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Topic: Do you care what other people think of you?
peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Sun 07/02/17 05:46 PM
I just had a think, or should I say thought lol The higher up the financial ladder you are the less you care what people think! Well? Thats true in some ways , but those who are insecure try to win people's approval with expensive gifts or an overly lavish lifestyle

Basha Joined Sun 07/02/17 Posts: 522	Sun 07/02/17 06:25 PM
Nope, not at all...unless they say what they think about me to my face~

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Sun 07/02/17 06:53 PM Edited by peggy122 on Sun 07/02/17 06:56 PM
Nope, not at all...unless they say what they think about me to my face~ Luckily for you Nick, people often opt for voicing their bad opinions of us behind our backs lol

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 07/11/17 02:37 PM
Nope. I have never cared what people think of me. I am an adult not an over sensitive teenager. You re a bold one navy girl. Im not quite there yet :) When you spend 20 years in the military taking lots of risks; you become quite bold. LOL

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24652	Tue 07/11/17 02:48 PM
Read back!...a majority will say IDGAF!... but it's so cliché. Yes I do! I would like to be seen as kind, sensitive, aware, idealistic, empathetic, not necessarily smart but at least contemplative...loyal,friendly, funny,etc,...In it for the "good"! It MATTERS TO ME..that this be projected!!!!!!! THEN....AFTER THAT.....eff em.

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Tue 07/11/17 02:52 PM
Do you care what other people think of you? Whose opinion has enough power to influence your actions? I did once and it messed me up Now I think ok that's your opinion and that's ok. I do a lot of research when I make my opinions. Yes it does involve what people think and their experiences but at the end of the day I decide for me.

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Tue 07/11/17 05:54 PM
Nope. I have never cared what people think of me. I am an adult not an over sensitive teenager. You re a bold one navy girl. Im not quite there yet :) When you spend 20 years in the military taking lots of risks; you become quite bold. LOL I havent spent a minute in the military so I may have to make peace with my cowardice lol. But good for you navy girl :)

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Tue 07/11/17 05:57 PM
People are going to think whatever they want so it that case I don't care but in my inner circle of close friends I care very much.

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Tue 07/11/17 06:01 PM
Read back!...a majority will say IDGAF!... but it's so cliché. Yes I do! I would like to be seen as kind, sensitive, aware, idealistic, empathetic, not necessarily smart but at least contemplative...loyal,friendly, funny,etc,...In it for the "good"! It MATTERS TO ME..that this be projected!!!!!!! THEN....AFTER THAT.....eff em. You are definitely all of that B-boy . Giving credit where its due

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Tue 07/11/17 06:53 PM
Do you care what other people think of you? Whose opinion has enough power to influence your actions? I did once and it messed me up Now I think ok that's your opinion and that's ok. I do a lot of research when I make my opinions. Yes it does involve what people think and their experiences but at the end of the day I decide for me. on your academic achievments! Welcome back Annie! and congratulations on . you seem to undeerstand when people's opinions end and YOU begin Annie. sounds like a healthy place to be :)

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Tue 07/11/17 06:56 PM
People are going to think whatever they want so it that case I don't care but in my inner circle of close friends I care very much. Seems like you have found a heathy balance Jacktrades . Lovely to see you in the forum again

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24652	Tue 07/11/17 06:57 PM
The naughty in me would like to see this shared in "Rate My Profile".

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Tue 07/11/17 07:01 PM
The naughty in me would like to see this shared in "Rate My Profile". You won't need it . The secret is already out :)

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Tue 07/11/17 07:24 PM
Thank Peggy I am glad that part is over but I still have a lot of challenges and work a head. I can enjoy life now. Lol How have you been?

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Tue 07/11/17 07:58 PM
Thank Peggy I am glad that part is over but I still have a lot of challenges and work a head. I can enjoy life now. Lol How have you been? Im good thank you Annie. I have some interesting projects Im working on in my life at the moment!.Im sure you will meet your challenges head on and come out on top. Its lovely to see you in the forum again

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Tue 07/11/17 08:00 PM
Thanks. I did miss my friends on here.