Topic: Would you go on a second date if this happened to you?
unmeboo22's photo
Sat 11/27/10 11:44 AM

Never judge a book by its cover...
Maybe he's really loaded.

The kiss might have set u up for a good time later,

You never know.

1st impressions are determined by how much people judge, period.
I was with my ex for almost 7 years. We covered eachother when times were tough. It worked. Stress was our only downfall.

hope that helps spock


i tryed not tooo!!!slaphead

soufiehere's photo
Sat 11/27/10 11:46 AM
The only thing I find bothersome
is the fact he asked for
a kiss. For anything else, there
might be mitigating circumstances.

This is not a take-charge
kind of feller. So I would pass.

no photo
Sat 11/27/10 11:48 AM
Edited by Troytheboytoy on Sat 11/27/10 11:48 AM
Someone I know who has alot of $$$
told me that the friend u hang around with 99% of the time they represent your own financial situation.

If your friends are broke, chances are you are too.
;)

smokeybette's photo
Sat 11/27/10 11:56 AM
sorry, he's a loser. otherwise, he's have mentioned a car problem, low on cash till payday etc. sounds like a user also. next thing you know, he'd be moving in expecting you to foot the bill. and if you are not really attracted to him, the sex would be lousy.

unmeboo22's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:03 PM

The only thing I find bothersome
is the fact he asked for
a kiss. For anything else, there
might be mitigating circumstances.

This is not a take-charge
kind of feller. So I would pass.


the kiss thing was totally a slap in my faceslaphead

unmeboo22's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:04 PM

Someone I know who has alot of $$$
told me that the friend u hang around with 99% of the time they represent your own financial situation.

If your friends are broke, chances are you are too.
;)


spock

grneyedldy1967's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:08 PM

Hahaha after all that and ya have to ask...........whoa :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


EXACTLY what I was thinking? Seriously?! slaphead

kc0003's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:08 PM

Never judge a book by its cover...
Maybe he's really loaded.

The kiss might have set u up for a good time later,

You never know.

1st impressions are determined by how much people judge, period.
I was with my ex for almost 7 years. We covered eachother when times were tough. It worked. Stress was our only downfall.

hope that helps spock


hahaha!!!!

the fact that she sat through dinner was ample time for this one to open and turn a few pages.

sometimes the cover is all you have to see...

no photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:16 PM

Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so wellfrustrated second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good lookingscared he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her?????


I've picked someone up before. It wasn't a big deal.

Were you assuming he'd pay for you? Maybe next time, plan on paying your half.

Conversation takes two people. Did you put the effort into it, or were you waiting on him to keep the conversation going?

If there's no attraction, there's no attraction. Not much is going to help that. So in the end, no, I would not go on another date if the first one was like that.

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Sat 11/27/10 12:17 PM

unmeboo22's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:23 PM


Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so wellfrustrated second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good lookingscared he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her?????


I've picked someone up before. It wasn't a big deal.

Were you assuming he'd pay for you? Maybe next time, plan on paying your half.

Conversation takes two people. Did you put the effort into it, or were you waiting on him to keep the conversation going?

If there's no attraction, there's no attraction. Not much is going to help that. So in the end, no, I would not go on another date if the first one was like that.

ok course i put the effort and when you invite someone thats usually saying your going to pay ur self or at least half at least thats what i thought im clueless i guess ok he had 5.00 so i payed about 98 pervent of the meal plus drinks i tryed the conversation thing but it was yes no one worded answers!!!i tryed so hard to make it better it just kept getting worsefrustrated

unmeboo22's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:26 PM

...so did your friend have anything to say after setting you up?

Surely they spoke to him to see how it went, ya?




Turns out he saysthe date was perfection!!!!slaphead hahharofl my friend apologizes she went by her exes word that he was a great guy!!! no more blind dates!!!! not for me anywayslaphead he wants another date!!! out of his mindsurprised

kc0003's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:32 PM
well i've got $19.22, if you want to swing by and get me...

i was thinking Outback and a movie. then the late show at the comedy house.
oh, and can you have me back by 2:00AM i have a brunch scheduled for mid morning.

Seakolony's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:35 PM
Nice.......LMFAO..............

unmeboo22's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:35 PM

well i've got $19.22, if you want to swing by and get me...

i was thinking Outback and a movie. then the late show at the comedy house.
oh, and can you have me back by 2:00AM i have a brunch scheduled for mid morning.


noway lolrofl no prob why dont i just give u my car and then it will at least look like you picked me up and i will give you the money so it looks like ur payin!!!!rofl

kc0003's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:38 PM


well i've got $19.22, if you want to swing by and get me...

i was thinking Outback and a movie. then the late show at the comedy house.
oh, and can you have me back by 2:00AM i have a brunch scheduled for mid morning.


noway lolrofl no prob why dont i just give u my car and then it will at least look like you picked me up and i will give you the money so it looks like ur payin!!!!rofl


are ya sure?
i don't want to put you through any trouble...

trueblue74's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:42 PM
Here's your sign

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Sat 11/27/10 12:43 PM



Ok so last nite to start things off i was set up on a blind date!! That didnt turn out so wellfrustrated second he invited me to dinner but guess who had to pick up their date and drop them at home me!!! Third he didnt even have enough money to pay for our dinner. No conversation at all not good lookingscared he even had the nerve to ask me for a kiss at the end!!!! would you go on another date with him/her?????


I've picked someone up before. It wasn't a big deal.

Were you assuming he'd pay for you? Maybe next time, plan on paying your half.

Conversation takes two people. Did you put the effort into it, or were you waiting on him to keep the conversation going?

If there's no attraction, there's no attraction. Not much is going to help that. So in the end, no, I would not go on another date if the first one was like that.

ok course i put the effort and when you invite someone thats usually saying your going to pay ur self or at least half at least thats what i thought im clueless i guess ok he had 5.00 so i payed about 98 pervent of the meal plus drinks i tryed the conversation thing but it was yes no one worded answers!!!i tryed so hard to make it better it just kept getting worsefrustrated


Next time, make sure upfront who is going to pay so you don't get stuck in that situation again.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 11/27/10 12:46 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Sat 11/27/10 12:47 PM
When asked out on a date I've never had to wonder who is paying and I always have the ability to pay...

Of course he thought it was a perfect date, it all worked out in his favor... ill

naughty_in's photo
Sat 11/27/10 01:09 PM
LOL!!! Pity u :)

Maybe u out to kick the person who sent u on a blind date ;)