Topic: Date wants to clean my house. Why?
ruth74's photo
Mon 04/01/13 07:07 PM

Hey Ruth...Hi how are you...do you have a man already..? other wise count me in...!!! jajajajja....it is so nice what you have just said...I mean the way you describe you will be taking care of your man..I will take care of my girl as well..and perhaps you are so beautiful...Soooo beautiful...I mean it.


Thank you very much for the compliment!waving
Nope...I'm single, and going to stay that way until just the right fellow comes along. I've been through two very difficult relationships, and happily, have learned from them.
I've learned that it is so much better to be single, independent and happy, rather than to be in a relationship that is wrong and where I am sad and trapped into sacrificing 'me' for 'us'.
I found 'me', and I like 'me', and will never, ever give me up again. I worked too hard to find myself and darn it...I LIKE me!!
tongue2

Goofball73's photo
Mon 04/01/13 07:18 PM
Did she work for one of those maid services? I mean, if she is going to wear the French maid outfit while cleaning then I say it is a win-win. :thumbsup: :laughing:

pyxxie13's photo
Mon 04/01/13 07:21 PM
Creepy to me lol

Kahurangi's photo
Tue 04/02/13 05:48 AM
Edited by Kahurangi on Tue 04/02/13 06:10 AM

It ain't THAT dirty. :wink:

Help me out here, gals.

And men. Have ya'll noticed that type of behavior?

What is the psychology behind women I invite for a meal, movie and sometimes sex seem to want to clean my house.

Is it some sort of nesting syndrome or is it like a dude pissin' out in the yard, marking his territory?

Help me understand.


Are you serious??...it may not be that dirty to you, but you know...the thought of a crusty pair of undies or toejam socks appearing out of nowhere and staring you in the face whilst you're getting your krunk on would be somewhat of a mood killer don't you think? spock

Kahurangi's photo
Tue 04/02/13 05:50 AM

Your inner world is a reflection of your outer world.


You've been on the cactus juice with Yoda again haven't you Printsy? :wink:

no photo
Tue 04/02/13 06:05 AM
Edited by CremeBrulee on Tue 04/02/13 06:10 AM
Willing2,
It would be rude if you said no yet she offered out of her kindness!!
Tru,some women do the tidyin and washing,once they drop by-i mean,we do have to expend all that energy we got from.........you know that women get energetic as met get tired out!?
Personally,i'd only clean IF man and i are close-clean sheets are a must for good sleep!

Sooooo,let the lady do as she please......hopefully,some grill is cooking up a storm too?!!

Kahurangi's photo
Tue 04/02/13 06:14 AM
Awww shux Newbie...i just had a visual of you whipping out a feather duster! noway laugh

no photo
Tue 04/02/13 06:28 AM
Edited by CremeBrulee on Tue 04/02/13 06:29 AM

Awww shux Newbie...i just had a visual of you whipping out a feather duster! noway laugh


Ha ha ha haaaa.....
Such imagination!!
Yes,add some heels on that visual!!
Am B.A.D!!

Waaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiit,
The grill is burning!! Oooops

Kahurangi's photo
Tue 04/02/13 06:31 AM
Don't trip over in those heels in your rush out to the grill now will you? :wink:

no photo
Tue 04/02/13 08:33 AM
Edited by CremeBrulee on Tue 04/02/13 08:44 AM

Don't trip over in those heels in your rush out to the grill now will you? :wink:


ooooooooopppppssssss

Ouch,
aaawwww.....
My ankle......
Please take over from there.... The feather duster is on the floor! Limping away....

English502's photo
Thu 05/02/13 05:18 AM
It's a trap

4evababy's photo
Thu 05/02/13 05:26 AM
Edited by 4evababy on Thu 05/02/13 05:26 AM
is it messy? cause she may just be a clean person and cant stand to see a mess

no photo
Thu 05/02/13 05:32 AM
hehehehheheheh oh my God u dont know why they do that ...heheheh to show u that they are good house wife who like to make ur house clean and bright ...:angel: :angel:

pkirk1225's photo
Thu 05/02/13 06:26 AM
Its just us were raised that way its the least we can do to show our appreciation of all you do nothing more.

pkirk1225's photo
Thu 05/02/13 06:31 AM
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Don't trip over in those heels in your rush out to the grill now will you? :wink:
laugh laugh laugh

metalwing's photo
Thu 05/02/13 06:57 AM

Everyone was raised different. I was raised by my dad and brother. I learned that we all pitched in when it came to things around the house. There was no certain duty anyone had to do it was a team effort...

To this day I prefer a man that likes to cook and does not bother them to help clean up in the house as well as outside..

The only time I have actually cleaned a guys place was after we were together for quit a while and I was there waiting for him to get there and I was really bored lol....

But then he would help me out at my house as well it was all a team effort....:thumbsup:

I'm one you help me out I will help you..

But I would never clean the guys place if it was just for the sex only shshsh.


Seems like you were cleaning some at my house!laugh

unsure's photo
Fri 05/03/13 03:42 AM
I don't know IF I had to straighten up someone's place before I felt comfy, I don't think I would want to be there. I have to admit, I am kinda strange about people keeping their place clean...if their place is not clean or it smells strange, I won't be sitting down any where. My Dad always told me...IF YOU HAVE TO SAY, EXCUSE MY MESS...GET OFF YOUR LAZY A$$ AND CLEAN YOUR HOUSE!!! So I would say that I am a clean freak...thanks Dad!!!
But I don't think it would be my job to clean someone's place...I don't live there!!

TawtStrat's photo
Fri 05/03/13 04:14 AM

i mean,we do have to expend all that energy we got from.........you know that women get energetic as met get tired out!?



No, I don't know that at all and it isn't true in my experience.

no photo
Fri 05/03/13 08:30 AM
Wanting to clean a date's house is definitely not a women in general kind of thing to do. Perhaps she's a bit OCD and you don't have things the way she wants? I've never had the desire to want to clean a date's house. I think that's kind of weird. laugh

TawtStrat's photo
Fri 05/03/13 09:52 AM
Edited by TawtStrat on Fri 05/03/13 09:53 AM

Wanting to clean a date's house is definitely not a women in general kind of thing to do. Perhaps she's a bit OCD and you don't have things the way she wants? I've never had the desire to want to clean a date's house. I think that's kind of weird. laugh


Yeah, it's the old inductive fallacy. "Every girlfriend that I've ever managed to get was a bit mental. Therefore, probably women are just a bit mental."