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Topic: no one can make you happy but you!!
JayM313's photo
Mon 08/25/14 12:11 PM
So live life everyday like its your last.
no one is promised tomorrow

dreamerana's photo
Mon 08/25/14 12:11 PM
can't argue with that. welcome to mingle.

msharmony's photo
Mon 08/25/14 12:11 PM
good advice


'happy' is a matter of energy

people can drain your energy and people can energize you

but its great to not be the source of your own draining, (no perverted comments please,,lol)

it at least gives you some arsenal against all that negative energy that will attack you,,,from others...

Datwasntme's photo
Mon 08/25/14 12:29 PM
dont agree with the title
but do agree with your staightment

Happy Hunting

no photo
Mon 08/25/14 12:32 PM
no one can make you happy but you!!


False. Other people make me happy all the time.

 Maria195's photo
Mon 08/25/14 01:06 PM

no one can make you happy but you!!


False. Other people make me happy all the time.



^^^^ :thumbsup:

kc0003's photo
Mon 08/25/14 01:14 PM

no one can make you happy but you!!


False. Other people make me happy all the time.

yes, but hallmark hasn't made that card yet...

Cruelladevil's photo
Mon 08/25/14 01:22 PM
Edited by Cruelladevil on Mon 08/25/14 01:23 PM
I totally agree that the statement is false. Other ppl make me happy as well!

soufiehere's photo
Mon 08/25/14 01:50 PM

So live life everyday like its your last.
no one is promised tomorrow

Well sheesh.
If I lived each day as my last, I would spend all my last
hours cleaning, laundering and giving myself a pedicure.

Not to mention the perfect make-up job and finding the
perfect outfit to go 'out' in.

Exhausting.
Just in time for the big nap.

Awatersign's photo
Mon 08/25/14 03:27 PM

So live life everyday like its your last.
no one is promised tomorrow
:thumbsup: Put your cups up mandrinks drinks drinker

Awatersign's photo
Mon 08/25/14 03:32 PM
Isn't it true that. We control our own emotions? (In reference you guys that think that statement is false),it's the same as saying someone make you mad,but in reality,YOU chose to get mad based on what they said or done,just my opinion!:smile: drinker

no photo
Mon 08/25/14 03:55 PM
This reminds me of what my mother used to often tell me. flowerforyou

Yesterday is the past - can't change it, so accept it for what it was, good and bad and move on.

Tomorrow is the future and it never comes - it's always just a day away.

Today is the present - it's a gift, so live it with your heart and soul.

premierblue's photo
Mon 08/25/14 04:03 PM

Ain't no sunshine when he's gone ...
Only darkness every day ...

Awww :-)

Where have you been? Lost all your blond locks!

stan_147's photo
Mon 08/25/14 11:39 PM


So live life everyday like its your last.
no one is promised tomorrow

Well sheesh.
If I lived each day as my last, I would spend all my last
hours cleaning, laundering and giving myself a pedicure.

Not to mention the perfect make-up job and finding the
perfect outfit to go 'out' in.

Exhausting.
Just in time for the big nap.


Just reading this made me tired. A nap sounds good.

TawtStrat's photo
Tue 08/26/14 12:08 AM
I don't know why people on dating sites are always going on about how they don't need somebody else to make them happy unless it's because they think that saying that and believing it will make them more atractive to the opposite sex. Maybe it's something that they say because it helps them to cope with being single. If you do get emotionally involved with someone though you give them the power over you to make you feel good or bad.

You think that you can control your emotions? True to a certain extent but there would have to be something wrong with you if you weren't touched by certain things and couldn't help the way that you felt about them.

jshyne20's photo
Tue 08/26/14 01:35 AM
I guess some people need others to be happy. personally its a mixture of being my own happiness and others making me happy...

no photo
Tue 08/26/14 04:24 AM

Isn't it true that. We control our own emotions? (In reference you guys that think that statement is false),it's the same as saying someone make you mad,but in reality,YOU chose to get mad based on what they said or done,just my opinion!:smile: drinker


Cheers.

Besides, self-awareness is pretty much the personal path to any emotion, and being that all emotions are temporal one could say that only you can force yourself to feel anything.

If I lived life thinking that today would be my last... that would be utter chaos. Better to that I'd say live each day as if you've got a 50/50 shot.

JayM313's photo
Tue 08/26/14 05:32 AM
Well said.

JayM313's photo
Tue 08/26/14 06:25 AM
To those that disagree.
If your not happy inside when your alone,it dosent who you with,you still wont be happy in your life!!.....
"Live everyday as its your last"
The problem with most is you take life for granted.
God didnt say you will live to see tomorrow?.
But to live today as its your last with kindness love understanding patience!
I bet the love one,one lost thought youll see them the next day or That week.
(wasnt you wrong)
Y?
Cause no one is no one is promised tomorrow!
I myself dont need someone to make me happy
Inside cause i am happy with myself.
sharing my happiness only increases the happiness with someone.
How can one make someone happy if your not happy?
Thats like saying,
"I dont love myself but i love you"?
You cant love someone else if you dont love yourself!
You dont know love.
Or how about respect?
I dont respect my self but i respect you?
Come on...really?



JayM313's photo
Tue 08/26/14 06:56 AM
I think you mean to say the company of others makes you happy because you don't like being alone cuz when you're alone you are unhappy.

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