thats cool... let me ask you this...why did you go out with her in the first place? it's the same reason as everyone else...to make you happy... that in it self is using her, whether you realize that or not... so she can't make you happy, and you dumped her...that sounds like a minor form of using to me, not that it is a bad thing...

well i was not really trying to use her.. I just wanted to give her a chance and see if we can have a relationship... i do not think that love is using someone? is it?

yeah she was hot but as i was saying pigs are pigs and sheeps are sheeps. I am not using anyone for any reason... so I would not use any woman that way. I am a gentlemen and I will alwyas be

Hummm so it makes me wonder why if she was so bad even on the first date why keep going back for another every day for the next week or more?


When one wears blinders all blame can not only fall upon one....

Hummm so it makes me wonder why if she was so bad even on the first date why keep going back for another every day for the next week or more?


When one wears blinders all blame can not only fall upon one....

That thought crossed my mind too...If someone is a jerk it doesnt take me more than one date to figure it out

I bet it would take you 2 dates to figure out I an a$$

Easy...cause beautiful people can get away with alot more crap than ugly people. What I dont get is when ugly people ACT ugly too. Blows my mind. I can see how some of the hotties can have a 'tude but when an ugly person is just a straight up douche, it amazes me that anyone would lower themselves to spend time with them.

I don't care how good looking they are if they are a prick I assure ya it will not take me 7 dates or more to figure that out.... I may go on a second date but third time is not the charm

I just wanted to share with people my experience with this lost soul, and I was not even trying. I guess it is part of my fault too since I should not have dated her from the beggining, but well lets start.
I meet someone who is gorgeous on the outside, and I got to say people have to be attracted to each other no doubt, but well it is only little important. We went to eat she said that she was upset because I made her wait a little, and I thought she did not like me from the beginning. Well, we eat, and talked, and everything was ok. I went on a date everyday after that with her for about a week. I got to get to know her just till the end of a long journey. She was very much into fashion and looks which is ok, but if you life is all about that then I feel sorry for you.She wanted me like to worship her! She wanted to have all the attention and I had to do everthing she wanted. She was very much of a manipulative personality, and I was not down to keep up with that. At the end,I was very confused on whether I had a relationship or I was just being used to please this person, pay for her bills, and take her around town. I treated her like a princess and received nothing in return. She had this attitude, and always bitching and complaining about these little things. She always thought that she was better than everyone, always had his caless mind about everything. She believed that she deserved everything, and had this princess mindset. She was arrogant, and had nothing to give in return but his "beauty" She never told me I like you or anything like that but she insisted on going out with me, shopping (like if i was gong to buy her $500 heels!I am a gentlemen but no stupid). On the last date she was such a *****! supposely a vegeterian that loves to wear fur. She does not even know who she is, but she is evil and I always told her that.. She was about to eat me alive and spit my bones. I thank God that I realized that and dumped her right at that bar. I feel proud of that because I was so happy and relax next day i slept like a baby again! Well, if you are just a player, just want to use people, you are superficial, arrogant,self lover and worshiper,just care about yourself,believe you are better than everyone else,rude,rotten meat inside,but gorgeous outside.Well you might be a perfect match for someone else but not me. I want a good heart good soul person. Someone who loves and respects God and life. Someone who loves others and not just them. Do not get upset if you got what you deserve.

Happy New Years Everyone
Hope that you do not find a lot of these around
If you like that i feel sorry for you
ReyJ

Chalk it up to lesson learned,you will know what not to look for next time.Their are some wonderful people out their,some times we have to kiss a few frogs before we find our gem.