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Topic: What are you looking for on this site?
samsultan07 Joined Sun 01/15/12 Posts: 113	Sat 01/21/12 10:27 AM
Iam here to find my soulmate and I am willing to seach all the net ... I will never gave up I'll keep searching in all faces and eyes Iam sure she is her some where .... if you need the vectory .... you have to fight

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sat 01/21/12 10:28 AM
Iam here to find my soulmate and I am willing to seach all the net ... I will never gave up I'll keep searching in all faces and eyes Iam sure she is her some where .... if you need the vectory .... you have to fight sorry, she's taken

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Sat 01/21/12 10:33 AM
Iam here to find my soulmate and I am willing to seach all the net ... I will never gave up I'll keep searching in all faces and eyes Iam sure she is her some where .... if you need the vectory .... you have to fight sorry, she's taken And She has a.............. Waiting List........... Just in case!!!

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Sat 01/21/12 10:33 AM
Iam here to find my soulmate and I am willing to seach all the net ... I will never gave up I'll keep searching in all faces and eyes Iam sure she is her some where .... if you need the vectory .... you have to fight sorry, she's taken And She has a.............. Waiting List........... Just in case!!!

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Sat 01/21/12 10:34 AM
I hate when that.......... Happens

skywisper Joined Mon 03/21/11 Posts: 1213	Sun 01/22/12 05:09 AM
I am looking for Alien life forms ; from distant planets Do you think youl ever find one?. from some conversations on here, I think I have found some..now I am scared they are going to find me and eat my brains Then why are you wanting to date one then thats a little crazy isnt it?,to meet some one who is going to eat your brains. Whoa..whoa..whoa...I never said I wanted to date one of them..let alone date anyone OK OK please forgive me i some how got lost in the story and i will not bother you no more about the freaken Aliens.I dont beleave in Aliens i dont care about them if they are out there i dont like them and if they dont like me ether they can fughzx off.lol What if they are out there and they are nice creatures..how can you judge them so harshly and say you don't like them..Gheeesh Your the one who said they will eat your brains i like my brains just where they are,i dont like brain eaters.

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Sun 01/22/12 05:23 AM
I want a monogamous relationship but here is what gets me in trouble, I do not want to live with anyone or get married. I want the commitment to each other and the respect for each other's boundaries and all that but not to live with someone. I want emotionally available. As if answers the phone when I need him. Single as in I can show up at his place any time and there is no wife or GF, etc. And yes, I want to get my freak out WITHIN the confines of a a committed relationship. AND my ex husband is MY SUGAR DADDY (well not really but he bank rolls me) and NOT SOME GUY'S SUGAR DADDY. They can put 20 years into someone else and get their own alimony. And I don't want any damn lectures on alimony and me being a gold digger. I did everything for that man for half my life. He doesn't begrudge me it, you don't have the right too. But a guy should be able to bank roll himself. Play his own way. I am a cheap date and if you cannot afford the $25 including tip it costs to make me out to dinner, you probably AREN'T good enough for me and my guy friends will back me on that one.

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Sun 01/22/12 05:56 AM
I want a monogamous relationship but here is what gets me in trouble, I do not want to live with anyone or get married. I want the commitment to each other and the respect for each other's boundaries and all that but not to live with someone. I want emotionally available. As if answers the phone when I need him. Single as in I can show up at his place any time and there is no wife or GF, etc. And yes, I want to get my freak out WITHIN the confines of a a committed relationship. AND my ex husband is MY SUGAR DADDY (well not really but he bank rolls me) and NOT SOME GUY'S SUGAR DADDY. They can put 20 years into someone else and get their own alimony. And I don't want any damn lectures on alimony and me being a gold digger. I did everything for that man for half my life. He doesn't begrudge me it, you don't have the right too. But a guy should be able to bank roll himself. Play his own way. I am a cheap date and if you cannot afford the $25 including tip it costs to make me out to dinner, you probably AREN'T good enough for me and my guy friends will back me on that one. we all have what we believe would be the perfect relationship played out in our minds. we put out a list of our preferences, but i keep thinking that somehow these preferences have turned into demands. some sort of "relationship bill of rights" if you will. what happened to compromise? where is the compassion, or empathy for another? i guess what i am trying to say is we should put out a relationship "wish list" yet be fully prepared to compromise when someone special answers the ad

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Sun 01/22/12 06:39 AM
I want a monogamous relationship but here is what gets me in trouble, I do not want to live with anyone or get married. I want the commitment to each other and the respect for each other's boundaries and all that but not to live with someone. I want emotionally available. As if answers the phone when I need him. Single as in I can show up at his place any time and there is no wife or GF, etc. And yes, I want to get my freak out WITHIN the confines of a a committed relationship. AND my ex husband is MY SUGAR DADDY (well not really but he bank rolls me) and NOT SOME GUY'S SUGAR DADDY. They can put 20 years into someone else and get their own alimony. And I don't want any damn lectures on alimony and me being a gold digger. I did everything for that man for half my life. He doesn't begrudge me it, you don't have the right too. But a guy should be able to bank roll himself. Play his own way. I am a cheap date and if you cannot afford the $25 including tip it costs to make me out to dinner, you probably AREN'T good enough for me and my guy friends will back me on that one. we all have what we believe would be the perfect relationship played out in our minds. we put out a list of our preferences, but i keep thinking that somehow these preferences have turned into demands. some sort of "relationship bill of rights" if you will. what happened to compromise? where is the compassion, or empathy for another? i guess what i am trying to say is we should put out a relationship "wish list" yet be fully prepared to compromise when someone special answers the ad You know nothing is set in stone in life. If I met THE MOST INCREDIBLE GUY, I MEAN "THE ONE" and marriage and all that was important to him, If he made enough that me losing all my alimony was worth it, I would probably do it. But I have to be practical. I did put in half my life into a man. I am not going to rush out and marry an idiot and be divorced three seconds later and screw myself over. My ex husband even says not to do that. My ex on here who left after we broke up, I loved with all my heart but he moved too too fast. I would think it over. I seriously do mean it though if you can't afford the girl who wants Chicken Mc Nuggets with BBQ sauce and a $1 sweet tea, you can't afford me. Truly. No I am not speaking of you. Just in general. I would relocate even. BUT I have not met HIM, the guy worth relocating for. I am not willing to bank roll (sp) a guy though. That is how you end up with losers. I am not a diamond demanding, 5 star restaurant wanting, etc. etc. girl. But ya,the guy being some sort of trained labor, etc. is a SCREENING TOOL. If you get to 40 and you have no marketable skills at all in the universe, something is wrong. If you get to my age and you have never had a real relationship, something is wrong. Though I don't want kids of my own, I accept guys with kids because it means they had normal and healthy relationships in the past and somebody thought they were worthy of being a baby daddy and that's good. You will note, I said nothing about race, creed, body type, type of skilled labor, etc.

wxmann Joined Sat 07/16/11 Posts: 277	Mon 07/30/12 06:56 PM
Someone with big beautiful eyes and a pretty smile. Someone like blueeyes2000.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Mon 07/30/12 07:48 PM
Someone with big beautiful eyes and a pretty smile. Someone like blueeyes2000. like...why? she's not good enough for you, huh buddy?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Mon 07/30/12 08:06 PM
I'm still looking for the free food and drinks.

ClintonCoIafarmboy Joined Tue 06/12/12 Posts: 2	Mon 07/30/12 08:13 PM
What I am looking for on this site is a woman who has a lot in common. Starting out with country. A lady who is honest, trustworthy non smoker and is within 60 miles. Why are they so hard to find?

RandyCooper Joined Sat 07/28/12 Posts: 43	Mon 07/30/12 08:17 PM
A friendship that will leads to hire a priest :)

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 07/31/12 02:47 AM
I'm molding myself into the background.

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Tue 07/31/12 02:58 AM
I've been on this site long enough to know it doesn't work for me as a dating site, at least not in my neck of the woods. Some people are amused by people watching. I guess that's a bit like why I still log on here. It's interesting for me to get an insight of what people are chatting about and helps me understand people in general, even if their viewpoint's differ from mine

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Tue 07/31/12 03:51 AM
Someone with big beautiful eyes and a pretty smile. Someone like blueeyes2000. like...why? she's not good enough for you, huh buddy? OOh, shot down again! I swear, other women have all the luck! I joined because I was asked too, and had loads of fun joking in the forums a few years ago. I quit coming on here for awhile, and recently started coming back on. It's not what it used to be, but there are still some awesome, twisted, funny people around.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 07/31/12 05:14 AM
adult, intelligent conversation but its hard to find during an election year,,,thats for certain,,,

wxmann Joined Sat 07/16/11 Posts: 277	Tue 07/31/12 06:04 PM
Someone with big beautiful eyes and a pretty smile. Someone like blueeyes2000. like...why? she's not good enough for you, huh buddy? I think she's a very pretty gal.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 07/31/12 06:58 PM
Someone with big beautiful eyes and a pretty smile. Someone like blueeyes2000. like...why? she's not good enough for you, huh buddy? OOh, shot down again! I swear, other women have all the luck! I joined because I was asked too, and had loads of fun joking in the forums a few years ago. I quit coming on here for awhile, and recently started coming back on. It's not what it used to be, but there are still some awesome, twisted, funny people around. I'll take that as a......... Compliment!!!!