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Edited by
panchovanilla
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Thu 10/30/14 09:05 PM
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From my vast experience
 2 things: 1. When meeting the young ladies parents ( about your age) act younger, so they will think you're just an immature turd, and not just a horny old goat. 2. Have plenty of $$ on hand at all times. Because she may want stuff. That's all I can think of right now. Hope it is helpful.  As a footnote, I should add that my ex was 13 years younger than me. And I am NOT bitter.  
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I don't care if a man is older or younger as long as we can laugh and enjoy each others company...I just hope that if I ever meet someone he's just a good, honest happy man who likes to make me happy...
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Okay..I'm in a relationship with an older man...I knew from the start he was older but I didn't knew how much..until that day I had an argument with klc about age doesn't matter in a relationship...I checked hes profile again and omg!!! Its a lot older..I tried to stop but its too late..I still end up chatting with him and laughing with him..all that said, we were very much in love and it feels like we were equal...why am I attracted to him..?looks does matter..yes..if he's bald and chubby..no way..and the thing is he's smart and interesting..funny..more mature and self aware than men my age..not easily frazzled when most problems arise..had a better knowing what women in general wants and in communicating with hes woman...wich all that is mentioned I didn't found in my past relationship with men my age..men my age like to party..I dont..they like to take pictures with as many hot looking girls and post it on Facebook and my space for everyone to see how cool that makes them..and I hate that..   and if being in a relationship with an older guy because of financial matter is what I am up to,then your not gonna be included in my choices..
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Anyway I feel I am on a roll now..... I guess the best advice is.... remember who counts most to you, your partner or the rest of the world..... who makes you happy and feel good..... who supports you and is there in bad as well as good.... don't let your friends trash your partner, regardless of their so called good intentions..... show where your loyalty and heart is and defend your partner..... this will stop future crap and reinforce your partners confidence..... no person on this planet has the right to judge you in matters of the heart..... and you will find few if any have the experience or knowledge to give solid advice..... good luck to you all.  Great advice Mikey...for any relationship. All the very best to you and Mekay.   thanks mate....I read some of that somewhere months ago and added a bit of me into it.....just tryin to spread the love and happiness.. Thank you for your best wishes.... Regardless of age we still both eat, and seek entertainment, so if those who are in an age gap relationship like us determine that they have many similar interest, why would age make a difference..considering men and women are by nature,very different to begin with.. |
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Edited by
completemyprofile
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Thu 10/30/14 10:41 PM
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Anyway I feel I am on a roll now..... I guess the best advice is.... remember who counts most to you, your partner or the rest of the world..... who makes you happy and feel good..... who supports you and is there in bad as well as good.... don't let your friends trash your partner, regardless of their so called good intentions..... show where your loyalty and heart is and defend your partner..... this will stop future crap and reinforce your partners confidence..... no person on this planet has the right to judge you in matters of the heart..... and you will find few if any have the experience or knowledge to give solid advice..... good luck to you all. Well put Mikey.......... I wish you two all the happiness in the world.... |
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Anyway I feel I am on a roll now..... I guess the best advice is.... remember who counts most to you, your partner or the rest of the world..... who makes you happy and feel good..... who supports you and is there in bad as well as good.... don't let your friends trash your partner, regardless of their so called good intentions..... show where your loyalty and heart is and defend your partner..... this will stop future crap and reinforce your partners confidence..... no person on this planet has the right to judge you in matters of the heart..... and you will find few if any have the experience or knowledge to give solid advice..... good luck to you all. Well put Mikey.......... I wish you two all the happiness in the world....
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If you want to date a young and pretty woman? Always give her a chocolate and candies....
 
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If a man married to young woman, people say because of money. If a woman married to an old dudes people say because of money. Is their an age limit when it comes to love? I always dated a man older than i... My friends ask me why i am interested to a man much older then I? I simply answer just because they are more attracted than a man of my age
 Oops! not because of chocolate and candies lol!
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I find favourable resopnse to me just being me on an average day comes variously, on occasion from women of all ages. I find myself not being hit on but just conversation starters where a stranger, a lady, wants you to hang around and chat for a bit. It's pretty awesome when that happens so I hang onto those thoughts as positives in life, they stick in mind happily.
So there's the video store hotty, I think she's about 19 doing university, smart as hell, quite tall and gorgeous, knows it but doesn't tramp it, I dropped a jaw first time I saw her before I caught myself (don't normally like creeping out the kids), and then she approached me, had her following me around the store chatting about movies we like. And I mean you know when you're talking to someone how far their intellect or general knowledge spans compared to yours, and she's up there, I score damn well in IQ tests and had nicknames in school like braniac and walking encyclopedia, she's that type of personality I could definitely tell. It's lightning in a bottle, but doesn't mean anything necessarily. That was just a nice afternoon that made me happy. Later saw a mom and her teen daughter exiting a supermarket as I entered, just a fleeting exchange. The mom's eyes and mine met with just a spontaneous natural smile each, very nice looking blonde lady in her thirties, you could tell she had a terrific relationship with her daughter as it was like a litter-mom and her pup walking along, but the daughter also smiled a thankyou as I made room for them, she didn't have to look to her mom for approval, whilst her mom and I just smiled at each other and stepped aside as if for moment in a slow dance together, I swear I almost bowed and she curtsied as we went our separate ways. Perhaps I might see her again there, I'm sure we'd speak if I did. Now, where I am with all this is just liking the days doing their thing being days in your life. I like to see things develop naturally, but do self govern and won't flourish in something which in any way makes me wince or feel weird. As to where this adventure may unfold, well one should be ready for anything. |
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Edited by
completemyprofile
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Fri 10/31/14 12:33 AM
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what if dating a not so young and not pretty women?no chocolate and candies?
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what if dating a not so young and not pretty women?no chocolate and candies? 
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Why would older men need tips on how to date younger women?  ...It's a known fact that many older men are attracted to younger women and one of the reasons they are is because younger women prefer them!...Dating outside one's age is becoming more and more acceptable for men and women...When I was in my twenties and thirties, I dated older men and for good reason!...I found older men had maturity, confidence, wisdom, and resources that many younger men could not offer...Older men have raised families and carved out careers, they are well traveled, well read, and well heeled...Older men are fit, active, interesting...Those who date younger women for the right reasons have the potential to offer them a very exciting (and sexually fulfilling) lifestyle, so why the hell not?...I love seeing May-December relationships that work because they speak volumes about the meaning of love...  The only older men that need tips are ones venturing into these relationships for the first time.....these guys need a confidence boost to reassure themselves they are doing the right thing.....trust me guys.....go for it, the rewards in terms of the level of love and respect your girl will give you is immeasurable..... for me personally.....the May-December relationship I am in isn't my first so I fully understand the road we travel.....but it is going to be my last relationship..... Oh and really guys, if your not into age gap relationships.....give yourself fully to your partner of whatever age she is....she will give herself fully back.....just sayin... Or venturing into them for the wrong reasons... I love M & M's....    |
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Another tip is to not be patronising about her age. This may sound obvious but if you're like me you're probably going to talk quite a lot about things that were before her time. That's fine but for Christ's sake don't tell her that you have T-shirts that are older than she is.
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Fri 10/31/14 05:15 AM
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Another tip is to not be patronising about her age. This may sound obvious but if you're like me you're probably going to talk quite a lot about things that were before her time. That's fine but for Christ's sake don't tell her that you have T-shirts that are older than she is. Wouldn't she already know this?...She is young, are you saying that means she's stoopid too?....
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My last wife was 30 years younger than I.
Had I given it the correct thought, I believe I would have had my microwave oven serviced sooner or maybe I should have put my head in it and left it on high for another 30 min. Seriously, however, to identify a mind with the age of the body never made much sense to me. |
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My girlfriend (B) is 20 years younger than me. We didn't seek each other out because of our age differences, it's an attraction that has built up over time. We've known each other for 4 years. I admit when we first started talking here on Mingle I didn't think it would be anything more than just friends. Partly because of our age difference, and also because I didn't think I was her type. Though we met on here in 2010, we didn't start talking offsite until 2012, and still it was just as friends, it wasn't until we met in person in 2013 that I know I wanted more than just friends, it wasn't until our third in person meeting that I told her how I felt about her, and thankfully she felt the same way. So after about a year of long distance, she officially became short distance when she moved up here to Oregon this last September. Our families both were leery of our relationship because of the age difference, but after meeting her family, and her meeting mine and seeing how we were with each other, everyone is fine with us now. Her mom who seemed the most hesitant, now always asks B how I'm am, and even one time wanted B to tell me that her mom watched a horror movie and wanted to know if I'd seen it. haha And when I see her in person now she gives me big kisses and hugs and wants to feed me. Actually my parents seemed more concerned with the long distance in miles than in age. My family has made her feel like part of the family. I'm sure there are those who probably don't approve, and judge us, and will come up with all kinds of reasons for why we would possibly be in a relationship together. But that's their problem. All that matters is how we feel about each other, and all I know is that this is the first time I've truly felt that I can't see myself with anyone else, and can't picture a life without her. |
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My girlfriend (B) is 20 years younger than me. We didn't seek each other out because of our age differences, it's an attraction that has built up over time. We've known each other for 4 years. I admit when we first started talking here on Mingle I didn't think it would be anything more than just friends. Partly because of our age difference, and also because I didn't think I was her type. Though we met on here in 2010, we didn't start talking offsite until 2012, and still it was just as friends, it wasn't until we met in person in 2013 that I know I wanted more than just friends, it wasn't until our third in person meeting that I told her how I felt about her, and thankfully she felt the same way. So after about a year of long distance, she officially became short distance when she moved up here to Oregon this last September. Our families both were leery of our relationship because of the age difference, but after meeting her family, and her meeting mine and seeing how we were with each other, everyone is fine with us now. Her mom who seemed the most hesitant, now always asks B how I'm am, and even one time wanted B to tell me that her mom watched a horror movie and wanted to know if I'd seen it. haha And when I see her in person now she gives me big kisses and hugs and wants to feed me. Actually my parents seemed more concerned with the long distance in miles than in age. My family has made her feel like part of the family. I'm sure there are those who probably don't approve, and judge us, and will come up with all kinds of reasons for why we would possibly be in a relationship together. But that's their problem. All that matters is how we feel about each other, and all I know is that this is the first time I've truly felt that I can't see myself with anyone else, and can't picture a life without her. (((((((((( MATT & B ))))))))))....Already read this twice!...It's so beautiful  ...Both of you are blessed to have the other...Don't know B well because she left too soon, but I do know this about her, she is beautiful beyond belief and smarter than smart....
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My girlfriend (B) is 20 years younger than me. We didn't seek each other out because of our age differences, it's an attraction that has built up over time. We've known each other for 4 years. I admit when we first started talking here on Mingle I didn't think it would be anything more than just friends. Partly because of our age difference, and also because I didn't think I was her type. Though we met on here in 2010, we didn't start talking offsite until 2012, and still it was just as friends, it wasn't until we met in person in 2013 that I know I wanted more than just friends, it wasn't until our third in person meeting that I told her how I felt about her, and thankfully she felt the same way. So after about a year of long distance, she officially became short distance when she moved up here to Oregon this last September. Our families both were leery of our relationship because of the age difference, but after meeting her family, and her meeting mine and seeing how we were with each other, everyone is fine with us now. Her mom who seemed the most hesitant, now always asks B how I'm am, and even one time wanted B to tell me that her mom watched a horror movie and wanted to know if I'd seen it. haha And when I see her in person now she gives me big kisses and hugs and wants to feed me. Actually my parents seemed more concerned with the long distance in miles than in age. My family has made her feel like part of the family. I'm sure there are those who probably don't approve, and judge us, and will come up with all kinds of reasons for why we would possibly be in a relationship together. But that's their problem. All that matters is how we feel about each other, and all I know is that this is the first time I've truly felt that I can't see myself with anyone else, and can't picture a life without her. (((((((((( MATT & B ))))))))))....Already read this twice!...It's so beautiful ...Both of you are blessed to have the other...Don't know B well because she left too soon, but I do know this about her, she is beautiful beyond belief and smarter than smart.... Thanks ((((((Leigh))))) I'm not taking anything for granted, and know I'm extremely lucky to have met her.
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My girlfriend (B) is 20 years younger than me. We didn't seek each other out because of our age differences, it's an attraction that has built up over time. We've known each other for 4 years. I admit when we first started talking here on Mingle I didn't think it would be anything more than just friends. Partly because of our age difference, and also because I didn't think I was her type. Though we met on here in 2010, we didn't start talking offsite until 2012, and still it was just as friends, it wasn't until we met in person in 2013 that I know I wanted more than just friends, it wasn't until our third in person meeting that I told her how I felt about her, and thankfully she felt the same way. So after about a year of long distance, she officially became short distance when she moved up here to Oregon this last September. Our families both were leery of our relationship because of the age difference, but after meeting her family, and her meeting mine and seeing how we were with each other, everyone is fine with us now. Her mom who seemed the most hesitant, now always asks B how I'm am, and even one time wanted B to tell me that her mom watched a horror movie and wanted to know if I'd seen it. haha And when I see her in person now she gives me big kisses and hugs and wants to feed me. Actually my parents seemed more concerned with the long distance in miles than in age. My family has made her feel like part of the family. I'm sure there are those who probably don't approve, and judge us, and will come up with all kinds of reasons for why we would possibly be in a relationship together. But that's their problem. All that matters is how we feel about each other, and all I know is that this is the first time I've truly felt that I can't see myself with anyone else, and can't picture a life without her. This is awesome....happy for you
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