We're you a rich spoiled girl who got thrown out of the house and is now trying to figure out when Daddy will finally send Cadbury the Butler to bring you back??

Because you don't seem to be in touch with the regular world

Cool i drive a impala.HEHEHEHEHE

Today the baby learned how to tickle my feet and hers..we laugh together all day, whenever she wants me I stop what I'm doing...other than that she likes to roam around freely and make noises at things all day. I have no one to talk to..and I've been with her since she was born, she comes with me wherever I go..I carry her in a baby carrier. So, don't think I'm a terrible mother because this website is a break in the day..

You look like Jensen Ackles as well?

Your just saying that cuz its my birthday..

Anyone accuse you of being a bad mother?
*scratches head*
I must have missed something ... and it seems you did as well...
Maybe get off your high horse and read what people say... The world isn't out to get you, you know ..

I can't beleave i'am saying this butt this woman hit the nail on the head.

hahaha, did it hurt? LOL
Thank you, (((Nascar)))

That's lovely

if this is in regards to my comment. I neither said nor implied you're a bad mother.
I said children learn from what they see. (as opposed to what they are told).

if a child sees a healthy relationship where people value each other, they will learn to build a healthy relationship.

if a child grows up where the lifestyle is valued more than the relationship, they learn to use people for things.

if a person sees distrust or hate toward a person or type of people they follow the cycle.

at no time do I question or condemn anyone's parenting skills.

I get that ^^

When I read the original post, I thought this lady must be out of her mind, but I think I'm starting to understand what she's saying. She can always correct me if I'm wrong.

I think what she's looking for is a self-made gentleman. While I don't personally need a rich man, I can appreciate a man who became successful in his career/profession because he strived for his success rather than a man who had everything handed to him because he came from money.

I hope a woman who makes a bold statement like OP just did should ensure she will measure up to the standard she Expects a man to live up to.

Disclaimer: No lady, I am not defending you either.

The way you worded your original statement it led me to think a certain way. My mistake.

However. Not all men expect you to pay half.I don't mind going dutch but I also don't mind paying if I invite a woman out. If I wanted her to pay I wouldn't have asked her out.

Generalizing doesn't work. First off for every rule you can think of there will indefinitely be an exception. Now with people especially you'll notice we are a populace of individuals. We are not ants or any other insect. I know I am unlike any other person on the planet. I'm not one in a million I'm one in roughly seven billion. No person not even identical twins are exactly alike. I always hated being compared to others so I'm sorry if I went on a little rant.

perhaps it's different ideas from a culture that holds different ideals.
there are still some cultures today where submissiveness and obedience is drilled into women. where they are not valuued except as a mother and housekeeper.
yet what happens when being dependent on the charity of others doesn't work?

OK......this is what we know of you or at least what I understand about you, Estelle! Correct me if I am wrong in my assumption.

You are an American citizen, but in a foreign country.
You have a daughter, you are not married but is staying with the father of your baby. This is your 3rd relationship....... and all 3 were bad.
You earn your own living, and sounds like the father is not contributing?
You are searching for someone to 'rescue' you from your current situation.
You are looking for someone who is self made and a professional with money of his own, is handsome..... but you think it is just a whimsical dream!
You are not a terrible mother and you love your baby and gives her all your time when she needs it.

I would still say.... concentrate on your baby...enjoy your time with her, don't 'hunt or look' for a man..... if it is meant to be, it will happen. A desperate and bitter woman is not attractive, a happy mother would be.

Estelle you hate men but looking for one...you make my head hurt

^^ i found this message fom crystal very interresring caus it show how you interact...

do you always take advices as an attack,i fell your fear and i guess it s why you just look after men with financial security who bring you materalistic security but make you wondering at the end and creat this post "why do i date the men with financial security" answer "the fear".

ahahah thought that some are interresting against her question who is generality around the world

your answer sound more desesperate then her post. you are probably looking for like her...or got him and you know already that will make her sad but secure.
caus you just go on the simple answer ever who come back for you to the single mens behave who try to match up with women who put an worldwide probleme of the men and women thought in the world.