Topic: A very unfortunate matter concerning a Mingle2 moderator
josie68's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:06 PM
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
No wonder I love you..

But I don;t feel bad Krupa, I have a fantastic life, a much better one then they ever did, so forgiving is easy.:smile:

carold's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:07 PM

34 pages of a friggen lynch mob.

Stop it people....it is embarrassing.

This site is NOT about Lex.

This site is about good people becoming friends...maybe even lovers.

New people stumble into this site everyday and you idiots are gonna drive them away....Lex has been dealt with...stop freaking the new ones out who take one look at your hatred, then hit the bricks.

Everyone has had plenty of time to vent and air thier opinions...maybe too damned much.

A schitt bag snuck in and is now gone. It is HANDLED. (very professionally I may add)..

My suggestion to Charles is this....He did the right thing and just laid out the information he had available...he took the right course of action along with the rest of the Mingle staff

It is time to f**kn delete this thread.

It has served it's purpose. Time to move on to finding friends and lovers.


Yeah agree,I think it is time too I can see some might only get on once a week or if it flips when the week is over it should be deleted may it RIP.

krupa's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:18 PM


34 pages of a friggen lynch mob.

Stop it people....it is embarrassing.

This site is NOT about Lex.

This site is about good people becoming friends...maybe even lovers.

New people stumble into this site everyday and you idiots are gonna drive them away....Lex has been dealt with...stop freaking the new ones out who take one look at your hatred, then hit the bricks.

Everyone has had plenty of time to vent and air thier opinions...maybe too damned much.

A schitt bag snuck in and is now gone. It is HANDLED. (very professionally I may add)..

My suggestion to Charles is this....He did the right thing and just laid out the information he had available...he took the right course of action along with the rest of the Mingle staff

It is time to f**kn delete this thread.

It has served it's purpose. Time to move on to finding friends and lovers.



I don't see a lynch mob. I see people expressing hurt, grief, even love. Some hate. Answering of some questions, assortments of emotions.But, I see no lynch mob.
I think I saw one mention of a rope in the whole thread.


You ain't gonna rationalize your way out of this one.

Focus on something positive on Mingle...these idiots have had 35 pages....how many more are needed?

But, if you gotta beat a dead horse....go for it. (this horse will be there for as long as you want to beat it)

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Thu 05/17/12 09:21 PM
Maybe it would be possible for you "enough is enough" people to just ignore this thread and let the people who still want to discuss this story do so in peace?

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Thu 05/17/12 09:22 PM

The law is as it states. You are saying what you feel it SHOULD state. How does that pertain to his violating the laws as stated?


i'm saying the law he broke and was convicted of, he served his sentence. the second law he broke and was convicted of, he served his sentence. the system failed both those times. presently he is being charged with breaking a law. what remains is a conviction (if any) sentencing (if it applies) and if or when he is back out on the streets, which seems to be three years tops if he gets convicted and given the max


"The term of incarceration for a Class 4 felony is ordinarily between one and three years. 730 ILCS 5/5-9-1(a)(1) ordinarily provides for fines of up to $25,000 for felonies, except that corporations may normally be fined up to $50,000."

And there would be more strict stipulations to his release and sex offender registration...possible probation...longer length of time he will have to register...and will have to register more frequently...I think I saw it was every 90 days.

krupa's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:26 PM

Maybe it would be possible for you "enough is enough" people to just ignore this thread and let the people who still want to discuss this story do so in peace?


No

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Thu 05/17/12 09:34 PM

I don't see a lynch mob. I see people expressing hurt, grief, even love. Some hate. Answering of some questions, assortments of emotions.But, I see no lynch mob.
I think I saw one mention of a rope in the whole thread.


Exactly. :thumbsup:

carold's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:39 PM
Maybe the mob don't see I did say a few things.

krupa's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:42 PM
Let me ask you this Spider...(I just got a great new spyder convertable....so don't think I got a problem with Spyders)

...what are you really here for?

To crucify someone who is not even on this site anymore?

Maybe you are here to show some love to the outstanding woman you met here?

Are you here to make friends?

Cause I am not seeing any attempts at love or friendships...

Don't prove me right.


lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:45 PM
As long as the thread is open and I do not violate the rules here and I see someone defend this child molester, I will post. It is no secret I do not like child molesters or anyone that defends them. We are not idly gossiping. This is current events backed by facts. But, I won't lose any sleep if this thread does close. I do kind of think maybe Charles has a reason for it being here. So, who is anyone to question that?

lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:47 PM

Let me ask you this Spider...(I just got a great new spyder convertable....so don't think I got a problem with Spyders)

...what are you really here for?

To crucify someone who is not even on this site anymore?

Maybe you are here to show some love to the outstanding woman you met here?

Are you here to make friends?

Cause I am not seeing any attempts at love or friendships...

Don't prove me right.




Maybe he doesn't need to explain to you what he is here for. It is not him that broke any laws.

carold's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:54 PM

As long as the thread is open and I do not violate the rules here and I see someone defend this child molester, I will post. It is no secret I do not like child molesters or anyone that defends them. We are not idly gossiping. This is current events backed by facts. But, I won't lose any sleep if this thread does close. I do kind of think maybe Charles has a reason for it being here. So, who is anyone to question that?
Defend this child molester I don't think anyone is defending him. But yah sure jump on people.

I do think Charles will take it off.

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Thu 05/17/12 09:57 PM

To crucify someone who is not even on this site anymore?


I don't believe in crucifixion or in the death penalty for child molesters. They are typically very docile around adults. They can safely be incarcerated for their lifetime without posing a danger to other inmates. I only favor the death penalty in cases when the individual is a danger to other people.

As for Keith, he's a deeply troubled man. I have never liked him, maybe I picked up on his "offness" or maybe it was because as a moderator, he was rude, unfair and bigoted against Christians. I don't wish him harm, that wouldn't undo his crimes. I just don't feel that sex offenders who are fixated on children should be allowed out of custody. I think 30k+ child porn pictures is fairly good evidence of a fixation on children, I have never in my life had that many naked pictures of women and I freaking love women.

This topic has allowed us to discuss sex crime and punishment in general, not just Keith and his crimes. I don't see why this thread should be killed or why we should stop posting here if people still have things to say.


Are you here to make friends?


No, I am not.


Cause I am not seeing any attempts at love or friendships...


I've got great friends, I have my kids, I have the love of a great woman and heck, I'm even friends with most of my exs. I don't come here looking for love or friendships, I come here for discussions. If friendship happens, that's an added bonus. I find common ground with one person in one thread and we disagree in another thread. I see nothing wrong with that.


Don't prove me right.


I have no idea what this means.

krupa's photo
Thu 05/17/12 09:57 PM

As long as the thread is open and I do not violate the rules here and I see someone defend this child molester, I will post. It is no secret I do not like child molesters or anyone that defends them. We are not idly gossiping. This is current events backed by facts. But, I won't lose any sleep if this thread does close. I do kind of think maybe Charles has a reason for it being here. So, who is anyone to question that?


That would be me Darlin...I will stand the hell up and question it.

I just like the fact that this is a happy place of positives.....I met my love here. I have met long term actual friends here. I have laughed and cried with my friends here.

..and there is no damned way I will sit back and let this really good thing become nothing more than a focus on one dousche who pulled a scam on every one of us.

If I am gonna be the bad guy cause I like what Mingle has brought to me.....my friends...my lover.

Fine....I will deal with it.

So.....you do what you need to do.

I will too.


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Thu 05/17/12 09:59 PM
Some are defending him. But, like I said I don't care if Charles takes it off. I agreed with Joel several pages ago it might be best. Because, there are those that will defend and those that will counter defend until it is closed.

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Thu 05/17/12 10:00 PM


As long as the thread is open and I do not violate the rules here and I see someone defend this child molester, I will post. It is no secret I do not like child molesters or anyone that defends them. We are not idly gossiping. This is current events backed by facts. But, I won't lose any sleep if this thread does close. I do kind of think maybe Charles has a reason for it being here. So, who is anyone to question that?


That would be me Darlin...I will stand the hell up and question it.

I just like the fact that this is a happy place of positives.....I met my love here. I have met long term actual friends here. I have laughed and cried with my friends here.

..and there is no damned way I will sit back and let this really good thing become nothing more than a focus on one dousche who pulled a scam on every one of us.

If I am gonna be the bad guy cause I like what Mingle has brought to me.....my friends...my lover.

Fine....I will deal with it.

So.....you do what you need to do.

I will too.




It's one thread, get the hell over it.

carold's photo
Thu 05/17/12 10:02 PM

Some are defending him. But, like I said I don't care if Charles takes it off. I agreed with Joel several pages ago it might be best. Because, there are those that will defend and those that will counter defend until it is closed.
:thumbsup:

krupa's photo
Thu 05/17/12 10:02 PM


To crucify someone who is not even on this site anymore?


I don't believe in crucifixion or in the death penalty for child molesters. They are typically very docile around adults. They can safely be incarcerated for their lifetime without posing a danger to other inmates. I only favor the death penalty in cases when the individual is a danger to other people.

As for Keith, he's a deeply troubled man. I have never liked him, maybe I picked up on his "offness" or maybe it was because as a moderator, he was rude, unfair and bigoted against Christians. I don't wish him harm, that wouldn't undo his crimes. I just don't feel that sex offenders who are fixated on children should be allowed out of custody. I think 30k+ child porn pictures is fairly good evidence of a fixation on children, I have never in my life had that many naked pictures of women and I freaking love women.

This topic has allowed us to discuss sex crime and punishment in general, not just Keith and his crimes. I don't see why this thread should be killed or why we should stop posting here if people still have things to say.


Are you here to make friends?


No, I am not.


Cause I am not seeing any attempts at love or friendships...


I've got great friends, I have my kids, I have the love of a great woman and heck, I'm even friends with most of my exs. I don't come here looking for love or friendships, I come here for discussions. If friendship happens, that's an added bonus. I find common ground with one person in one thread and we disagree in another thread. I see nothing wrong with that.


Don't prove me right.


I have no idea what this means.


Why the hell can't you understand what I am saying?




MAKE THIS A GOOD PLACE TO BE.....

exactly which part of that do you not understand?...I can draw pictures for the bigger words.

lilangel2's photo
Thu 05/17/12 10:03 PM


As long as the thread is open and I do not violate the rules here and I see someone defend this child molester, I will post. It is no secret I do not like child molesters or anyone that defends them. We are not idly gossiping. This is current events backed by facts. But, I won't lose any sleep if this thread does close. I do kind of think maybe Charles has a reason for it being here. So, who is anyone to question that?


That would be me Darlin...I will stand the hell up and question it.

I just like the fact that this is a happy place of positives.....I met my love here. I have met long term actual friends here. I have laughed and cried with my friends here.

..and there is no damned way I will sit back and let this really good thing become nothing more than a focus on one dousche who pulled a scam on every one of us.

If I am gonna be the bad guy cause I like what Mingle has brought to me.....my friends...my lover.

Fine....I will deal with it.

So.....you do what you need to do.

I will too.




You ever think it might be due to him thinking he owes it to the community here? You ever think it might be due to legalities? It could be a number of reason you or I are not privy of. He may think it best to just stop the posting and keep the notice up to solve it all. Personally I will be glad too if no one can post here...some posts just turn my stomach.

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Thu 05/17/12 10:03 PM

Some are defending him. But, like I said I don't care if Charles takes it off. I agreed with Joel several pages ago it might be best. Because, there are those that will defend and those that will counter defend until it is closed.


i have not read one post in all these pages that defends keith willis. i have read several posts pertaining to lex fontanye that could be interpreted as sympathy. not everyone is black and white on the keith willis/lex fontanye fiasco