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Would you trust a profile with only one photo of the person wearing shades? Is seeing that person's eyes important to you? I can see why you might not. I live nextdoor to a man who never takes his sunglasses off. However, they might just be insecure about their looks, or they might be hiding dark circles under their eyes. If I'm going to see their actual face, some day, I'd prefer to see it without the sunglasses, so that I can gauge how physically attracted I feel to them. I know looks aren't everything, but I can't date someone I feel no butterflies for. I need to feel some sort of physical chemistry. Exactly! Looks for me are the first invitation to get my attention. Then I want to see if that person has the qualities that mesh well with mine. If not, friendships are always possible. However, I ALWAYS looking for life-long friendships in everybody FIRST. Some ppl age horribly and hence maybe not look so good a year from now. So I can tell a lot about a person when i can see their eyes. what can you tell? and how? In Person??? Or on photo if on photo that he is photogenic nothing more Person a lot i keep reading "a lot", but a lot of what? Ok Moe... when I am in person and I am talking with someone.. For example if I am boring them Their eyes are going to say that if they are interested their eyes are going to say that if they appreciate me their eyes are going to say that if I disappoint them their eyes are going to say that.. If they find me interesting their eyes are going to say that. Eyes tell a lot about a person and the inner workings a lot of people have learned to school their facial features to not tell the inner workings of their mind. The eyes if you are quick enough and are intuned with that person you will know... You did well with that :). I'm sure he knew this already. Probably was just being funny  no, i just have a different view on it... with me, talking with people tells me more than anything about them, but when i was replying, it made me realize that the eye movements and body language is a big part of that process... i was thinking you guys were just looking at someone and making judgements.... so i decided to to be quiet and read more about what y'all were actually talking about... |
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no, i just have a different view on it... with me, talking with people tells me more than anything about them, but when i was replying, it made me realize that the eye movements and body language is a big part of that process... i was thinking you guys were just looking at someone and making judgements.... so i decided to to be quiet and read more about what y'all were actually talking about... I knew you weren't being glib but I kind of know you from the being here and the conversations we have had over a lot of different topics. So therefore I wanted to treat your question with seriousness. You are correct for me the Body language and eye movements tells me more in 10 minutes of conversing that months of chatting via the written word. That is why it is vital to me. to see and experience that. |
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isaac_dede
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Sun 05/01/16 01:13 PM
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This person I was chatting with had on shades. My first thought was, "I bet this person has some eyes issues" surely enough I was right. I would be cool with that,however when I witnessed the arrogance and overall pompus attitude... I had to shut that situation down. The person clearly isn't eye candy to me and they are aware that they will ONLY be so to certain groups of ppl. Sometimes there is nothing wrong with a slice of humble pie. I agree there is nothing wrong with a slice of humble pie, so here it goes. This is the third topic you've created that deals solely on a persons physical appearance....and in each one you insult someones attractiveness based on your own opinions of what 'attractive' SHOULD look like. You do TRY to do it in a way that justifies the judgement you're passing...i.e "I knew he had issues(assumption)..I was right(judgment)and I would have been ok(I don't want to look like the person I am)...but his attitude allowed me to judge and tell him soo..."(excuse allowing me to be mean) (paraphrased from bold above) Another Topic based entirely on outward appearance http://mingle2.com/topic/479177 And another http://mingle2.com/topic/478414 This one you failed to hide your judgments one quote when further along in the conversation, she admitted she is fat,lazy and unattractive. She this lead me to believe that at least she knew she is yucky. SO I wonder if others feel the same about themselves and just don't openly admit it. and again Oh and I personally think the girl is BUTT ugly, so I'm at a real lost about her nasty attitude and ego. I simply don't get it. So back to topic, why does it matter if a person has one pic, two pics? Why should shades matter? if I had a lazy eye/crossed eyed I'd probably have shades on too, to avoid people passing immediate judgment based on something that they can't help. People put their best foot forward on a dating site, same reason women are dolled up in tight dresses...think they look like that all the time?...nope.. If it's not alright for someone with eye issues to have on shades because they 'hiding' something, then women shouldn't be allowed to post pictures with makeup(I want to see if they have acne so I can judge them for it), They shouldn't be allowed to have push-up bra's(because I want to see how saggy they really are...so that I can judge them for it)...I could go on but I won't. If you someone can't look deeper than skin deep, that person is VERY unattractive... |
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Would you trust a profile with only one photo of the person wearing shades? Is seeing that person's eyes important to you? Very well said Rains. The eyes in a profile picture may not tell much about a person whether or not they are hidden behind sunglasses. The eyes, when u meet in person however, tells a great deal about that person and how they relate with or to u. Looking into a person's eyes during conversation speaks volumes. Even while staring into ur eyes, may have lost interest while u r busy chatting away. |
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I would find it strange,, whats the point of one picture with no view of the eyes? if that's the only picture,,unless the profile was just outstanding
I would pass... |
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Would you trust a profile with only one photo of the person wearing shades? Is seeing that person's eyes important to you? I can see why you might not. I live nextdoor to a man who never takes his sunglasses off. However, they might just be insecure about their looks, or they might be hiding dark circles under their eyes. If I'm going to see their actual face, some day, I'd prefer to see it without the sunglasses, so that I can gauge how physically attracted I feel to them. I know looks aren't everything, but I can't date someone I feel no butterflies for. I need to feel some sort of physical chemistry. Exactly! Looks for me are the first invitation to get my attention. Then I want to see if that person has the qualities that mesh well with mine. If not, friendships are always possible. However, I ALWAYS looking for life-long friendships in everybody FIRST. Some ppl age horribly and hence maybe not look so good a year from now. So I can tell a lot about a person when i can see their eyes. what can you tell? and how? In Person??? Or on photo if on photo that he is photogenic nothing more Person a lot i keep reading "a lot", but a lot of what? Ok Moe... when I am in person and I am talking with someone.. For example if I am boring them Their eyes are going to say that if they are interested their eyes are going to say that if they appreciate me their eyes are going to say that if I disappoint them their eyes are going to say that.. If they find me interesting their eyes are going to say that. Eyes tell a lot about a person and the inner workings a lot of people have learned to school their facial features to not tell the inner workings of their mind. The eyes if you are quick enough and are intuned with that person you will know... You did well with that :). I'm sure he knew this already. Probably was just being funny no, i just have a different view on it... with me, talking with people tells me more than anything about them, but when i was replying, it made me realize that the eye movements and body language is a big part of that process... i was thinking you guys were just looking at someone and making judgements.... so i decided to to be quiet and read more about what y'all were actually talking about... Good idea. Most just listen to respond and not to really establish an understanding. At least that's what I gathered about forum ppl on this site. Many are way too sensitive and get their feelings hurt toi quickly. But when you are online and the only photo you have is a picture with shades, I may still chat because I'm okay with just that. But if that person tries to flirt with me then I shut of that mess down. |
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Everybody looks good with their sunnies on....but what really matters is , whats behind them.....windows to the soul, windows to the world or windows 10...Give the person a break, if they only have one profile pic and they have shades on....get to know the person behind the shades....before you decide to write of the profile...as...whatever...just saying...
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Either that person is trying to be cool or trying to hide. But I'll take Windows 10
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Good choice....but cool is good....intentional hiding not so good....
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This person I was chatting with had on shades. My first thought was, "I bet this person has some eyes issues" surely enough I was right. I would be cool with that,however when I witnessed the arrogance and overall pompus attitude... I had to shut that situation down. The person clearly isn't eye candy to me and they are aware that they will ONLY be so to certain groups of ppl. Sometimes there is nothing wrong with a slice of humble pie. I agree there is nothing wrong with a slice of humble pie, so here it goes. This is the third topic you've created that deals solely on a persons physical appearance....and in each one you insult someones attractiveness based on your own opinions of what 'attractive' SHOULD look like. You do TRY to do it in a way that justifies the judgement you're passing...i.e "I knew he had issues(assumption)..I was right(judgment)and I would have been ok(I don't want to look like the person I am)...but his attitude allowed me to judge and tell him soo..."(excuse allowing me to be mean) (paraphrased from bold above) Another Topic based entirely on outward appearance http://mingle2.com/topic/479177 And another http://mingle2.com/topic/478414 This one you failed to hide your judgments one quote when further along in the conversation, she admitted she is fat,lazy and unattractive. She this lead me to believe that at least she knew she is yucky. SO I wonder if others feel the same about themselves and just don't openly admit it. and again Oh and I personally think the girl is BUTT ugly, so I'm at a real lost about her nasty attitude and ego. I simply don't get it. So back to topic, why does it matter if a person has one pic, two pics? Why should shades matter? if I had a lazy eye/crossed eyed I'd probably have shades on too, to avoid people passing immediate judgment based on something that they can't help. People put their best foot forward on a dating site, same reason women are dolled up in tight dresses...think they look like that all the time?...nope.. If it's not alright for someone with eye issues to have on shades because they 'hiding' something, then women shouldn't be allowed to post pictures with makeup(I want to see if they have acne so I can judge them for it), They shouldn't be allowed to have push-up bra's(because I want to see how saggy they really are...so that I can judge them for it)...I could go on but I won't. If you someone can't look deeper than skin deep, that person is VERY unattractive... Funny how you took the time to do some homework on ME! HA. HERE IS THE DEAL, TRY BEING INFORMED RATHER THAN OPINIONATED. That would help. I can only speak on what I PERSONALLY EXPERIENCED. I for one don't need to plaster my face in makeup thank God. Secondly, I don't need to wear push up bras... I'm physically fit and have a athletic build. I am also thankful for that. The person in question openly admitted to being cocky and arrogant and I couldn't figure out why? But then again I could. I have learned that on THIS SITE, It's not okay to speak your mind. This is my second time stating this. We all have a choice not to participate in a forum topic. Seems like to me that you are attempting to attack me Issac. Am I right? |
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All I have found on this site are men pretending to be military and trying to scam. I have already been asked for money, phones, etc
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All I have found on this site are men pretending to be military and trying to scam. I have already been asked for money, phones, etc Aaaw man. Just be super careful! |
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Would you trust a profile with only one photo of the person wearing shades? Is seeing that person's eyes important to you? I tried to get Mingle to let me put shades on my bubble photo... no go LoL |
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This person I was chatting with had on shades. My first thought was, "I bet this person has some eyes issues" surely enough I was right. I would be cool with that,however when I witnessed the arrogance and overall pompus attitude... I had to shut that situation down. The person clearly isn't eye candy to me and they are aware that they will ONLY be so to certain groups of ppl. Sometimes there is nothing wrong with a slice of humble pie. I agree there is nothing wrong with a slice of humble pie, so here it goes. This is the third topic you've created that deals solely on a persons physical appearance....and in each one you insult someones attractiveness based on your own opinions of what 'attractive' SHOULD look like. You do TRY to do it in a way that justifies the judgement you're passing...i.e "I knew he had issues(assumption)..I was right(judgment)and I would have been ok(I don't want to look like the person I am)...but his attitude allowed me to judge and tell him soo..."(excuse allowing me to be mean) (paraphrased from bold above) Another Topic based entirely on outward appearance http://mingle2.com/topic/479177 And another http://mingle2.com/topic/478414 This one you failed to hide your judgments one quote when further along in the conversation, she admitted she is fat,lazy and unattractive. She this lead me to believe that at least she knew she is yucky. SO I wonder if others feel the same about themselves and just don't openly admit it. and again Oh and I personally think the girl is BUTT ugly, so I'm at a real lost about her nasty attitude and ego. I simply don't get it. So back to topic, why does it matter if a person has one pic, two pics? Why should shades matter? if I had a lazy eye/crossed eyed I'd probably have shades on too, to avoid people passing immediate judgment based on something that they can't help. People put their best foot forward on a dating site, same reason women are dolled up in tight dresses...think they look like that all the time?...nope.. If it's not alright for someone with eye issues to have on shades because they 'hiding' something, then women shouldn't be allowed to post pictures with makeup(I want to see if they have acne so I can judge them for it), They shouldn't be allowed to have push-up bra's(because I want to see how saggy they really are...so that I can judge them for it)...I could go on but I won't. If you someone can't look deeper than skin deep, that person is VERY unattractive... Funny how you took the time to do some homework on ME! HA. HERE IS THE DEAL, TRY BEING INFORMED RATHER THAN OPINIONATED. That would help. I can only speak on what I PERSONALLY EXPERIENCED. I for one don't need to plaster my face in makeup thank God. Secondly, I don't need to wear push up bras... I'm physically fit and have a athletic build. I am also thankful for that. The person in question openly admitted to being cocky and arrogant and I couldn't figure out why? But then again I could. I have learned that on THIS SITE, It's not okay to speak your mind. This is my second time stating this. We all have a choice not to participate in a forum topic. Seems like to me that you are attempting to attack me Issac. Am I right? First it's Isaac(Seriously the correct spelling is in my username), second nope you're wrong, I'm not attempting to attack you, just stating my informed opinion. |
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Would you trust a profile with only one photo of the person wearing shades? Is seeing that person's eyes important to you? I tried to get Mingle to let me put shades on my bubble photo... no go That is because the bubble doesn't have a nose. Without a nose, the shades will slide off. |
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Whether they truly are or not I treat every one photo profile as a scammer if they are not in the forums, i treat them as a scammer... Yep me too |
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Next time don't shoot the messenger or go out of your way to over analyze. It's really not at all THAT SERIOUS. Projecting yourself or personal flaws are never wise.
I will have future forums about similar topic Isssic so be advised. Feel free to join those when I create them. Update: The person in question has decided to humble herself due in fact she realized she was unrealistic in her self judgment. ... Oh and I agreed with her 
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