100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
| Topic: How soon to use the l-word? | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
So, it's this very sweet young lady in my weekend ballet class. (It's not an accredited college or anything-just a dance studio run by a retired professional dancer) We met originally this past summer in a ballroom dance class at the local community college. We've always gotten along very well, and I've been lightly flirting with her ever since I met her. For example, after every class I kiss her hand very gentlemanly-like. I've been becoming more and more fond of her the more I see her. We treat class as our weekly dates now. What say you-at what point is it appropriate to say 'I love you”? Thanks! :) |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
if you feel you really love her, there is no bad time to tell her that you do...
the hard part is, not letting your own world fall apart if she doesn't reciprocate in kind...best of luck to you....  go for it...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
So, it's this very sweet young lady in my weekend ballet class. (It's not an accredited college or anything-just a dance studio run by a retired professional dancer) We met originally this past summer in a ballroom dance class at the local community college. We've always gotten along very well, and I've been lightly flirting with her ever since I met her. For example, after every class I kiss her hand very gentlemanly-like. I've been becoming more and more fond of her the more I see her. We treat class as our weekly dates now. What say you-at what point is it appropriate to say 'I love you”? Thanks! :) |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Don't jump the gun. Take her out to a real date / dinner. Get to know her without em' ballet shoes. If the moment is right & you'll know it if you had pay attention, then say it.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Love is in the air Everywhere I look around Love is in the air Every sight and every sound And I don't know if I'm being foolish Don't know if I'm being wise But it's something that I must believe in And it's there when I look in your eyes Love is in the air In the whisper of the trees Love is in the air In the thunder of the sea And I don't know if I'm just dreaming Don't know if I feel sane But it's something that I must believe in And it's there when you call out my name Love is in the air In the rising of the sun Love is in the air When the day is nearly done And I don't know if you're an illusion Don't know if I see it true But you're something that I must believe in And you're there when I reach out for you Love is in the air Every sight and every sound And I don't know if I'm being foolish Don't know if I'm being wise But it's something that I must believe in And it's there when I look in your eyes OP... Apparently the answer to your question is in her eyes .. Best of luck :-) A very thoughtful and beautiful answer, thanks. :) |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
BTW, I forgot to mention the age thing, which may or may not make a difference in your opinions
. She's in her mid-late 20's, I'm in my early 30's. :)
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Don't jump the gun. Take her out to a real date / dinner. Get to know her without em' ballet shoes. If the moment is right & you'll know it if you had pay attention, then say it.  When I see her again this weekend, I'll ask her to attend the annual mideast festival with me and see how it goes. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Take my advice, do not and I mean do not, tell her your username on here is heavenlyboy
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Oops ... when I sas the l-word I thought this was about a TV series.
Never mind 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
heavenlyboy34
on
Thu 09/25/14 02:16 PM
|
|
Take my advice, do not and I mean do not, tell her your username on here is heavenlyboy  No worries. I avoid talking about what I do on the interwebz to anyone aside from my publishing endeavors. (what happens on mingle stays on mingle, AFAIC)
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
How soon 'til I'll use the "l" word?
OOOOOOooooo, I suspect I'll be happily using the word "lesbian" .0027 nanoseconds after meeting Salma Hayek, in person.  Oh, look!!! She's sporting an outdated "Retro" 'do, from the "60s", too!!! |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
How soon 'til I'll use the "l" word? OOOOOOooooo, I suspect I'll be happily using the word "lesbian" .0027 nanoseconds after meeting Salma Hayek, in person. Oh, look!!! She's sporting an outdated "Retro" 'do, from the "60s", too!!! Salma Hayek and Jeanne Tripplehorn, Timecode. Naughty naughty |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
So, it's this very sweet young lady in my weekend ballet class. (It's not an accredited college or anything-just a dance studio run by a retired professional dancer) We met originally this past summer in a ballroom dance class at the local community college. We've always gotten along very well, and I've been lightly flirting with her ever since I met her. For example, after every class I kiss her hand very gentlemanly-like. I've been becoming more and more fond of her the more I see her. We treat class as our weekly dates now. What say you-at what point is it appropriate to say 'I love you”? Thanks! :) Don't say I love you yet...Say, "There are so many things I love about you."...  |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
or say LuYou! I (sincerely) Lu Leigh!!!....because she's brilliant and kicks my azz!!! 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
or say LuYou! I (sincerely) Lu Leigh!!!....because she's brilliant and kicks my azz!!! I sincerely love Beach because he gives me purpose.....
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
or say LuYou! I (sincerely) Lu Leigh!!!....because she's brilliant and kicks my azz!!! I sincerely love Beach because he gives me purpose..... and such a rich plethora of FIELDS of work to be done 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I would not rush into it op and better to wait to see how you like each other on a different level ...with out dancing ... you may feel like it is love she may feel like its just something in command you have with each other and is fun to do just that ...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
So, it's this very sweet young lady in my weekend ballet class. (It's not an accredited college or anything-just a dance studio run by a retired professional dancer) We met originally this past summer in a ballroom dance class at the local community college. We've always gotten along very well, and I've been lightly flirting with her ever since I met her. For example, after every class I kiss her hand very gentlemanly-like. I've been becoming more and more fond of her the more I see her. We treat class as our weekly dates now. What say you-at what point is it appropriate to say 'I love you”? Thanks! :) Long time, Bro! Hope all is good with you. If it was me, I'd ask her to dinner a few times. Call a couple, three times a week, see if she'd like to run errands with you. Let her know, tell her, show her, a little at a time, you are becoming attached. Good luck and welcome back.
|
|
|
|
|
