Topic: friends with benefits
TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 03/01/10 08:58 AM
Hummm so in the other thread many said they would not have a friends with benefit relationship. But........now some of those same ones are saying that it is okay to have those if you think they will turn into a relationshipnoway noway slaphead slaphead slaphead .....


Hummmmwhoa this is a bit confusing....................noway

TxsSun's photo
Mon 03/01/10 09:07 AM
Edited by TxsSun on Mon 03/01/10 09:43 AM



And sometimes you wish you'd known sooner.


I don't believe that will happen:wink:



Edit to add, I like living in my happy world.:smile:

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 03/01/10 11:20 AM

Hummm so in the other thread many said they would not have a friends with benefit relationship. But........now some of those same ones are saying that it is okay to have those if you think they will turn into a relationshipnoway noway slaphead slaphead slaphead .....


Hummmmwhoa this is a bit confusing....................noway


I'm with you...confusing bit, isn't it?

Personally, friends with benefits is useless. Never has, never will, and I don't even see logically how it can work.

misswright's photo
Mon 03/01/10 12:05 PM

Do u think starting off as friends with benefit can ruin a lasting relationship


This "friends with benefits" concept doesn't exist in my world. I have male friends that I don't have sex with. Or I'm having sex with one person and I consider that a relationship. There's no commitment until he becomes my fiance or husband, so he can do what he wants but I choose to sleep with only one person at a time. Am I his friend with benefits or his girlfriend?

This is precisely why I don't label relationships or people. ohwell

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 03/02/10 06:20 AM
I had a fwb relationship

we had booty calls when needed
(nice girls get horny too!!) haha

after we were satisfied we remained freinds 24/7

we didn't love each other. Didn't want a relationship
it was good sex

if your over 21. Really your sexuality is yours
everyone has diff opinions on the subject
let's just respect them

me

I see nothing wrong with it

if you do I respect your opinion:heart:

GummiBear's photo
Tue 03/02/10 06:31 AM
depends on the friend.

RKISIT's photo
Tue 03/02/10 06:40 AM

How else would you start.........smokin
technically this is a true statement.if you read most profiles ,well from what i've read in womens profiles, they state "friends first".plus most adult women will have sex during this "friends first" time period

TheShadow's photo
Tue 03/02/10 06:48 AM

Hummm so in the other thread many said they would not have a friends with benefit relationship. But........now some of those same ones are saying that it is okay to have those if you think they will turn into a relationshipnoway noway slaphead slaphead slaphead .....


Hummmmwhoa this is a bit confusing....................noway


it's funny to see some of these post.

FWB to me is what it is and that's FWB and nothing more.


Ruth34611's photo
Tue 03/02/10 06:49 AM

Do u think starting off as friends with benefit can ruin a lasting relationship


Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

My philosophy is that if you are worried about something it's because you know there is something to worry about.

no photo
Sun 03/07/10 05:01 PM
It wouldn't work for me...

Sounds too high school, IMO......

no photo
Sun 03/07/10 07:10 PM

It wouldn't work for me...

Sounds too high school, IMO......


:thumbsup:

janeh's photo
Sun 03/07/10 07:19 PM
In theory this sounds good, but one of the tow will start to have more emotional feelings then the other and this is where things will go wrong.

D156's photo
Sun 03/07/10 07:22 PM
Do u think starting off as friends with benefit can ruin a lasting relationship
NO ID RATHER BE FRIENDS WIT BENAFITS

no photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:49 PM

I have the friend, I'm just waiting for the benefits. bigsmile


Did I mention that I'm a 'benefits provider' ... ? I'm just sayin' ...


newarkjw's photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:53 PM


How else would you start.........smokin
technically this is a true statement.if you read most profiles ,well from what i've read in womens profiles, they state "friends first".plus most adult women will have sex during this "friends first" time period



Makes sense to me but you know women. They always got to think to god damn much........smokin

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:56 PM



How else would you start.........smokin
technically this is a true statement.if you read most profiles ,well from what i've read in womens profiles, they state "friends first".plus most adult women will have sex during this "friends first" time period



Makes sense to me but you know women. They always got to think to god damn much........smokin


pffft

no photo
Thu 03/11/10 04:57 PM




How else would you start.........smokin
technically this is a true statement.if you read most profiles ,well from what i've read in womens profiles, they state "friends first".plus most adult women will have sex during this "friends first" time period



Makes sense to me but you know women. They always got to think to god damn much........smokin


pffft


double pffft.

newarkjw's photo
Thu 03/11/10 05:00 PM
I just got a double pffft.......smokin

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 03/11/10 05:02 PM

I just got a double pffft.......smokin


yep, you did, but don't THINK so much about it...winking

newarkjw's photo
Thu 03/11/10 05:09 PM


I just got a double pffft.......smokin


yep, you did, but don't THINK so much about it...winking


I gotcha. You are being polite and telling me to shut the f!ck up....happy