Topic: Is it possible to love someone and still cheat on the person
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Fri 12/23/11 04:12 PM


Experience is a great teacher indeed, I just get better and better at what I do lol


For example if I have a gf in Thailand but I am in the Philippines for a couple months I am going to get a new girl for the Philippines for my time here ,

and I will keep the girl in Thailand in contact because I do plan on going back so I must keep that going so I got a sure thing for when I get back



And I have been caught before in this particular instance she was upset but she understood . and hell the Thai girl was probably seeing someone else, or hell maybe she just really liked me but she told me just to be safe use protection and keep in contact and when I got back to Thailand I still saw her and nothing was ever a problem Philippine girl was never mentioned.




When you do fall in love, it's going to be bad, real bad for you...bigsmile


And the reason it's going to be bad, is because you will never be able to trust anyone...You will always remember how you treated past relationships and wonder if she is doing the same...So have at it sugar snap pea...What goes around come around...Merry Christmas...flowerforyou

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Fri 12/23/11 04:15 PM


Experience is a great teacher indeed, I just get better and better at what I do lol


For example if I have a gf in Thailand but I am in the Philippines for a couple months I am going to get a new girl for the Philippines for my time here ,

and I will keep the girl in Thailand in contact because I do plan on going back so I must keep that going so I got a sure thing for when I get back



And I have been caught before in this particular instance she was upset but she understood . and hell the Thai girl was probably seeing someone else, or hell maybe she just really liked me but she told me just to be safe use protection and keep in contact and when I got back to Thailand I still saw her and nothing was ever a problem Philippine girl was never mentioned.





if this is the case, why identify them as girlfriends? sounds like an intention to deceive

sounds like they are all just friends who you can sleep with,,,,,

but again, semantics are a nice diversion,,,


you answered your own question it is my way of using typical human reactions,

but I am not normal and don't follow the status quo maybe one day I will find my match that can out play me , everything is a game in life anyways it's all about how well you can play it to get what you want lets see if some girl can play the game better than me hahahaha

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Fri 12/23/11 04:17 PM

Experience is a great teacher indeed, I just get better and better at what I do lol


For example if I have a gf in Thailand but I am in the Philippines for a couple months I am going to get a new girl for the Philippines for my time here ,

and I will keep the girl in Thailand in contact because I do plan on going back so I must keep that going so I got a sure thing for when I get back



And I have been caught before in this particular instance she was upset but she understood . and hell the Thai girl was probably seeing someone else, or hell maybe she just really liked me but she told me just to be safe use protection and keep in contact and when I got back to Thailand I still saw her and nothing was ever a problem Philippine girl was never mentioned.




your age....................wait....what experience could you have with this? everyone is a library, no matter who they are, and can bring something to the "table" so to speak, BUT!

with the exclusion of me, because i'm a monster, a real one, and a rather hidious one at that, i agree....

you are talking to people with over 500 years of combined experience, and wounded ones no less!!! that have been through a bunch of guys like you!!! and you are trying to tell them what's what?rofl ooohh this is good! it's too good! this is rich indeed!!!rofl

are you a used car salesman young man?

or are you an "as seen on TV" infomercial guy?

there will eventually be a girl.... that will take you. you have good looks, and you have an ego, and you're a "tough guy", but you will run into a barrier and get hurt.....fast ones fall hard. you will never be rich enough....... you can earn a billion.....doesn't matter. there's always someone more on top of it than you. just life, and facts. nobody can argue my point.

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Fri 12/23/11 04:19 PM
Merry X-Mas indeed hahahaha

funny thing is doing these type of things you tend to gain experience in reading people and learning about human nature and what not, as I can only play this game with certain types anyways,
so when I do feel like settling down again I will find the right one and wont have to worry ,

and Karma wont hit me I consider myself the one dishing out Karma, just justify it as she must have done something wrong to meet me hahahahaha

joke joke I am not THAT bad lol hahaha

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Fri 12/23/11 04:24 PM

Merry X-Mas indeed hahahaha

funny thing is doing these type of things you tend to gain experience in reading people and learning about human nature and what not, as I can only play this game with certain types anyways,
so when I do feel like settling down again I will find the right one and wont have to worry ,

and Karma wont hit me I consider myself the one dishing out Karma, just justify it as she must have done something wrong to meet me hahahahaha

joke joke I am not THAT bad lol hahaha


You need to brush up on Hinduism and Buddhism.....and before you do, spend at least 20 minutes chanting...rofl rofl rofl

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Fri 12/23/11 04:26 PM


Experience is a great teacher indeed, I just get better and better at what I do lol


For example if I have a gf in Thailand but I am in the Philippines for a couple months I am going to get a new girl for the Philippines for my time here ,

and I will keep the girl in Thailand in contact because I do plan on going back so I must keep that going so I got a sure thing for when I get back



And I have been caught before in this particular instance she was upset but she understood . and hell the Thai girl was probably seeing someone else, or hell maybe she just really liked me but she told me just to be safe use protection and keep in contact and when I got back to Thailand I still saw her and nothing was ever a problem Philippine girl was never mentioned.




your age....................wait....what experience could you have with this? everyone is a library, no matter who they are, and can bring something to the "table" so to speak, BUT!

with the exclusion of me, because i'm a monster, a real one, and a rather hidious one at that, i agree....

you are talking to people with over 500 years of combined experience, and wounded ones no less!!! that have been through a bunch of guys like you!!! and you are trying to tell them what's what?rofl ooohh this is good! it's too good! this is rich indeed!!!rofl

are you a used car salesman young man?

or are you an "as seen on TV" infomercial guy?

there will eventually be a girl.... that will take you. you have good looks, and you have an ego, and you're a "tough guy", but you will run into a barrier and get hurt.....fast ones fall hard. you will never be rich enough....... you can earn a billion.....doesn't matter. there's always someone more on top of it than you. just life, and facts. nobody can argue my point.



Hahaha I am already on top just in different ways my friend and that combined experience means nothing if we are comparing typical American Women to a 21 year old who has been on his own since 17 and traveled half the world on his own, served in the military for 2 years been to war, and is now living successfully in Asia

then my 4 years of experience in my unique lifestyle does not rightfully out weights 500 years of typical american life completely but it definitely gives me much more perspective and strength in other areas of life.

I felt I have ran into the immovable object before already once and that helps me so I will never run into it again. hope I am right so far it seems to be that way but we will see.

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Fri 12/23/11 04:26 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Fri 12/23/11 04:31 PM
you sure do laugh "at" people a lot. like you are better than them..... i wonder if you are one of those bullies that pick on others that aren't as "with it" as you.

or when you do pick on someone from across the room, as you are with all your friends, and they finally come at you, coming to bust your a$$, you hide behind these words (and your friends)..."hey man? it's just a joke! can't you take a joke? what a jerk!"

when you don't know someone, it's not a joke, and we are not laughing "with you"....HA...HA.....HA.

i hope you're not "that guy"


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Fri 12/23/11 04:30 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Fri 12/23/11 04:32 PM
when i'm travelling the Astral plane, or whether i am here,....i am immovable.


good luck in your travels. be safe. try not to hurt others.drinker

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Fri 12/23/11 04:32 PM
hahaha if you are taking my humor like an attack than that is your problem I am man enough to tell you if I am making fun of you ,

this is an open forum keyboard warrior and it is funny that you think you know me or how I would react to situations lol ahhahahah
http://www.willthekillmma.com/ can check the site if you want to know who I am

When it comes down to it were talking about sex and relationships and those happen to be funny subjects to talk about especially when it revolves the original subject lol

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Fri 12/23/11 04:36 PM
My buddhism and Taoist beliefs are strong , many denominations , both really come down to believe in yourself and making yourself better , which i what I strive for, just strive for it in different ways that you guys may not be accustomed too

and I always try not to hurt someone and I make sure my separate relationships are indeed separate and in different countries and take care not to hurt people by my actions

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Fri 12/23/11 04:39 PM

My buddhism and Taoist beliefs are strong , many denominations , both really come down to believe in yourself and making yourself better , which i what I strive for, just strive for it in different ways that you guys may not be accustomed too

and I always try not to hurt someone and I make sure my separate relationships are indeed separate and in different countries and take care not to hurt people by my actions


Maybe so, but you description of Karma needs a little work...bigsmile

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Fri 12/23/11 04:41 PM
lol I just like to think I am the one dishing out the Karma hahahaha


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Fri 12/23/11 04:43 PM

lol I just like to think I am the one dishing out the Karma hahahaha




What you're dishing out isn't Karma honey...

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Fri 12/23/11 04:45 PM
to deceive and/or lie are not consistent with 'to love'


however you dish it,,,

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Fri 12/23/11 04:47 PM

hahaha if you are taking my humor like an attack than that is your problem I am man enough to tell you if I am making fun of you ,

this is an open forum keyboard warrior and it is funny that you think you know me or how I would react to situations lol ahhahahah
http://www.willthekillmma.com/ can check the site if you want to know who I am

When it comes down to it were talking about sex and relationships and those happen to be funny subjects to talk about especially when it revolves the original subject lol



naaaa, you wouldn't attack me. here, or offline. your egotistical behavior will kill you though. this IS a fact.

i have lived a very very long time.

you've been through a war heh? you've fought in many a jungle hand to hand? yes? did you see his eyes did ya?...... well, i'll shut up now, super-stud. you have already proved that you are better, stronger, faster, a better lover, more compassionate, and understanding than all of us...... and can outwit, and out answer everyone here....and are always right, hahahaa.... i'll quit while you're ahead....haahahahahaa.....


i don't know you and i don't care. i don't think i know you either, and i won't judge you. i won't ever trust you, and others shouldn't either.....ever.

careful of those jungles.... watch your back.

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Fri 12/23/11 04:49 PM

to deceive and/or lie are not consistent with 'to love'


however you dish it,,,


:thumbsup: In case I don't talk to you before tomorrow, have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year Harmony!........Peace, love and joy to you and your family!!flowerforyou

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Fri 12/23/11 04:51 PM
I have a personality profile all typed out about Okami. He's not the only one who can read people.

I'm tempted to say f@#k forum rules, and post it even though I know I could get banned by Admin for it.

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Fri 12/23/11 04:52 PM


to deceive and/or lie are not consistent with 'to love'


however you dish it,,,


:thumbsup: In case I don't talk to you before tomorrow, have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year Harmony!........Peace, love and joy to you and your family!!flowerforyou







smooched smooched

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Fri 12/23/11 04:54 PM


to deceive and/or lie are not consistent with 'to love'


however you dish it,,,


:thumbsup: In case I don't talk to you before tomorrow, have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year Harmony!........Peace, love and joy to you and your family!!flowerforyou



same to you Miss Leigh,,,flowerforyou :heart:

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Fri 12/23/11 04:59 PM
hahahahaha ok jungle boy

I served in the Desert actually lol


and I would love to see actionlynx personality report he took special time to write since he can read someone so well hahaha damn I must have made someone a lil upset hahahaha


and I love to argue that's why it is a forum

label it what you want but sex is multiple people isn't wrong maybe you guys are just all piseed because you are unable to do it

but just don't knock it until you try it