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Topic: Would you date your friend's EX?
Awatersign's photo
Wed 08/06/14 11:00 AM
Edited by Awatersign on Wed 08/06/14 11:04 AM
For me,a long time would have to pass,or my friend would have to be SERIOUSLY involved with someone else,and it still would proberly take a little time,i was in that position couple times, couldnt do it,but to just sleep with her,lol it can happen,am only human,just keepin it 100% real,have yall been in that position befor?can /would you do it?or have you done it???

kc0003's photo
Wed 08/06/14 11:11 AM
no.

no photo
Wed 08/06/14 11:18 AM
I have dated a friend's ex before when I was younger.....like 19. Had his blessing even. About 2 weeks later I realized why he dumped her. Clingyness, and trust issues is what drove both my friend and myself to get away from her.

Datwasntme's photo
Wed 08/06/14 11:32 AM

I have dated a friend's ex before when I was younger.....like 19. Had his blessing even. About 2 weeks later I realized why he dumped her. Clingyness, and trust issues is what drove both my friend and myself to get away from her.



but how could she not trust Scooby-Doo?
all she would have to do is buy you a box of scooby snacks and would know all would be good : )

<shrug> couldn't resist

Datwasntme's photo
Wed 08/06/14 11:35 AM
i would say no , as so far at least

cause like with Scooby they have all had a good reason for it not working out
so i have never wanted to put myself through the same thing

but if i had there blessing and i thought it might work out cause it was a fault i didn't mind then yes i would


no photo
Wed 08/06/14 11:43 AM


I have dated a friend's ex before when I was younger.....like 19. Had his blessing even. About 2 weeks later I realized why he dumped her. Clingyness, and trust issues is what drove both my friend and myself to get away from her.



but how could she not trust Scooby-Doo?
all she would have to do is buy you a box of scooby snacks and would know all would be good : )

<shrug> couldn't resist


Jinkies!

msharmony's photo
Wed 08/06/14 12:09 PM
Edited by msharmony on Wed 08/06/14 12:11 PM
details would matter

is it an ex because they treated my friend like crap? then no
is it an ex because my friend treated them like crap? maybe
is it an ex because they weren't together very long and didn't connect? maybe,,,

were they together more than six months? then no
are there children involved? not in a million years

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 08/06/14 12:10 PM
Now? Complicated.

During the 80s/90s it was like musical chairs. Glad most of us survived!

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 08/06/14 12:21 PM

Now? Complicated.

During the 80s/90s it was like musical chairs. Glad most of us survived!


It was worse for us in the 60s/70s like shocked

no photo
Wed 08/06/14 12:22 PM
Nope, whatever the situation, that's a big fat can of worms right there.noway

no photo
Wed 08/06/14 12:33 PM
been there..., why not. if im not tapping that out someone else will be..., and if we are compatible, sure.

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 08/06/14 12:41 PM


Now? Complicated.

During the 80s/90s it was like musical chairs. Glad most of us survived!


It was worse for us in the 60s/70s like shocked

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAhahahaha
rofl rofl rofl rofl

Weren't you like -6 in 1979 Audrey LMAO!

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 08/06/14 12:45 PM



Now? Complicated.

During the 80s/90s it was like musical chairs. Glad most of us survived!


It was worse for us in the 60s/70s like shocked

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAhahahaha
rofl rofl rofl rofl

Weren't you like -6 in 1979 Audrey LMAO!


I'm a time traveler babe.


Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 08/06/14 12:51 PM
:banana: drinker flowerforyou

no photo
Wed 08/06/14 01:02 PM

For me,a long time would have to pass,or my friend would have to be SERIOUSLY involved with someone else,and it still would proberly take a little time,i was in that position couple times, couldnt do it,but to just sleep with her,lol it can happen,am only human,just keepin it 100% real,have yall been in that position befor?can /would you do it?or have you done it???



dreamerana's photo
Wed 08/06/14 01:05 PM
Edited by dreamerana on Wed 08/06/14 01:18 PM
ever watched when Harry met Sally?



I know too many things about my friend's ex. I don't date people I couldn't respect.

msharmony's photo
Wed 08/06/14 01:27 PM
I agree totally dream

but it depends upon the ex, entirely
if the person who happens to be an ex isn't respectable or if they are a great person who your friend just wasn't into,,,,

Awatersign's photo
Wed 08/06/14 01:55 PM
Even though its not wrong ,atleast alot of you have a conscience and some class!!:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

smartwithsparks's photo
Wed 08/06/14 02:10 PM
Never..totally off limits

Awatersign's photo
Wed 08/06/14 02:18 PM


For me,a long time would have to pass,or my friend would have to be SERIOUSLY involved with someone else,and it still would proberly take a little time,i was in that position couple times, couldnt do it,but to just sleep with her,lol it can happen,am only human,just keepin it 100% real,have yall been in that position befor?can /would you do it?or have you done it???


Lol am NOT in that situation,been there though!:-)

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