If you had a SECOND chance to change anything about your quality of life right now, what would that be?

I could have avoided tons and tons of heartache and grief if I simply hadn't gotten married.

i would like to change of place of course, because i wanna live in miami beach
just this on moment now

If I could things all over again, I would have retired from the military and made better choices about things when I was younger(including being ready for marriage instead of taking a crash course in stupidity). I also would have probably chosen the career I have now sooner and maybe even gotten a college education when it was way cheaper than now.

I never would have touched Cigarettes.
They stink, they cost a ton, they ruin your teeth and can ostracize you in social settings. Yet I've made my peace with the fact that I'm going to be a smoker til I die.

hired a psychologist since day one.

I would have not gone and seen Batman And Robin at the theater.

Ha...so I'm not the only one that walked out on that movie. Sweet.


I would maybe have started training a lot younger.

I would have stuck with the love of my youth, my first husband, and used counseling and church to get through that last betrayal,,,

Well...you have a chance NOW!!

IDK that interpret this as what I'd change about the past so much as what I'd change about now

I would prefer to be in a relationship instead of always looking for one or afraid to be in one and I would have more confidence with men

I dont have any undue expectations in life from anyone,neither from almighty god.

I'm satisfied.

I dont want to have any chance in past life differently than had before,coz I believe my life is built only with my thoughts which I can change at any moment for living the life differently.

I am with you. No drama,no pain, just plain unadultrated love and understanding between two people. This is one of the main reasons divorce is happening.

To have more money



Ohhhhhhhhhhh and please don't tell me money will not make me happy. At my age believe me I would be singing like a nightingale

I probably would have chosen to stick with the position I had at work, rather than going in a new direction. Other than that, I'm pretty happy with my life at the moment.

thanks, yes i agree
but I'm not totally guilt free - I can be pretty selfish sometimes with my time particularly. Flexibility is an acquired skill for me in my personal life- I form these mental plans for my day or week....whatever.....do not usually communicate them very well - which doesn't matter now, but in a relationship it's something I would have to work on

one concern I have is that I have been living alone for so long that I would have a hard time sharing living space & the compromises that go with that