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After the overnights begin...how scary is this question and why?
"Is it okay if I leave a few things here?" |
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Yeah, you can leave all the cash you want, your credit cards and car keys.
   
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Yeah, you can leave all the cash you want, your credit cards and car keys. LOL!! |
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Overnights would'nt begin for me unless I was serious in the first place so it would be fine !
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After the overnights begin...how scary is this question and why? "Is it okay if I leave a few things here?" It all depends on the person -- ranging anywhere from "Yes, please feel free to leave anything and everything here you want!" all the way down to "Just make sure it's in a lead-lined box." Seriously, if she's staying overnight, I have to be fairly comfortable with her already, so it's not that scary. |
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After the overnights begin...how scary is this question and why? "Is it okay if I leave a few things here?" bargaining chips?! it really should not be too scary. never was for me. it is a matter of convenience and trust. although there was that one time when her friend hit on me and i never got a few things back. i am pretty sure they were used to burn me in effigy. but i don't have any hard proof. at least i travel light so she didn't have my guitar and laptop. 
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Seriously, if she's staying overnight, I have to be fairly comfortable with her already, so it's not that scary. That's what i think, too. A guy friend of mine was just recently asked this and he freaked, thought the girl was trying to move on him. I said.."Dude, she asked if she could leave a toothbrush and a hair dryer, not become a co-tenant on the lease!" 
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Edited by
Updawg
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Sat 01/30/10 12:38 PM
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If I have allowed her to stay the night, at that point it probly does not matter if she leaves stuff. It takes alot to get to the point of an over nighter.
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It implies that there will be more 'overnighters', more than just the next one. That means whatever is going on has the potential to become a long term relationship. Right now, for me it would be OK.
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 I left a toothbrush in California! 
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It's okay, and no, I wouldn't mind. She's got to put her thong underwear in the hamper though.
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After the overnights begin...how scary is this question and why? "Is it okay if I leave a few things here?" It all depends on the person -- ranging anywhere from "Yes, please feel free to leave anything and everything here you want!" all the way down to "Just make sure it's in a lead-lined box." Seriously, if she's staying overnight, I have to be fairly comfortable with her already, so it's not that scary. I concur...not that it will ever happen, but I vision it happening a lot like that. |
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Why would she want to leave a few things in the No Tell Motel????
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It's okay, and no, I wouldn't mind. She's got to put her thong underwear in the hamper though. 
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I left a toothbrush in California!
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Why would she want to leave a few things in the No Tell Motel???? 
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I'm not worried about her leaving stuff.... I'm worried about her taking stuff...
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I'm not worried about her leaving stuff.... I'm worried about her taking stuff... Mmhmm |
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my dogs love chewing on new toys
but seriously, actually that was serious, anyhow, it would be fine I need more stuff for ebay....lmao |
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Hummm heck by reading what others have said before on other threads of this nature seems most women don't even ask they just happen to forget stuff when they leave.
 So if they actually ask he should be impressed that she actually wants to come back
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