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Topic: Why cant i find a good looking easy going girl my age
unbreakableheart's photo
Tue 04/20/10 09:27 PM
if u have any advice please let me know

bastet126's photo
Tue 04/20/10 09:34 PM
cuz you have an unbreakable heart, make it breakable and then they will flock to you. but then you'll be on here posting 'why can't i find a good looking easy going girl my age that won't break my heart... so, just give it time, she will come.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Tue 04/20/10 11:15 PM
Good lord man.

Start browsing profiles.

They are ALL laid back and easy going.

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Tue 04/20/10 11:18 PM
Edited by HannahHatesBananas on Tue 04/20/10 11:18 PM
They went out to find uptight businessmen twice their age.

lovingboater's photo
Wed 04/21/10 02:24 AM
Well...

For one thing, you have a child. And a woman that gave birth to that child. In your life. And that means problems for most women, any age.
And it works the same for guys as well. they generally don't want a woman with a child.

And it's plain and simple. Most people are shallow. They can barely handle their own problems, let alone deal with a blended family situation. And blended families are difficult. They present a range of problems... because the ex's are usually "NOT" cooperative... and they make life difficult.

So... here's some advice from a guy that has been there...

Seek only women with children. You might want to look for women in their early 20's, because they have more experience with the guys that won't date them, because they have children. You would come across as concerned father... and be in your child's life. In spite of the problems.

Your in a hard place. I feel for you. If you wish more information, feel free to send me a message... I will give you all the help I can...

unbreakableheart's photo
Wed 04/21/10 09:34 AM
thanx for all the advice. i have been though a lot with women probs the last one was the worst we were together for three years i even bought her the ring of her dreams done every thing for her and then come to find out she was cheating on me while i was at work with my brother for two of the three years. this is why my screen name is unbreakable heart cause i dont think i could be hurt any more than that we even have a 2 daughter that turns 2 in august and hanna that is so true yet some how funny as hell

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Wed 04/21/10 09:41 AM

Good lord man.

Start browsing profiles.

They are ALL laid back and easy going.


I thought that's how all the men described themselves? laugh

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Wed 04/21/10 09:45 AM


Good lord man.

Start browsing profiles.

They are ALL laid back and easy going.


I thought that's how all the men described themselves? laugh
NOt me I am just a perv!!

StillLooking29's photo
Wed 04/21/10 09:48 AM
You have a lot going on for only being 18. My suggestion.....Get an education so you can give you and your daughter a stable home. Nothing is sexier then a man that takes care of his business. Focus on getting your self together and being a great dad. the rest will follow..

buttons's photo
Wed 04/21/10 10:17 AM

Well...

For one thing, you have a child. And a woman that gave birth to that child. In your life. And that means problems for most women, any age.
And it works the same for guys as well. they generally don't want a woman with a child.

And it's plain and simple. Most people are shallow. They can barely handle their own problems, let alone deal with a blended family situation. And blended families are difficult. They present a range of problems... because the ex's are usually "NOT" cooperative... and they make life difficult.

So... here's some advice from a guy that has been there...

Seek only women with children. You might want to look for women in their early 20's, because they have more experience with the guys that won't date them, because they have children. You would come across as concerned father... and be in your child's life. In spite of the problems.

Your in a hard place. I feel for you. If you wish more information, feel free to send me a message... I will give you all the help I can...
hi perry nice to see you.....
well i disagree with this.. not only was i 24 and single with 2 children, then later on... 31 and single with 3 children.. i never had issues of finding someone.. even with custody full time of all 3.. and never child support for the first 2.. i did support them and expected no one else to do so.. but i never had a problem getting dates etc.. but then again i wasnt picky enough obviously lol! though i had long term relationships as well...

buttons's photo
Wed 04/21/10 10:26 AM
i do wonder after reading your profile... do you have any interests that may include women? most all you listed are not interesting to women... especially women your age... you are very young.. it must be rough to have a child at that age.. especially at 16.. to start out life with childsupport is really rough.. i was older when i was single with children that may make a big difference as well.. it may be rougher for you to find someone for a few yrs....and even rougher if you happen to have another child at this point.. definately would be sure to not let that happen... take precautions so it doesnt.. for you already have one child to care for...be fair to that child...dont bring another one in too soon... like maybe another 6 yrs at least!! and make sure you are in that relationship for quite some time first..i know it was rough for me when i had the two to take care of them by myself... i had a really good paying job at the time too.. these days its hard to find a job like that...and i still had it rough...

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 04/21/10 11:56 AM
Because of terrorism.

metalwing's photo
Wed 04/21/10 12:09 PM
You have a child, multiple relationships, one lasting three years and you are 18 years old?

Have fun here at mingle and go get some serious counseling.

unbreakableheart's photo
Wed 04/21/10 04:45 PM
first off i have my life together for those who dont know, and i graduated from school i make more money in a week than most people do in a month my daughter wants and needs for nothing and my life is fine other than the stupid things my ex is trying to do to me. and we haven't been together for months now.

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 04/21/10 04:54 PM

first off i have my life together for those who dont know, and i graduated from school i make more money in a week than most people do in a month my daughter wants and needs for nothing and my life is fine other than the stupid things my ex is trying to do to me. and we haven't been together for months now.


I wonder how that sounds as an ice breaker 'over dinner' conversation...

marcymarc27's photo
Wed 04/21/10 04:59 PM
i haave the same problem with finding a good looking woman that is in to me that is my age too eighter they are older then me or way to young for me

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Wed 04/21/10 05:06 PM

Good lord man.

Start browsing profiles.

They are ALL laid back and easy going.


House Bill 3742 made it mandatory as of November of 2008.

tanyaann's photo
Mon 04/26/10 06:06 AM
The day you stop saying that you are looking for 'someone to take you as you are' is the day that you will find someone.

Tessa02's photo
Mon 04/26/10 06:31 AM
Being young with a child is hard. But, not impossible to find a date & someone who is willing to take on that responsibility. I was barely 17 when I had my first son & married when he was two. My ex raised him as his own & he never wanted for anything. Now, his biological Dad on the other hand married & his wife saw to it that he never had contact with me or his son. My son is now 26 & knew his father but never had contact with him until he was 18 because of the jealous wife. My son lost out & so did his father. Because I had no problem with his father being in his life.

Diligent's photo
Tue 04/27/10 11:47 PM
I saw on your profile that you are 18 years old. Women are a contradiction, are enigmatic, and are a paradox. Let me explain. When women are younger, they want to appear older than they really are and they like older men. When women start to show their age, they want to look and feel younger. They often like younger men at that stage in their lives.

So, in the near future, a love connection with an 18 year old woman might not be in the cards. But, you might land a smokin' hot MILF, going through that phase I told you about. So, go with the flow and enjoy.

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