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From having bad past relationships, do you get a little 'scared' when a good person comes into your life?
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Absolutely.
Then again, I've never actually had a "good person" come into my life, so maybe that would play out differently.... |
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I did but now I have the best
 .You'll never know how good it can be if you don't take a chance.
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Absolutely. Then again, I've never actually had a "good person" come into my life, so maybe that would play out differently.... Is it almost like you are waiting to see if the person changes or waiting for something 'bad' to emerge? |
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I did but now I have the best .You'll never know how good it can be if you don't take a chance. I have never been one to walk away from chance.... I am in the middle of it right now! 
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I did but now I have the best .You'll never know how good it can be if you don't take a chance. I have never been one to walk away from chance.... I am in the middle of it right now! never thought that u would.GOOD LUCK I hope it works out for u. |
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I did but now I have the best .You'll never know how good it can be if you don't take a chance. I have never been one to walk away from chance.... I am in the middle of it right now! never thought that u would.GOOD LUCK I hope it works out for u.  Thanks!
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Absolutely. Then again, I've never actually had a "good person" come into my life, so maybe that would play out differently.... Is it almost like you are waiting to see if the person changes or waiting for something 'bad' to emerge? Yeah, I would always think "Hey, she's great, maybe she won't be like the last few dozen...." but, nope, give her 3 months and she's EXACTLY the same! Now it's hard for me to imagine anyone NOT fitting right into that pattern.... |
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The good one is the one I have been holding out for!
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Absolutely. Then again, I've never actually had a "good person" come into my life, so maybe that would play out differently.... Is it almost like you are waiting to see if the person changes or waiting for something 'bad' to emerge? Yeah, I would always think "Hey, she's great, maybe she won't be like the last few dozen...." but, nope, give her 3 months and she's EXACTLY the same! Now it's hard for me to imagine anyone NOT fitting right into that pattern.... Yeah... my thing is... I have had a few relationships (where I could have been blinded by the initial love/lust) where the person presented themselves one way... and later showed their true selves. And unfortunately, had a couple serious relationships where the guys were bi-polar and manipulative and such. I have been in relationship where they said the right things... but as time went on.... it was clear it wasn't what they meant... or just said it to say it. Just stuff like that.... it's just odd when I go for a period of time where I am meeting guys that only want bootycalls.... or aren't that interested in me.... or guys that are really interested in me, but I can't stand them.... And all of a sudden I meet someone that compliments my life and feels like he belongs in my life... and I haven't scared him off yet... my son hasn't scared him off yet.... Just seems that sometimes I am just waiting for the ball to drop. 
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No......
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Absolutely. Then again, I've never actually had a "good person" come into my life, so maybe that would play out differently.... Is it almost like you are waiting to see if the person changes or waiting for something 'bad' to emerge? Yeah, I would always think "Hey, she's great, maybe she won't be like the last few dozen...." but, nope, give her 3 months and she's EXACTLY the same! Now it's hard for me to imagine anyone NOT fitting right into that pattern.... LOL Lex....it's amazing to me how the "3-Month" period always plays itself out to be truth! It doesn't matter how much a potential partner claims to be "different" from the rest....90 days tells the true story! |
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Absolutely. Then again, I've never actually had a "good person" come into my life, so maybe that would play out differently.... Is it almost like you are waiting to see if the person changes or waiting for something 'bad' to emerge? Yeah, I would always think "Hey, she's great, maybe she won't be like the last few dozen...." but, nope, give her 3 months and she's EXACTLY the same! Now it's hard for me to imagine anyone NOT fitting right into that pattern.... LOL Lex....it's amazing to me how the "3-Month" period always plays itself out to be truth! It doesn't matter how much a potential partner claims to be "different" from the rest....90 days tells the true story! So I guess I have about 60 more days to go until I find out, huh?
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From having bad past relationships, do you get a little 'scared' when a good person comes into your life? |
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From having bad past relationships, do you get a little 'scared' when a good person comes into your life? It isn't about staying or not.... if someone doesn't want to be with me I would rather them go.... but more like its not for real... like it's a dream and I am going to wake up. That I am making more of it than there is.... all that stuff. |
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Absolutely. Then again, I've never actually had a "good person" come into my life, so maybe that would play out differently.... Is it almost like you are waiting to see if the person changes or waiting for something 'bad' to emerge? Yeah, I would always think "Hey, she's great, maybe she won't be like the last few dozen...." but, nope, give her 3 months and she's EXACTLY the same! Now it's hard for me to imagine anyone NOT fitting right into that pattern.... LOL Lex....it's amazing to me how the "3-Month" period always plays itself out to be truth! It doesn't matter how much a potential partner claims to be "different" from the rest....90 days tells the true story! So I guess I have about 60 more days to go until I find out, huh? I hope it works for you Tanya
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I hope it works for you Tanya Thanks, sweets! I don't see why it wouldn't... everything is good so far.
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A little. But, it's more exciting when you meet someone new that you want to get to know, rather than scary.
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Yeah... my thing is... I have had a few relationships (where I could have been blinded by the initial love/lust) where the person presented themselves one way... and later showed their true selves. And unfortunately, had a couple serious relationships where the guys were bi-polar and manipulative and such. I always had the tendency to want to give them the benefit of the doubt going in....I always wanted to think "this time it will be different." But you can only fool yourself for so long, and for so many times. I have been in relationship where they said the right things... but as time went on.... it was clear it wasn't what they meant... or just said it to say it. It seems to me that a lot of them started out saying whatever it was they thought I wanted to hear -- not because they meant it but because they figured it would further their agenda....and then, when they thought they were comfortably ensconced in the relationship, it was OK to reveal their true ambitions.... Just stuff like that.... it's just odd when I go for a period of time where I am meeting guys that only want bootycalls.... or aren't that interested in me.... or guys that are really interested in me, but I can't stand them.... It's been a very long time since I've met anyone I found even vaguely interesting or attractive -- a very, very long time -- but, back in the old days, I met many women who professed an interest in me, but I don't believe (today, anyway) any of them were interested in me, as me -- they were interested in the me they could (hopefully) mold me into being. And all of a sudden I meet someone that compliments my life and feels like he belongs in my life... and I haven't scared him off yet... my son hasn't scared him off yet.... Just seems that sometimes I am just waiting for the ball to drop. If I met someone like that, I would have a difficult time believing it was even possible....and I would be skeptical (this is natural for me now!)....BUT I would like to think that I'd maintain an awareness of a POSSIBILITY that maybe this one is different --- even though I think the sheer genetics of it all would ultimately torpedo the whole thing, regardless -- so I understand what you're saying. I haven't seen a "good one" yet. That doesn't mean they don't exist. But I've still seen no evidence that they do exist, either. |
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sexy lexy, I have hope for you!
If the possibility walked into my life and I haven't scared it away yet.... possiblity is out there for you too!
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