Topic: how do i keep a gay relationship
WereFox's photo
Wed 02/17/10 01:27 PM
is there any tips how to keep a gay relationship?

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 02/17/10 01:28 PM
Haha, most of us can't keep a relationship period...should have maybe picked another site instead of a singles site for relationship advice. All the best either way.

WereFox's photo
Wed 02/17/10 01:30 PM
thats why im asking becuz im single

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 02/17/10 01:33 PM

thats why im asking becuz im single


Well, that is different than wondering how to keep a relationship going. My advice, get the relationship first if that is what you want, then worry about the details. Go out, socialize with fellow peer's, hit some clubs or book stores. Unfortunately, this online dating thing, well, it doesn't work out as well as most people assume it would.

no photo
Wed 02/17/10 01:38 PM
I would assume keeping a gay relationship would be the same as keeping any other sort of relationship. Treat the other person as you want to be treated, try to be kind, if you make a mistake, apologize and never repeat the act, forgive the other person if they mistreat you, and they're sincerely sorry. I don't know, sounds pretty simple to me.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 02/17/10 01:53 PM
What did you do this time? Come on, share. Give us a hint, maybe?

Queene123's photo
Wed 02/17/10 01:55 PM
my daughter just got out of a lesbien relationship
she had been with her ex partner for a little over a year and the family saw the negtive of her ex partner
my daughter was so blind.
even in all the readings i did for her it showed nothing but abuse
and i saw the brake up wayyyy bfore it ever happen
she was only thinking of herself and not really my grandkids
but now sense she back home and away from negativty she doing better
she moved with her ex partner to tinian which that is where her ex partner is from because her ex father is dying of cancer
during the time they were there her ex was controling her and my grandkids which she had no right to even do that
when they broke up, her ex threaten to kill her and said i can kill you and no one would be able to find your body
her ex kicked them out at 1am and the police were called.
they took my daughter and grandkids to a safe house where protective service took over by paying for there emergency housing
so if your wanting to keep a relationship(any relationship) that is being abusive or just isent working out. you dont want to force the partner to stay

CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 02/17/10 02:12 PM

my daughter just got out of a lesbien relationship
she had been with her ex partner for a little over a year and the family saw the negtive of her ex partner
my daughter was so blind.
even in all the readings i did for her it showed nothing but abuse
and i saw the brake up wayyyy bfore it ever happen
she was only thinking of herself and not really my grandkids
but now sense she back home and away from negativty she doing better
she moved with her ex partner to tinian which that is where her ex partner is from because her ex father is dying of cancer
during the time they were there her ex was controling her and my grandkids which she had no right to even do that
when they broke up, her ex threaten to kill her and said i can kill you and no one would be able to find your body
her ex kicked them out at 1am and the police were called.
they took my daughter and grandkids to a safe house where protective service took over by paying for there emergency housing
so if your wanting to keep a relationship(any relationship) that is being abusive or just isent working out. you dont want to force the partner to stay


That, and ending it sooner rather than later. It gets pretty messy, when CPS, the police, and the courts get involved in your relationship. A simple parting of ways is less destructive. I digress however, werefox asked how does he "keep?" Not how to "end."

bedlum1's photo
Wed 02/17/10 02:20 PM
go straight...rofl

Queene123's photo
Wed 02/17/10 02:22 PM
Edited by Queene123 on Wed 02/17/10 02:22 PM

go straight...rofl


thats not funny
even if he was straight he would ask the same question
and the same thing i said would be for any kind of relationship
you dont want to force them to stay
and jealousy doesnt work

bedlum1's photo
Wed 02/17/10 02:27 PM
i thought it was hilarioushappy :tongue: rofl those who cant laugh about life need to lighten updrinker

Jennerling's photo
Wed 02/17/10 02:29 PM
do it in da butt :banana:

WereFox's photo
Mon 02/22/10 09:39 AM
lol well im gay so i mean that had no offence to me XD

anyways i had an ex boyfriend and he was always wanting sex but i refused to give it to him i mean we just started dating 2 weeks before thanksgiving and apparently since i didn't give him what he wanted he broke up with me

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 02/22/10 09:41 AM

go straight...rofl


Oh yeah, that is a far better plan...hell mate, it doesn't matter, gay or straight we are all pretty much screwed.

WereFox's photo
Mon 02/22/10 09:51 AM
indeed that is true lol

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 02/22/10 10:04 AM
the same way with straight people. If the couple is right for each other, then it makes it a lot easier

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 02/22/10 10:07 AM
Honestly as some has said it does not matter whether your gay or straight. A relationship is something that it takes 2 to give 100% or it will never work... But by refusing something from your partner is not a good start. It just shows that both do not have the same desires.

But then what do I know hell I'm single as well so guess either I have not found that one I match with myself either yet.....whoa

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 02/22/10 10:11 AM
I know many gay couples

they have to work at it just like a straight couple!:heart:

WereFox's photo
Mon 02/22/10 10:13 AM
i had said no becuase he was 15 going on 16+