,.... because i expect a woman to contribute to the finances instead of spending all MY money on shoes and clubbing?
.......I dont have an ATM machine strapped to my back?
...... because when the sex level is lower than the bitchin level i fold?
..... i expect a woman to take care of herself and look good?
...because i like women half my age?
..... because i dont want a woman that every body else in town has already had..?
.... because i am not politically correct and proud of it?

its all in what i am looking for... or not looking for... which is another drunk for a gf... I think its a safe bet that there are a lot of them at the bar.... any bar. There are so many other things to do in life besides get drunk...... dont really have time for it anymore and there is no purpose in it for me, and a lot of liability from my perspective. believe it or not, most people DONT drink... ever. not everyone is doing it. lol. i have raised the bar( no pun intended) above all that. Can you have fun without drinking? Most people manage just fine without it.

i have been to the Phillipines, and i can only speak for what i saw there.... they say it is not uncommon there to find baby girls in dumpsters, in fact i know of one that survived.. she married a friend of mine...
MABE IT WAS JUST THE AREA i was in or the families i met, but i saw a place where women are treated about like they were here 100 yrs ago.....

impossible. they are everywhere. lol.

what doesent apply everywhere is irrelavent to me, only concerned with my corner of the world. Yes there are probably two people that go to bars that are not like that.

oh and dont make the mistake of thinking they are dumb or uneducated or simple... usually they are very educated. Abby has 2 degrees, a teachers certificate and a business degree, but she will play dumb and let you hang yourself if you set yourself up for it.

ask the expert.... me.
respect, honesty, humility, loyalty, family values.... strong religious beliefs... unless you meet her at the bar accross from the navy base of course... which i would never do. there are so many beautiful, intelligent women over there to choose from.
I had to teach Abigail NOT to walk behind me when she first got here... then when i was teaching her to drive she wrecked my work truck she wanted to know when i would beat her. it seems to me that they are not very well treated. respect them, and they will respond.

... which barstool is the one that is shaped just like you ***? hows that?
... tell me the same story you have told me the last 12 times i was here please?

and/ or the priest... lol/hmmm. actually i order out for asian.

I play the odds... and have had 2 drunks for girlfriends, dont want to go there again... Drunks are loud, smelly, self centered and basically no fun to be around. I never was much of a barfly, which is not to say that i never drank, but finally i had to ask myself a simple question..." am i really having fun here or am i just doing what I think is supposed to be fun?" Generalizations are what they are because they are usually true... plus,spending 100- 200.000 a night at the bars just dont make any sense to me. Money is too hard to come by for that. then theres the whole driving home drunk thing... of course you dont have to drink at the bar, but then whats the point? ever try to deal with drunks when you are the only sober one? have i had fun in a bar? yes. would i ever date someone I met there? Very likely not.
OF COURSE, I LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN, so everyone knows everyone... which makes a difference i would guess. the women at the bar have in fact been with everyone else here already, generally speaking.

..... crossing off the list all the women who like bars... dont want to go where every man in town has gone before. hmmmm

.. unless they are drunks....

is this an option for you?

in my case it usually ends up being lust at first sight, not that i realise it at the time..

When i see someone describing themselves as a princess... this is what i think... Princesses want to live in castles, which are expensive to buy, to heat, lots of security expenses, drawbridge maintenance, drafty, someone is always wanting to set seige to the place.... ect. ect. lol

we did a house for habitat for Humanity... was a good project. If you want some more practice comon up here i have a nice project going. lol/hmmm

cool.

eewwwwww too much info bro

speak for yourself...not for me please

nice. what have you done?