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Topic: why do males treat femals so bad now a days ?
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Mon 04/14/14 11:13 PM
I have noticed so many guys are treating females/women horrible now a days. I don't get it at all. I see friends of mine with the most beautiful female that is down to earth and as loyal as can be and they still cheat on them and talk down to them and sometimes even abuse them. I cant stand this ****. its horrible. I believe all women should be treated as if they are a queen. open and close car doors for them, open and close doors to stores and restaurants. I believe you should treat every women like you would want you daughter to be treated if they had a boyfriend or husband. women should not be abused physically or mentally. women are fragile now a days because of the amount of men who have screwed them over. myself will always treat a women with love and affection. I will always trust a female until they have proven me wrong. I will always put a female before myself. women deserve nothing but the best. I feel like the rude ******* men get the most loyal beautiful females now a days and the loyal gentleman like myself get left in the dust. I would love to know the answer for this, I know some people are not going to agree with me but maybe some people will.

fun4us2try73's photo
Tue 04/15/14 06:15 AM
Not all men are dogs There's just a few that make us look bad Women can be cruel to But those are the ones that make the women look bad Can't we all just get along

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Tue 04/15/14 06:31 AM
maybe you need a new social circle. I really do not see those things happening to any great extent now. But now, I also will not allow that.

I know those kinds of men are out there but I pretty much stay away from them, personally. I have met some in the past and definitely agree that it can affect a person's ability to desire a new relationship.

But I see that for both genders though, not exclusively for women. I think we can all get along when we find like minded people. It is hard to get along with a man or a woman who is mean.

there are definitey good men out there. i have met many, on here and IRL

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Tue 04/15/14 09:48 AM
I think it's unfair to blame one gender over the other. Women really are just as bad. None of my ex's treat me bad, and were all quite respectful, and curteous, but maybe that's because I scan their behaviour before we get serious. Also explains why I've not had many boyfriends, because they were loyal to their word.

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Tue 04/15/14 12:40 PM

I have noticed so many guys are treating females/women horrible now a days. I don't get it at all. I see friends of mine with the most beautiful female that is down to earth and as loyal as can be and they still cheat on them and talk down to them and sometimes even abuse them. I cant stand this ****. its horrible. I believe all women should be treated as if they are a queen. open and close car doors for them, open and close doors to stores and restaurants. I believe you should treat every women like you would want you daughter to be treated if they had a boyfriend or husband. women should not be abused physically or mentally. women are fragile now a days because of the amount of men who have screwed them over. myself will always treat a women with love and affection. I will always trust a female until they have proven me wrong. I will always put a female before myself. women deserve nothing but the best. I feel like the rude ******* men get the most loyal beautiful females now a days and the loyal gentleman like myself get left in the dust. I would love to know the answer for this, I know some people are not going to agree with me but maybe some people will.

Yeah its nothing new, the young woman become attracted to many
abrupt guys. There inexperience tells them that he's a confident alfa male but often he may be over compensating for his own insecurities.
Unfortunately that sweet person will end up dishing out her share later
in life, in many cases.

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Tue 04/15/14 12:46 PM
...Ohhh.. I'm definitely coming back for this one...noway

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Tue 04/15/14 12:46 PM

and the loyal gentleman like myself

It worries me when a guy feels the need to call himself a Gentleman.

Sleepybeach's photo
Tue 04/15/14 12:58 PM
Edited by Sleepybeach on Tue 04/15/14 12:59 PM
I'm new here and middle age and just got divorced after 20 yrs. So...should I just be a straight up complete *** to women these days? Not sure how to play things these days? I never thought I could be a complete *** but after my ex was done squarely shoving a tire iron in my ***, I do believe I've found a new kind of jerk strength! Yes, no?

dreamerana's photo
Tue 04/15/14 01:10 PM

I'm new here and middle age and just got divorced after 20 yrs. So...should I just be a straight up complete *** to women these days? Not sure how to play things these days? I never thought I could be a complete *** but after my ex was done squarely shoving a tire iron in my ***, I do believe I've found a new kind of jerk strength! Yes, no?

Focusing on the negative continues to give her power to hurt you. I feel bad for you that this happened, but I hope that when the pain of your loss eases up that you can judge a woman by the individual that she is and don't judge all women by the actions of one. Wish you the best

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Tue 04/15/14 01:16 PM
Edited by Sleepybeach on Tue 04/15/14 01:19 PM
Thanks dream:p Actually, I doubt I could be that guy. I'm too laid back. Plus I've got a daughter and I would never want anyone to treat her like crap. It does seem men & women are a little harsh to one another these days. I'll probably just try to find some females that I can be friends with. I don't think I've the energy for any drama at the moment.

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Tue 04/15/14 01:16 PM


I'm new here and middle age and just got divorced after 20 yrs. So...should I just be a straight up complete *** to women these days? Not sure how to play things these days? I never thought I could be a complete *** but after my ex was done squarely shoving a tire iron in my ***, I do believe I've found a new kind of jerk strength! Yes, no?

Focusing on the negative continues to give her power to hurt you. I feel bad for you that this happened, but I hope that when the pain of your loss eases up that you can judge a woman by the individual that she is and don't judge all women by the actions of one. Wish you the best

Very elequont Dreamerana, and oh so true

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Tue 04/15/14 01:51 PM

There's something very Freudian about this posting, a hidden agenda of some kind.

Yep, you got it

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Tue 04/15/14 01:51 PM
There's something very Freudian about this posting, a hidden agenda of some kind.

Sleepybeach's photo
Tue 04/15/14 01:57 PM
Freud was crackpot strung out on opioids most of the time. Agenda??? Lol...the same agenda that's been going since the first cave woman started wearing the first loin cloth.

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Tue 04/15/14 01:58 PM

Freud was crackpot strung out on opioids most of the time. Agenda??? Lol...the same agenda that's been going since the first cave woman started wearing the first loin cloth.

yes, Psychoanalysis

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Tue 04/15/14 04:41 PM
now 'nice guy' threads are veiled and hidden! slaphead

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Tue 04/15/14 04:43 PM

now 'nice guy' threads are veiled and hidden! slaphead

Hey Isaac, how's that lovely gee gee of yours.

isaac_dede's photo
Tue 04/15/14 04:46 PM
she is good, working right now....while i'm studying my a s s off! I have my 3rd IT certification tomorrow morning at 8:15am....hoping to pass this one first time as well....but for some reason i'm worried

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Tue 04/15/14 04:49 PM

she is good, working right now....while i'm studying my a s s off! I have my 3rd IT certification tomorrow morning at 8:15am....hoping to pass this one first time as well....but for some reason i'm worried

Yeah, I know the feeling, I spend far too much time on Mingle but I just can't help myself.

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Tue 04/15/14 04:53 PM


she is good, working right now....while i'm studying my a s s off! I have my 3rd IT certification tomorrow morning at 8:15am....hoping to pass this one first time as well....but for some reason i'm worried

Yeah, I know the feeling, I spend far too much time on Mingle but I just can't help myself.

That's part of the reason I deactivated....I need to focus on passing these certifications so I can get a good job, I want to move to San Francisco but I always don't want to be living in the ghetto when I get there!

That and you cute little out-of-reach self:wink: but I understand my GF is older than me, so I understand the appeal of older ladies...even if I can't explain why :smile:

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