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So we have all these threads pointing out the flaws of the opposite gender. Are we all looking for perfection when we really know there is no such thing? I know myself..very well, and am well aware of my quirks. Some that may be deal breakers as far as a relationship... I've raised a family alone and am very independent, and use to being the boss. I'm a paycheck to paycheck single mom. I'm menopausal, and have my b!tch moments. I'm not a Christian. I dabble with Tarot Cards, Full Moon fires, energy healing's.. things that come off as strange to some. I am protective of my sons, even though they are grown up. I like to sleep in and if I don't get to, I like naps. I don't really like to cook. I'm no Suzi home maker, my house is never completely clean and always have a pile of laundry. I'm opinionated. I'm super-sensitive and cry...nothing has to be wrong, I just feel what others feel. I'm more of a listener than a talker, I won't always say what I'm thinking or feeling. I will if asked... I don't like my mother. I'm not into hunting and fishing..so I won't do that with a man. I don't take any shiit from anyone. I have saggy boobs. These are just a few of the things others may not like about me. I admit it..I'm not perfect. So you really think your the perfect catch? What are some of your quirks that would turn someone off? |
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You and I have a lot in common
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I tend to analyze things to death...I can be very cynical.
However, I'll take issue..I won't say "why are women like this". If 500 women act a certain negative way towards me..the real question would be "what am I doing wrong". Of course people don't like to look within themselves. |
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We have a lot in common, Sis.
I speak my mind and that tends to piss a lot of folks off. I don't see that aspect of my personality changing, so it's the single life for me it seems. |
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Well I'm not listing to many negatives about me...( After all,I am here to try to impress a guy!
 ) I hate cooking and cleaning! Sometimes I get along better with animals then people. My job & kids keep me really busy and I love it! I've been trying to loose weight now for about 4 &1/2 years ....so much for dedication! |
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We have a lot in common, Sis. I speak my mind and that tends to piss a lot of folks off. I don't see that aspect of my personality changing, so it's the single life for me it seems. I'm all for people speaking their mind. By all means I'd rather have the truth than some baked up false crap spewed simply to make me feel better. But I think its also how you speak your mind. Do you talk down to the person? How is the tone? Is it from the tone of a friend who cares? Or a parent or other authority figure? Big difference in the two. |
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Well lets see...hmmmmmmmm.
I enjoy long walks on the beach. I knit sweaters for poodles. Oh wait! Wrong thread!! 
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----->B!tch! |
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I wont put up with your ****.
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I have a droll sarcastic outlook on life.
And I love to cruise the internet while not wearing pants. |
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Edited by
heartSoul
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Sat 01/23/10 07:09 PM
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We have a lot in common, Sis. I speak my mind and that tends to piss a lot of folks off. I don't see that aspect of my personality changing, so it's the single life for me it seems. I'm all for people speaking their mind. By all means I'd rather have the truth than some baked up false crap spewed simply to make me feel better. But I think its also how you speak your mind. Do you talk down to the person? How is the tone? Is it from the tone of a friend who cares? Or a parent or other authority figure? Big difference in the two. You are a rare breed. I don't talk down to anyone. Never had. But I will not sugar coat things. I'm not a loud and abrasive person either. I get my point across, and they can take it or leave it. Really doesn't matter who I am talking too. When people ask my opinion, I ask do they really want to hear it. Because if they want it sugar coated, they need to ask someone else. |
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your a good cracked pot lady
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We have a lot in common, Sis. I speak my mind and that tends to piss a lot of folks off. I don't see that aspect of my personality changing, so it's the single life for me it seems. I'm all for people speaking their mind. By all means I'd rather have the truth than some baked up false crap spewed simply to make me feel better. But I think its also how you speak your mind. Do you talk down to the person? How is the tone? Is it from the tone of a friend who cares? Or a parent or other authority figure? Big difference in the two. You are a rare breed. I don't talk down to anyone. Never had. But I will not sugar coat things. I'm not a loud and abrasive person either. I get my point across, and they can take it or leave it. Really doesn't matter who I am talking too. When people ask my opinion, I ask do they really want to hear it. Because if they want it sugar coated, they need to ask someone else. Good. If you don't mind I'd also like your opinion on a recent thread I started in this section. Maybe a second opinion. I liked the first, and thought it had alot of merit, but I'm always interested in additional comments. Please? :) |
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I tend to analyze things to death...I can be very cynical. However, I'll take issue..I won't say "why are women like this". If 500 women act a certain negative way towards me..the real question would be "what am I doing wrong". Of course people don't like to look within themselves. I agree as far as most don't want to look within themselves... You over analyze.. your not one of them that talks all through and points out all the mistakes while watching a movie are you? Man, that drives me crazy.. |
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I tend to analyze things to death...I can be very cynical. However, I'll take issue..I won't say "why are women like this". If 500 women act a certain negative way towards me..the real question would be "what am I doing wrong". Of course people don't like to look within themselves. I agree as far as most don't want to look within themselves... You over analyze.. your not one of them that talks all through and points out all the mistakes while watching a movie are you? Man, that drives me crazy.. Not all of them. Maybe just 1 or 2 that seem completely absurd. And I take hints, if you don't like that overanalyzing..I won't do it....unless I'm in the "I feel like annoying the hell out of you" mood. :) |
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Ok. Here goes.
I am kinda opinionated. I can be pretty loud at times. I live cheap but still have some relatively nice stuff. If a woman told me it was " either me or the dog "...the dog stays. I am sarcastic. I'm a cynic. I am kinda lazy when it comes to cleaning out my car. I clean my house when it starts to bug me. I despise doing dishes. Make me laugh and you'll probably steal my heart. |
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im not a realist and tend to try to pretend bad things dont happen. talking about my feelings is very hard for me. i giggle about everything- could be something funny- could be that im scared- could be that im trying not to cry...
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We have a lot in common, Sis. I speak my mind and that tends to piss a lot of folks off. I don't see that aspect of my personality changing, so it's the single life for me it seems. I'm all for people speaking their mind. By all means I'd rather have the truth than some baked up false crap spewed simply to make me feel better. But I think its also how you speak your mind. Do you talk down to the person? How is the tone? Is it from the tone of a friend who cares? Or a parent or other authority figure? Big difference in the two. You are a rare breed. I don't talk down to anyone. Never had. But I will not sugar coat things. I'm not a loud and abrasive person either. I get my point across, and they can take it or leave it. Really doesn't matter who I am talking too. When people ask my opinion, I ask do they really want to hear it. Because if they want it sugar coated, they need to ask someone else. Good. If you don't mind I'd also like your opinion on a recent thread I started in this section. Maybe a second opinion. I liked the first, and thought it had alot of merit, but I'm always interested in additional comments. Please? :) sure... I'll check it out... |
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I too like to listen
I feel people are too greedy sometime I feel it's always ok to be wrong and not know everything I live paycheck to paycheck I have been thru menopause and don't enjoy sex as much as I used to I like rock AND new hip hop, especially Lady GaGa!!! I have some gray hair and will not color it!!! I earned it!! I like to eat healthy I dont' like to drink much I don't like kissing smokers |
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I find, I'm having to lift my moobs to wipe the sweat out from under them and they flop when I run.
Stolen from, justaguy2112. I was too lazy to type it all out again.  Ok. Here goes. I am kinda opinionated. I can be pretty loud at times. I live cheap but still have some relatively nice stuff. If a woman told me it was " either me or the dog "...the dog stays. I am sarcastic. I'm a cynic. I am kinda lazy when it comes to cleaning out my car. I clean my house when it starts to bug me. I despise doing dishes. Make me laugh and you'll probably steal my heart. |
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