else.

So I would not blame yourself if you were me. Instead, start reading Wittgenstein and Russell. They both talk about exactly this dilemma.

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Thu 10/22/09 07:12 PM
hahahahahahaflowerforyou

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Thu 10/22/09 07:22 PM
just get a bottle of captain morgan..and drink till he matters no more...you will be fine he is not worth all the tears and your doubting yourself...

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Thu 10/22/09 07:32 PM
no baileys and cream is better. it puts u 2 sleep.noway

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Thu 10/22/09 11:48 PM
I could think of some painful things you could do with habanero peppers to him. laugh laugh laugh devil devil

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Fri 10/23/09 01:34 AM
Just leave him alone and if he calls you in a day or two he is still interested if he dosent he probably wont call.. you will never know what happened that turned him off. He could have just been waiting three years to sleep with you or he might have thought you had B.O. Dont sweat over him go have fun life to short to sweat the small stuff..

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Fri 10/23/09 01:59 AM
Sorry your guy turned out to be a louse. You are smart to trust your instincts and find out what is going on.

Next time I think I would have made a guy play his cards before so much time went by.

Chances are he was messing around all along but when you made him look like a creep in front of his friends he figured he would get caught. Probably be one of them would treat you better but generally bird's of a feather so be careful with that idea.

There are better guys out there. Keep your chin up shoulders back and they will notice a pretty gal like yourself soon enough.

Welcome to Mingle.

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Fri 10/23/09 03:35 AM
the advantage of being a male is that if a girl screws you over bad enough, you just go on the prowl.

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Fri 10/23/09 04:17 AM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Fri 10/23/09 04:23 AM

I had a friend that i have known for 3 years and the week of the 12th this month we decided to be a couple. I met up with him and his friends last Thursday to Halloween Horror nights and that went ok I guess. I started to notice after that he wasn't calling me as much and I have these weird feelings something was wrong with him, the sound in his voice was different he seem to have a headache each time i talk to him. So Monday morning I decided to text him "hey we haven't had a real conversation whats going on and I asked If he wanted to be with me still or just be friends just let me know. So the whole day went by and I text-ed him again he responded that there was a lot going on with him and work was crazy and on top of it I sent him that text. so he didn't talk to me for 3 days after that. Last night he finally texted me and what I found out was that hes visiting another girl today and taking a few days off from work just to be with her he says" he was going to help her out cause hes such a good friend. I though that was messed up of him.


He just wasnt into you, its good this happened, cos now you know..

I mean, if a man is into you.. hell FIND any way to keep close contact. Theres NOTHING thats gonna keep a man whos into you, and trying to impress you from keeping in your good graces.

Also, if he says hes into you, and keeps contact, but is short, or just contacts you rarely.. you know this guy isnt holding you as a priority.

I just give the number if he asks, if he contacts me, bonus..

But I dont think about anything and just go on doing my everyday life, and forget about the whole him thing until much much later after hes proved himself to be respectable, and worthwhile.

Ill bet everyone goes through this. I know I have.

Oh, and by the way.. cut his lying *** off.. What a child not being honest with a woman.

Good luck. flowerforyou

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Fri 10/23/09 05:07 AM
Another loser self selected to eliminate himself from your dating pool.

Move on....

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Fri 10/23/09 10:50 AM
thank you your awesome

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Fri 10/23/09 10:56 AM
Threw out the 3 years I've known him I didn't pay attention to him. just every few months call him and that was it. So since he asked me to be his girlfriend I made an effort to call him once a day everyday.

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Fri 10/23/09 11:43 AM
you did nothing wrong, It's him not you. Don't let it bother you. There are other fish in the sea. Good Luck

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Fri 10/23/09 12:32 PM
Why are women so greedy, don't any of you know how to share? Maybe this guy is just too much man for just one woman. Some guys can handle several women at a time, like Hugh Hefner. Nobody gets upset when he dates several women at a time.
OK OK JK, in the real world this guy is just fickle. Some people live thier lives always looking for the BBD. You might be better off moving on.

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Fri 10/23/09 01:48 PM
The older ladies right about him leaving you dangling by the heart strings and I have that problem girls like to screw me over idk what to do besides give up everyone seems to let me down so idk but, I'd get rit of him its not worth the heart ache.

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Fri 10/23/09 02:03 PM
some men don't like commitment just ask Charlie Sheen