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ok, look... alot of u are saying that there is somebody for everyone, right? well what if I wont "settle" for anyone.... my standards have not lowered, they have acually gone up and they are harder to meet... and since all girls/women want 25ish, rock-hard abs, and the exotic look to him... i cannot compete with that, and i wont 'settle' for anything that dosnt reach my standards... and i have uber-strict standards. but im to nice i guess, i dont wanna hurt anyones feelings (ive always been that way) so i doubt theres much hope for me... so ill go join the celibacy club... where we all sit around and talk about our deep loathing of women... whateve nudie bars too... seems to work for me |
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ok, look... alot of u are saying that there is somebody for everyone, right? well what if I wont "settle" for anyone.... my standards have not lowered, they have acually gone up and they are harder to meet... and since all girls/women want 25ish, rock-hard abs, and the exotic look to him... i cannot compete with that, and i wont 'settle' for anything that dosnt reach my standards... and i have uber-strict standards. but im to nice i guess, i dont wanna hurt anyones feelings (ive always been that way) so i doubt theres much hope for me... so ill go join the celibacy club... where we all sit around and talk about our deep loathing of women... whateve So...you have these "uber-strict" standards, and you wonder why you can't find a date? And, to add, instead of blaming the "uber-strict" standards you blame it on your TBI? All the same, this looks like one of those "why do the bad guys always get the girls" posts. It isn't because of your TBI, I had a TBI and I have no problem. It isn't because you are too nice, I'm pretty nice myself. Which leaves just one thing, it is in fact that they are simply not attracted to you (whether it be physically, or whatever, not the point). |
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ok, look... alot of u are saying that there is somebody for everyone, right? well what if I wont "settle" for anyone.... my standards have not lowered, they have acually gone up and they are harder to meet... and since all girls/women want 25ish, rock-hard abs, and the exotic look to him... i cannot compete with that, and i wont 'settle' for anything that dosnt reach my standards... and i have uber-strict standards. but im to nice i guess, i dont wanna hurt anyones feelings (ive always been that way) so i doubt theres much hope for me... so ill go join the celibacy club... where we all sit around and talk about our deep loathing of women... whateve So...you have these "uber-strict" standards, and you wonder why you can't find a date? And, to add, instead of blaming the "uber-strict" standards you blame it on your TBI? All the same, this looks like one of those "why do the bad guys always get the girls" posts. It isn't because of your TBI, I had a TBI and I have no problem. It isn't because you are too nice, I'm pretty nice myself. Which leaves just one thing, it is in fact that they are simply not attracted to you (whether it be physically, or whatever, not the point). |
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" ... my standards have not lowered, they have acually gone up and they are harder to meet... and since all girls/women want 25ish, rock-hard abs, and the exotic look to him... i cannot compete with that, and i wont 'settle' for anything that dosnt reach my standards... and i have uber-strict standards. ... " Hmm. Why do I get the feeling that it's not the girls, it's not the TBI, and it's not the lack of 'rock-hard abs' ... ? Sounds like those 'über-strict standards' are being used as an emotional defense mechanism to PREVENT you from entering into a relationship, but, since they're 'invisible' and no one but you know they're there and how 'strict' they are, you can blame the lack of a relationship on OTHER things ... Sorry, a lot of this sounds like a 'poor me' game ... I know a TBI is a serious injury, and I'm not making light of it, but it's not the reason you're not having any luck with the babe-ettes ... Lower the standards and loosen up ... NObody wants to get involved with someone who's all tight-asssed about every little thing ... |
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" ... my standards have not lowered, they have acually gone up and they are harder to meet... and since all girls/women want 25ish, rock-hard abs, and the exotic look to him... i cannot compete with that, and i wont 'settle' for anything that dosnt reach my standards... and i have uber-strict standards. ... " Hmm. Why do I get the feeling that it's not the girls, it's not the TBI, and it's not the lack of 'rock-hard abs' ... ? Sounds like those 'über-strict standards' are being used as an emotional defense mechanism to PREVENT you from entering into a relationship, but, since they're 'invisible' and no one but you know they're there and how 'strict' they are, you can blame the lack of a relationship on OTHER things ... Sorry, a lot of this sounds like a 'poor me' game ... I know a TBI is a serious injury, and I'm not making light of it, but it's not the reason you're not having any luck with the babe-ettes ... Lower the standards and loosen up ... NObody wants to get involved with someone who's all tight-asssed about every little thing ... 
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Everyone should be loved just the way they are. I have a friend who is autistic but you couldnt tell just by looking at him. Hes my buddy and I think he is awesome!! You love someone just the way that they are. You dont try and change them. Its whats on the inside that counts most of all!! Someone will come along and she will take your breath away!!
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As long as you have a shining personality, your physical problems should not matter. I was "disabled" from birth and that has not stopped me. (hate that word by the way)
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As long as you have a shining personality, your physical problems should not matter. I was "disabled" from birth and that has not stopped me. (hate that word by the way) 
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Edited by
RainbowTrout
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Thu 08/19/10 03:25 PM
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ok, look... alot of u are saying that there is somebody for everyone, right? well what if I wont "settle" for anyone.... my standards have not lowered, they have acually gone up and they are harder to meet... and since all girls/women want 25ish, rock-hard abs, and the exotic look to him... i cannot compete with that, and i wont 'settle' for anything that dosnt reach my standards... and i have uber-strict standards. but im to nice i guess, i dont wanna hurt anyones feelings (ive always been that way) so i doubt theres much hope for me... so ill go join the celibacy club... where we all sit around and talk about our deep loathing of women... whateve I would list the standards at least to myself if I was you. You might meet someone who has standards themselves. You might meet a good card player who would be willing to lay her cards on the tables with you so to speak. A lot of women like to take their time on here to adequately get to know someone. It might make a good conversation since you seem to be a hard bargainer. I think it is called a social contract. But be sure to have fun on here. That is important, too. |
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ok, standards for me... (standards, there really shouldnt be any 'standards'? right? right...)
look i want a woman who is super nice, super smart, and funny... oh and laugh at my jokes (honestly)... and it would really help if i was attracted to them... and they are attracted to me... i dont care about bust size like most men do, i just wanna have a smart conversation with a girl... what i guess my main problem is... that i live in a heavly populated area where theres nothing but mormons (LDS) here, and im not gonna convert just to praise moroni maybe i shoot too high? maybe im supposed to date a DD model? maybe im suppose to succumb and convert to the religion i swore to never join? this this is sad, that i am reduced to asking personal questions to people i dont know, maybe i should ask an elder when he drops by trying to woo me into the mormon beilefe and finally join there religion? or what? this is silly.. |
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ok, standards for me... (standards, there really shouldnt be any 'standards'? right? right...) look i want a woman who is super nice, super smart, and funny... oh and laugh at my jokes (honestly)... and it would really help if i was attracted to them... and they are attracted to me... i dont care about bust size like most men do, i just wanna have a smart conversation with a girl... what i guess my main problem is... that i live in a heavly populated area where theres nothing but mormons (LDS) here, and im not gonna convert just to praise moroni maybe i shoot too high? maybe im supposed to date a DD model? maybe im suppose to succumb and convert to the religion i swore to never join? this this is sad, that i am reduced to asking personal questions to people i dont know, maybe i should ask an elder when he drops by trying to woo me into the mormon beilefe and finally join there religion? or what? this is silly.. Kind of generally broad in your standards, no? Wonder Woman is super nice, super smart, and she can be funny. |
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Edited by
the182cansave
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Sun 08/22/10 05:23 PM
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so i huess u want me to be super specific? i would love a smart, funny, compassionate woman... that would love me everyday... and shes not fat... can u do that? wait? do u know wonder woman? tell her im after her
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look, honestly... its been awhile since i ever had a "serious" relationship, and I ended up with a TBI (Traumatic Brain Injury) and i guess, nobody would like to even come around. well i dont want to sound desperate, cuz im not i just want to say how lucky everyone without a TBI is im not badly disfigured, or anything, its just women do not even want to mess with a guy who has a TBI, its like im damaged goods, broken and cannot be returned. And everything anyone says that i have to focus on what still wrks, my humor, my computer skills, and i can swim... gaww, this sounds desperate- so nm well chat later You just have to keep on moving on, keep going. You're alive. That's a start. |
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If you are the sweetheart you appear to be, there are plenty of women out there who would give you the chance. You just haven't met the right ones yet...
 
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wonderful... (thats sarcasm, in case nobody got it- hey, thats all thats really left, my ability to make witty remarks/comebacks. im hosed, huh?
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seems most of the men Ive dated have had TBI to some extent or the other...
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so i huess u want me to be super specific? i would love a smart, funny, compassionate woman... that would love me everyday... and shes not fat... can u do that? wait? do u know wonder woman? tell her im after her any woman can do that..after bashing her brains against the wall several thousand times.... 
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wonderful... (thats sarcasm, in case nobody got it- hey, thats all thats really left, my ability to make witty remarks/comebacks. im hosed, huh? ) Well, if nothing else your sarcasm is definitely earning points with the smart, gorgeous, funny, and compassionate women... Kind of funny how your targeted area of dating has to be smart...and you can't even use proper grammar. |
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