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really in all the world you can find some people who worth your nice talk to them and they make you happy for that and other people don't worth till saying hi to them , whatever their thoughts , beliefs , skin colour or religion ===> in the past i listened to some old phrases like that but really i started to feel of somethings like that in those days ... |
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just smile at everybody you meet. Make them wonder about themselves.
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no one is perfect, I speak to anyone who speaks to me because Im not perfect either
there are people, over time and observance, who just have a spirit about them that is draining in some way or another and I still show basic respect to those people, but I don't make an effort to engage with them if I don't have to,,, |
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just smile at everybody you meet. Make them wonder about themselves.  I can be respectful to people I dont care for. I can be an unraveled jackhole to people I dont care for. My choice to be either of those is about me, not about the other person. Thats how I look at people who behave poorly around me too. Our behavior is our own responsibility no one else's. I like that one too of yours. I sooo can relate to that. heh, heh.  Like mind game employer supervisors. 
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just smile at everybody you meet. Make them wonder about themselves. Sounds like a good advice, but I just can't make myself smile at everyone. I have learned to simply ignore those whom I wouldn't smile at on this forum. It is a pity that I also ignored some "hi" messages from some people, but how to say that it wouldn't work without hurting their feelings? Since I do not know an answer to that question, ignoring those messages is the best I can do. Does it make me rude? Smiling back at them can be perceived as a green light, which would only make things worse. I'd rather not waste their time. Some people ignored my messages and I didn't understand why. I taught that polite message can't be a reason for such a response, or rather a lack of it. Then I got the messages from people who are too far from me or those who aren't far, but have totally different lifestyle to which it would be too demanding to adjust and not really worth it. So what did I do? I remembered that some of my messages were simply ignored and figured out that those who didn't reply might have the same reasons. If there is no reply or chit-chat suddenly stops, I do not take it personally. Perhaps I'll even smile at everyone soon. Give it a time. 200 posts and still learning!  |
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Edited by
fleta_n_mach
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Sun 10/12/14 08:09 AM
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just smile at everybody you meet. Make them wonder about themselves. Sounds like a good advice, but I just can't make myself smile at everyone. I have learned to simply ignore those whom I wouldn't smile at on this forum. It is a pity that I also ignored some "hi" messages from some people, but how to say that it wouldn't work without hurting their feelings? Since I do not know an answer to that question, ignoring those messages is the best I can do. Does it make me rude? Smiling back at them can be perceived as a green light, which would only make things worse. I'd rather not waste their time. Some people ignored my messages and I didn't understand why. I taught that polite message can't be a reason for such a response, or rather a lack of it. Then I got the messages from people who are too far from me or those who aren't far, but have totally different lifestyle to which it would be too demanding to adjust and not really worth it. So what did I do? I remembered that some of my messages were simply ignored and figured out that those who didn't reply might have the same reasons. If there is no reply or chit-chat suddenly stops, I do not take it personally. Perhaps I'll even smile at everyone soon. Give it a time. 200 posts and still learning! oh, in trying to strike up messages to find somebody here?....no answer is an answer. Your profile pic is already smiling. Try using something in their profile to aide in convo. I have purposely shortened my profile to not have seekers. |
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@fleta_n_mach
I already cut about section of my profile in half. You are right. It works!  @klc That's it. Not a match - not a tragedy. I learned to move on and not to look back. It is funny how some people never get it. If I already politely said no, persistant attempts won't change it first into MAYBE and then to YES. So, I also learned how to block those persistant ones. Thanks for such a nice welcome!  |
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Edited by
Awatersign
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Sun 10/12/14 08:46 AM
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Me personally,I try to respect everyone as i would like the same in return,but if someone don't respect me,I try my very best to avoid them, but if It seem to difficult,then at some point,you probably going to get no respect from me,I think if we can or when we can,we should try and teach people by example,rather than treating them the way they treat us,lol but I know I can only do it for so long!!
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I always thought there where a lot of jaded people on dating site, but thanks the these forums now I know that some of the people here are just down right hateful.
 
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just smile at everybody you meet. Make them wonder about themselves. its meaning great and it reflects the tolerance , respect and take the life in an easy way , really i used to do that without thinking of that matter as a wise phrase , just i was doing that as usually i am doing and in another time as you said i use a good way to talk , maybe that Embarrass these people , but not sure if they wonder about themselves or not  .... thank you fleta_n_mach :)
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really in all the world you can find some people who worth your nice talk to them and they make you happy for that and other people don't worth till saying hi to them , whatever their thoughts , beliefs , skin colour or religion ===> in the past i listened to some old phrases like that but really i started to feel of somethings like that in those days ... always have respect for yourself. we can't take credit or responsibility for other.s actions. only for our own. treat people with courtesy. don't let others bring you down to their level. |
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Give respect to earn respect. Should be that way..
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just smile at everybody you meet. Make them wonder about themselves. I smile because you all have finally driven me insane. It's true, even says so on my t-shirt. Gonna buy one today that says... "Are you sure you want to be standing this close when I snap?" |
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no one is perfect, I speak to anyone who speaks to me because Im not perfect either there are people, over time and observance, who just have a spirit about them that is draining in some way or another and I still show basic respect to those people, but I don't make an effort to engage with them if I don't have to,,, agree no one is perfect , and already i respect all , whatever they are quite perfect or not , but my good expectation Frustrated me i will stop it .... thank you msharmony :) |
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Me personally,I try to respect everyone as i would like the same in return,but if someone don't respect me,I try my very best to avoid them, but if It seem to difficult,then at some point,you probably going to get no respect from me,I think if we can or when we can,we should try and teach people by example,rather than treating them the way they treat us,lol but I know I can only do it for so long!! usually i try to do that too , and i will not treat them in the same way as they do only by my nature cause i can't change it , also i feel that some of them dont worth my respect but i cant do that , but i will stop my good expectations of others and move on my way , thank you Awatersign :) |
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really in all the world you can find some people who worth your nice talk to them and they make you happy for that and other people don't worth till saying hi to them , whatever their thoughts , beliefs , skin colour or religion ===> in the past i listened to some old phrases like that but really i started to feel of somethings like that in those days ... always have respect for yourself. we can't take credit or responsibility for other.s actions. only for our own. treat people with courtesy. don't let others bring you down to their level. agree with you dreamerana , and sure i cant change my nature of respect that is my life , really you boosted my Morale thank you :)) 
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to quote R Dangerfield... I get no respect..lmao.. I respect the fact that we can .. agree to disagree.. but if you disrespectfully insult me... I will respectfully... show you the same in kind... if I do not return or respond to your messages... it is not a question of respect.... it could be I simply... have nothing to say.... Or engaging with you maybe... pointless...ie.. we are not going to be having coffee face to face any time soon.... or maybe I think you're just after my silver...lol.... but it does not mean I do not respect you as a human being.... perhaps I have too much respect for your time... I do not wish to waste it...
.. And as far as the color of your skin.. goes.... I'm color blind.... you all look the same to me...lol... and some of you are just plain crazy.... I do not do crazy very well.... I don't speak crazy..lmao.... I like some people more than others.... but I respect your freedom.. to speak your mind.... even if you are wrong...lmao.... peace out respectfully...    . |
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^^^^ Respectfully, No1, you need to watch Henry Rollins' "10 Things You Didn't Know" latest episode on H2. I might suggest wearing a bib.
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Give respect to earn respect. Should be that way.. agree forever i will give respect , but i won't wait the its return from others , thank you lu_rosemary :))
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^^^^ Respectfully, No1, you need to watch Henry Rollins' "10 Things You Didn't Know" latest episode on H2. I might suggest wearing a bib. but is this going to make me feel! like I'm being disrespected...  
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