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I'll give you kudos for being open and honest about what happened. But dude.....if you were that bad to her back then, then I doubt it will change if you decided to get back with her. Sometimes people can bring out the worst in each other. Doesn't excuse any actions on your part. But, that said, from what I have read, you two just should not be an item....ever. Just my humble opinion.

I may be wrong here, and perhaps Im a judgemental Biatch but it really sounds like shes shopping for a baby daddy. JMO This situation is only going to be complicated, and you should ask yourself realistically whether you are prepared to complicate your life this way. The other and biggest consideration is the baby. Are you prepared to learn how to be a good parent? Cause from here on in, baby comes first.

According to the data, I don't think you are wrong.

Thanks Goofilisius...I guess Im just a judgemental biatch then...I can live with that

You ain't wrong ... you got it nailed prezack'ly right ... this is a classic 'lose-lose' setup ...

Bottom line. You weren't good for each other then. That is not going to change just because she's having a baby. In fact, it will drag a precious child into the mix too.

WRONG on SOOOOOOOO many levels.

It does make me worry for the baby involved. Sounds like its being used as a pawn before its even born...very sad

OK,,lets see,,,,you treated her like shlt before,,BUT,,SHE STAYED

Then you have HER abort your baby you TWO and GOD made so AS NOT TO COMMIT TO HER AND THE BABY.

NOW,,,,,,,,,,,,,she's pregnant (by someone else) and wants to feel a dad for her baby who she could LOVE,,,



And PERSONALLY HERE,,,I have NO IDEA why she would NOW want YOU!!

Why?,,, Because SHE will always remember your pain that you gave her BEFORE,,
And,,SHE will ALWAYS remember every time she thinks of her NEW baby,,THAT ACT of killing her last one...that YOU SAID,,you made her do.

Also personally here, again,,,,What makes YOU feel that IF YOU DIDN'T WANT A BABY YOU HELPED "MAKE",,why in the H. would YOU FEEL you would want to RAISE SOMEONE ELSE'S???????????????????????? NOW???????

My opinion here,,,,,,PLEASE,,spare HER and HER baby,,,,the THOUGHT of YOU being involved with their lives...

Find a NEW woman who won't HAVE TO CARRY SO MUCH PAST PAIN FROM YOU...
Then,,,YOU have the chance to cause the new one hurt, or love,,,but at least,,,,,it gives you a REAL CHANCE at showing your self that your really a nice dude..

i really dont know what to do here,i appreciate all the comments,i need to hear all of them,i know she still loves me,and i still love her,and the cause of the break up was all me,also i forgot to mention she found out i cheated on her,she caught me red handed and she forgave me and we moved on,but i bacame more of a jerk after that because i just did not care and she still did,she refused to stop calling and coming around me these past three years like i had told her,if it was not for her calling and coming to my home and work i would have never called her,i just feel like i learned a lesson and i would like it to be like it once was.

Theres an old expression Lovey..."you can never go home again"

Its funny that YOU KEEP ADDING MORE AND MORE BAD THINGS YOU DID TO HER,,,,,,,,,HUH? and 4 posts to,,,,,cool...

SOON,,,you will have everyone where you want them, huh,,,wink.

Games and the Internet,,,,,,,,,,,,,what fun......

Meh. I am a prick....didn't ya know?

i just want to keep it honest,i was a real piece of crap beleive me,if u guys want i can give u examples of the things i said to her,sometimes i wonder how could i have said those things,horrible things,there was years when we were just so happy with each other thinking this was it,until i began with the hatred.

This is a cute little exercise in self-immolation and 'poor me'-ism. Do NOT inflict yourself on her or the baby ... esp. the baby, 'cuz it did nothing to deserve what you, by your own admission, will likely think of it over time. The emotion you call 'love' here is NOT 'love' - it's something else - mutual dependency, neediness, who knows what ... this is a sick little piece of psychodrama that has great potential to cause harm to people on many levels. It's also not only you who's guilty of being a contestant candidate for Jerry Springer's show - she's stupid (but probably has her own motivation set) to even consider wanting you back in her life. Both of you sound tremendously needy emotionally and terribly ill-equipped to assume the role of parents for a kid who'll spend the rest of its life trying to figure out what it did to deserve the treatment it's likely to receive.

Man up and walk away.

Well, at least your a Handsome Prick

Some Internet connections should be made child proof by their parents.

What is it that you expect from her? What's your real point of this thread?

Dude. As long as you know you were wrong for being a piece of crap, then cool. Life moves on. Learn from it, process it, and move along. But don't move along with this chick.