MINIONS Happy Birthday SONG

In the 1940' 1950, Women never put on panties or underwear only one week out of the month. Other than that Nada!

In the 1800's women also never had underwear, it was handmade if anything. out of leftovers cloths.

I have not put on underwear for over 3 years, I find they are just too confining and a waste. I am too natural for a woman to put them on. Or maybe just too comfortable without them at my mid age. it's not like I go anywhere, maybe to wallyword or out to dinner, to the movies all these places would not even care regardless.

I have not put on a bra' at least 3 years either, I find no reason to constrict my pretties. Let them alone and they are happy!

Clothes fit so much better!

That was funny!

I am a Mother who was a Teacher, in a school, then in are home.
I became a Grandmother and then a Preacher to have my own
Daughter ask me this? "Please, mother will you homeschool your grandchild as you homeschooled us, kids".

So a Mother, a Teacher, A grandmother, a Preacher Can Be the Best Spoilers of all times all wrapped up into one!

Grandmothers, That's Who!

Grandmothers who are teachers and preachers, they spoil and teach and discipline all at the same time some hard lessons in life.

A teacher after a long day at school, might not even like your child but has to be nice to them regardless. Most parents have no idea what it is like in a classroom filled with 12 to 38kids. Unless you live it every day for 10months you have no clue. To be a teacher's pet is the smartest way for you always get A+. But to be on her Blackboard your going to get F's at the end of the day!

A parent can do so much more, they can take the children to Disneyland or give them a hug birthday, they can take them Holloween hunting and get candy for free or to see the Easter bunny and get candy and eggs for free. Off to the 4th of July party to see the stars come alive and eat hamburgers and chips. Yes! a parent spoils the child the most!

But the grandmother knows just what the child really wants and get's it for them, they give them money and cookies, they buy them clothes and Christmas and birthday gifts. Grandmothers are Number ONE on this LIST!

But it is only Santa that the kids wait for each year trying to be the best behavior they can be and 3 weeks before they clean the house and wash their faces. So Santa can bring them a Year of Dreaming of Suprise. The thought is greater then the gift but if the child is let down and does not get the gift they wanted then it is back to grandmother for she will make it happen.

Then End.

Today is my day to cook for the week for myself.

Hamhocks and beans, the beans need to soak overnight.

Carrots, Squash, Sweet potatoes, Beets, and Cauliflower steamed, place in individual containers.

Take juice and place in a canister for drinks.

Take Beet leaves, grind up and add oranges, place in containers.

Liver and Onions will be later this week on the BBQ.

18 eggs cooked for the week, Boiled ready for breakfast.

sourdough bread, one piece a day.

Egg Noodles cooked and placed in a container.

2 oranges and 4 apples, along with cranberry juice

box of oatmeal.

2 bags of one walnuts one pine nuts.

Yes these are my meals for the week Monday to Sunday!

5 small meals a day

I have dropped 50lbs and I am happy, soon in a few months I will be
on a fitness program to tone and get fit.

I have time to finally spend time with me... lol Me, myself and I are on a mission to be beautiful again the swan I have always been.

Why Women File 80 Percent of Divorces, 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce. 87% of men cheat on women and only 45% of women cheat on men.

I was married for 18yrs, my ex-was the Boss of a HVAC/R Casino. He was over worked under paid and had Mother issues 7miles away. Had a Wife and 2 kids. He was mad at his mother because she would not give him his part of the inharridence. So he got MAD, packed up his family put the house up for rent and put us in a RV for 2 yrs. Found a new job after driving from state to state but ended up in Oregon for the 7th time. A women came into his job, she kept coming back every day, they had lunch and after hours talks, while he had his wife and kids in a camping site. Pretty sad!

This was supose to be a adventure he said, traviling the states on home schooling, learning what is in the text books, going to all the land marks, painted desert, yellowstone park, grandcannon. ect. instead it was not what it seemed.

Well, one day my son saw his father across the street kissing a woman, he came and told me. I a few weeks later told my husband at the time I wanted to return home the kids missed their friends.

So we the Kids and I, returned home put them back in school and started a single parent lifestyle but still married for the kids. He returned back to Oregon and stayed for 5more months.

He returned saying the Job ended and he moved in with his mother 7 miles away.

What I didn't know was he brought his girlfriend with him and got a job in that town near her.

Funny what a wife does not know! Well, I packed up the kids after 12th grade and off to a new world 5 states away so my kids didn't have to be subjected to this women and her affair with their father.
I wanted him to be happy, and if that took us walking away then so be it.

So it took him 12yrs to divorce me or 12yrs with his mistress? I got married too early at 21, he was my best friend and roommate. I don't think he was ever in love with me "I know that for fact". I got pregnant he did the right [this by his father's words]. Marry her!

I sold the house and bought another one, putting the kids in college, for 10yrs I ran a daycare and paid for my kids college, they helped by working at the college getting 1/2 tuition.

Now they have great jobs and I am proud of that, we moved a few times until they found city and state jobs that will last for a long time. Not many people want to come and live in our town. it's way too hot.

So that is my life, my story, my hurt. I stayed married to him until my kids were out of college, I asked for nothing from him, I sold the house so he would never be in debt and I never spoke to him again nor has his adult children.

I guess God had a reason and its none of my business. He knew my life before I was born and he knows my life after my death. I have asked him for a New Husband so I can be a good wife again, have a house of my own, and walk and hold hands have that feeling of being in love again. Be a grandmother baking cookies and swimming in a pool.

So simple I am! maybe just a dream within a dream, that's ok it's my dream and I am happy dreaming it.

Trusting a woman who has never cheated, who was a 40's 50's wife in the 80's. Most say I just married the wrong man who didn't adore me and be grateful for the type of women I am.

This was my ex-husbands day 25yrs ago! But I guess it was too much for him.

4:00 am I woke up, funny I still do 30yr later. Wake up have a coffee make my bed get his breakfast ready and his homemade lunch and thermos filled with hot tea.

5:00 wake him up, have his clothes ready, and breakfast on the table.
5:25 he leaves for work.

5:30 clean up the kitchen and get the kid's breakfast started, start a load of laundry and make the beds, feed the dog and cat.

6:am wake up kids, get them ready for school make kids lunches.
6:30 Breakfast on the table, again, 2 eggs, sausage, bacon, toast, fruit, orange juice and hot tea or milk.

7:00 finish any homework, wash dishes clean kitchen. 2nd load
8:00 leave for school.walk to school 1 mile away.

8:30 home clean up the house vaccuum, make sure the kids rooms are clean, fold laundry, put 2nd load in dryer start 3rd load.

9:00 off to the store food shopping.

10:30 home unpack and fold laundry, put in the 4th load,

11:00 clean up animal mess outside, check water, mow grass if needed trim and cut bushes if needed.

Noon: Have lunch with the mother in law, vacuum her floors, wash them by hand, clean the bathrooms and plant a few plants for her. Off to lunch.

2:00 home, start dinner, fold clothes, put away, straighten the rest of the house, get ready to leave to pick up the kids,
2:30 leave to pick up kids
3:30 home, get kids on homework, Feed animals take for a walk.
4:00 husband bath ready, robe, slippers, drink newspaper.
4:20 husband home. Take care of the husband.
5:00 finish up on dinner get the table set, get the last preparations
Put food on the table and serve. Listen to his day and the kids day,
6:00 Kids and I clean up dishes and kitchen.
6:30 Kids spend time with dad talking playing in the garden, or watching tv.
7:00 Bath's, get ready for bed watch tv.
7:30 Bedtime for kids
8:00 Wifes time with husband, fantasy are in the skies.
9:00 Husband goes to bed. Good night
9:00 Wife cleans up, irons, sews on buttons, exercises, Wife Time!
11:pm Bed for the wife, 4am comes early! Good night!

This was my life for 18yrs I was only 21 when I got married, So all I really knew was how to be a wife and mother. Funny though the longing to be a wife has never left its as if it is natural and I miss it more then life itself. Its been great raising my kids alone but it's not the same unless you have a person to share life with.

I was born as a gift,
had fun as a teenager
became a woman
chose to be a stay at home wife
learned to be a stay at home mother,
cried to be an ex-wife
mourned the death of my parents.
Found courage to be a single parent
prayed to be a stay at home grandmother.
mourned the death of my siblings
look forward to being a senior
to find my last love
one day i will be a memory.


The world was so simple in the 60, 70, and 80, but then it changed so many rules, so many laws one million votes for every issue that sits on a table to be passed with women holding seats in the United States Congress, comprising 19.6% of the 535 members; 21 women (21%) serve in the United States. It used to be 100% members were men.

I guess I am old-fashioned.
Men were men with secrets in the night, with a secretary on the side. and women were women they stayed home and cooked and cleaned took care of all the children and neighbor kids. and life was really simple for men, while women looked beautiful with hourglass figures.
No wonder so many people are stressed out dreaming of a past that will not exist in 10years.

Today, a husband sleeps in a different room then a wife and they all live on mobile devices with secrets, no words are spoke in a house, no kitchen table for a meal fast food replaced that. The house is filled with wires and electronics no couch only a chair. each person has a different meal plan and hunting for Pokemon is a daily exercising.

How lonely a family has become, how lonely kids have become how lonely a home that sits waiting to be "home sweet home".

The White and Shiny Armor syndrome! The Damsel in distress syndrome! gets men every time.

She needs me!

She wants me!

She can't live a day without me!

I have to be her savior!

Then the women get's all better, the man saves the women! Not needed any longer, the women has learned to be a sidekick instead. a Follower. The man gets bored and moves on to the next women in distress.

The fun and games are over and off to the next Damsel in distress to be a hero over and over again~

Note: some women take's the Man's place and they become "The Shiny Armor" for the man saving him from himself.

Or The women is saving another woman or a man is saving another man.

The question is why do we need to feel we have to save another person! To feel loved!

Doctors, Nurses, Teachers, and Preachers seem to be the saviors. Why are you a Savor or Why are you not one?

Most common gender mutation disorders causing humans not to be attracted to other humans unless they have a disorder of empathy, compassion, and consideration for all humankind.

Humans must be able to sense a mutation in another person then. But for some, they overlook this disorder and choose to love and adore the human without a thought leaving behind only concern for that one individual. perhaps the statement (Death do us apart) was for a reason to love and accept changing behaviors or mutations.

P – Point mutation, or any insertion/deletion entirely inside one gene
D – Deletion of a gene or genes
C – Whole chromosome extra, missing, or both (see Chromosome abnormality)
T – Trinucleotide repeat disorders: gene is extended in length

Disorder Mutation Chromosome
22q11.2 deletion syndrome D 22q
Angelman syndrome DCP 15
Canavan disease 17p
Charcot–Marie–Tooth disease
Color blindness P X
Cri du chat D 5
Cystic fibrosis P 7q
Down syndrome C 21
Duchenne muscular dystrophy D Xp
Familial Hypercholesterolemia P
Haemochromatosis P 6
Haemophilia P X
Klinefelter syndrome C X
Neurofibromatosis 17q/22q/?
Phenylketonuria P 12q
Polycystic kidney disease P 16 (PKD1) or 4 (PKD2)
Prader–Willi syndrome DC 15
Sickle-cell disease P 11p
Spinal muscular atrophy DP 5q
Tay–Sachs disease P 15
Turner syndrome C X

You can look up the list of List of genetic disorders to see if you or others you have dated are on it, then look up your disorders.

you will see that you are both human, and in the end it is Compassion, Empathy, and Kindness that brought you both together.

When the eyes are determined by genetics w2ithin this region, there are two genes located very close together: OCA2 and HERC2.

HERC2 gene known as intron 86 contains a segment of DNA that controls the activity (expression) of the OCA2 gene, turning it on or off as needed. Or you can say, My eyes say I like you or love you? or you can say my eyes say, I am not attracted to you and never will be.

The good news is this Look at how many types of eyes one is at least going to find you attractive: Genes with reported roles in eye color include ASIP, IRF4, SLC24A4, SLC24A5, SLC45A2, TPCN2, TYR, and TYRP1.

Once science can figure that out we will all be matched and all will be happy and joyful you might think but you also have to deal with smells. That could turn it upside down. You have 400 smells so you can say you have 1 to 400 chances of finding a partner you can feel attracted too.

The human is so complicated and yet so simple if it was blind! Def and unopinionated.

I had to think about this, what a great Question for all Humans! I have pondered for a while and chose to dig deep into this conversation:

YOU SAID: [This could be either gender]. (63 Genders in the USA)2017. Gender Master List one can look it up! Read the list and identify with one or more of them.

If the total number of colors we can see is about 1000 x 100 x 100 = 10,000,000 (10 million). And if there are 24 human skin colors on earth that PEOPLE have created to identify between colors to put into a category

The eye color. Irises are classified as being one of six colors: amber, blue, brown, gray, green, hazel, or red. Often confused with hazel eyes, amber eyes tend to be a solid golden or copper color without flecks of blue or green typical of hazel eyes.

The hair color. A (very light blond), B to E (light blond), F to L (blond), M to O (dark blond), P to T (light brown to brown), U to Y (dark brown/black) and Roman numerals I to IV (red) and V to VI (red blond)

So now we have 24 human race colors and 63 human race genders in the United States of America. This does not mean in your town or city. just in the USA? or the World. Yet the human race only has 6 eye color to choose from int he World. Along with 8 types of hair colors.

Yet Humans have 3 types of organs and 12 types throughout the planet species.

400 types of scent receptors that can detect at least 1 trillion different odors.

Last, there are only three basic human body types: the endomorph, the mesomorph, and the ectomorph.

And only ONE HUMAN SPECIES: Male or female.

In the World: Heterosexual 93.4%/ Gay-lesbian 1.2%/ Bisexual 0.8%/ Other 0.5%/ Don't know 4.1%.


YOU SAID: For whatever reason, many are not attracted to very many of the opposite genders. But, many are not gay or lesbian either.

Perhaps one has an idea embedded into the image of one's eyes: Because of TV, Music, Magazines, Computers etc. We ourselves have created a vision only we can understand. We think that image is what we should act on yet we go for a completely different person? Why?

Who we like is not the same as who they like, We like them but do they like us? it goes back to early friendships. Ask yourself what kind of friends did you have as a child and then look at the people you date today. Who you are attracted to. 99.9% they are related in an image you seek but can't find. Because every human on earth is different.

YOU SAID: When people date they would rather date the opposite sex. But they just don't find many that they are attracted to. Or, that really interest them that much.

The reason is they seek out the past and themselves, they want someone to like everything they like, to live just like they live and to eat what they eat, to drink what they drink and to have relations the way they want to feel.

three persons (points of view)

1st person - the one(s) speaking (I/me/my/mine/we/us/our-ours)
2nd person - the one(s) spoken to(you/ your/ yours)
3rd person - the one(s) spoken about(he/him/his/she/her-hers it/its/they/their/theirs). Start to notice how many times you use these words in a day, you will find out the truth about yourself!

YOU SAID: A person would rather not be alone so much. But, because some people are not attracted to most of what they see, most are alone a lot! The eyes are the gateway to HELL or HEVAN they say you can see another person's soul. But if that person does not look deep enough or care enough to look then they only see an image and a figure or color of skin, hair or eyes worst of all a size. (superficial person)

YOU SAID: Remember, This hypothetical person isn't gay or lesbian. What name does that fall under? Or, is there a name for it?

Yes, they are called "A" Sexual. They do not look at sex- gender, but as an individual person, they do not judge for they do not want to be judged back in return, they are beyond the color of nature and the substance one places on a statistic to group other people.

So why is it so hard for a human being to find a mate, a partner, a soulmate, a friend, a companion the list is long.

EYES: The eyes, if you were blind you would not see a person but hear only a voice you could not judge by looks, you could touch but again you can not see the skin only feel it. if you were blind and deaf you could not see or hear but you are more likely to accept a person who is being kind to you. With a scent of smell you know if they are clean or dirty person.

The eyes deceive you 99,9% of the time, When a young man is in grade school he sees the girl he likes, by middle school he tries to date the girl he likes, in H.S. he dates the girl and in college he marrieds the same girl. These days are gone they do not exist.

Today on average a boy will have dated (14.1%)more then girls(8.8%) The boys have had eight or more girlfriend before they get out of High School. in College (21.7%)more then girls (12.3%).

Confidence in gender has changed. Boys can have Both Sex's and Girls have also found they don't have to be afraid to have both sexes.

The world has changed since the 1960's Equal Gender.

So the great news is this, YOU can DATE anyone YOU chose to date, they might not choose you, but you can find a person in your town, or city or state to date, or marry. That is GREAT NEWS! Stop using your eyes! Start using your heart!

What is your favorite love song that makes your heart skip a beat and fill your eyes with loving tears and fills you with deep emotions?


This song was composed by a man named Seikilos in the 1st century
As long as you live,
Do not grieve at all,
Live's span is short;
time exact the final reckoning.

The Greatest Love Songs of All Time
1. "Love Is Here to Stay"
2. "The Look of Love"
3. "(Where Do I Begin?) Love Story"
4. "I Only Have Eyes for You"
5. "I Can't Give You Anything but Love, Baby"
6. "The Twelfth of Never"
7. "We've Only Just Begun"
8. "Nevertheless"
9. "Love Me Tender"
10. "You Made Me Love You"
11. "It Could Happen to You"
12. "How Deep Is the Ocean?"
13. "When You Were Sweet Sixteen"

What one is your favorite love poem that speaks to your heart today?

1. Sonnet 116 by William Shakespeare
A Shakrespearean sonnet cherished for over 400 years for it's hopefulness and promis of eternal and unchanging love.

2. Love One Another by Kahlil Gibran
This poem, also titled "On Marriage" explains the great bond between two people and the importance to share, but also the importance to have things to yourself.

3. Meeting at Night by Robert Browning
Love is sometimes something we must go through hurdles to have, but in the end, we are happy and joyful. This poem is listed as a "must read aloud" to gain full appreciation of the writing.

4. My River by Emily Dickinson
Love comes and asks to take her away. She hesitates slightly before agreeing and fleeing into the wonderful sea of love.

5. Love's Philosophy by Percy Bysshe Shelley
Shelley is masterful in describing love and his philosophy for how it should be treated.

6. Maud by Alfred, Lord Tennyson
A poem about an unnamed lover where the narrator encounters life, death, and the question of afterlife.

7. Annabelle Lee by Edgar Allan Poe
A love so strong that even the angels are jealous. This is Poe's last complete poem and arguably one of his best poetry writings.

8. Bright Star, Would I Were Steadfast as Thou Art by John Keats
The poet wishes upon the sky to have his love as constant as the bright stars above.

9. To His Coy Mistress by Andrew Marvell
The author tries to convince a woman to respond to his love and make the most of their passion with the short time they have to live.

10. Troilus and Criseyde (Download .zip) by Geoffrey Chaucer
The tragic retelling of the Siege of Troy. This is considered to be Chaucer's finest work.

Note: We are different with each passing time and each different person we date or married, or engage with. So many of these can and might touch your soul. If you have more then one "post them" as they touch your memories.

Have you ever tried to make a list of all the different dating advice you’ve heard, even just the advice from other Christians?

Date for at least 3 months.
Don’t date anyone else in that same year.

Date exclusively in this time on weekends.
Make sure you get plenty of time one on one to talk. (no sex)

Don’t hot and heavy kiss before you’re married. Lust v Respect
How can you know you have chemistry without kissing? To want to kiss the person the longing, then image, the fantasy, is the long-lasting relationship kiss.

Put clear boundaries into place. Dating v One night stands
Don’t try to follow everyone else’s rules. Ask yourself do I want a Lady or a Fling. Do I want a Gentleman or a User?

Spend lots of time together. Cooking meals, Movies, Walks, Hobbies, Church, Bowling, Concerts, in deep conversations.
Be careful not to waste how much time you spend together. On long drives, friends and family, shopping, these are for later in the relationship right now you need to get to know this person.

Date only one person and be serious about it, be your best during and after, don't let the image or passion stop or the relationship will also weather away. You must keep up your Manners and Respect for the entire life expectancy with this person.

Don’t date anyone after you’re already ready committed to marrying them. Devote your life to them as they will have done the same for you. Make a marriage work it's not just a day or a year its a lifetime regardless if it is 5 yrs, 10yrs or 20+ years. You wanted this now be the best you can be in this committed relationship.

If you don't get along then perhaps its because you found another person's image in your mind and forgot the image you created for the person you are falling out of love with. It really is that simple.

I once knew a man who was married for 58yrs, He never looked at another woman, he never allowed another woman to hug him, he always said: "Those hugs are for my wife only". When a man knows his heart in his wife he can not see another woman.

Why is Christian or Catholic or any other religious relationship different:

They seek a special kind of friendship and it's not lust or passion but a committed relationship with one person for their own life. They seek a life with a unified group that has the same thinking and beliefs in marriage. One that is born in the church and dies in the church, one that has fellowship with others as a support system.

That is the different...

4 Ways to Figure Out If You're Ready for the Right Person or Not!

How do you know you’ve committed to the right person…how do you know?

You Don't! The real question is, How long do you want to be single and alone? Once you figure that out you are ready for a committed relationship with a person.

1. Assess how you look at a person image. Body Type Calculators [give to you on your shoulders between your nose. Two Eyes]! They chose, not your brain or your head but your Eyes are in control. Your heart "feelings" comes 3 months later or 3yrs later.

The Body Type Calculator can be used for males or females to determine "body shape" based on bust, waist, and hip (BWH) circumference measurements.

The Body Type Calculator can be used for females to determine "body shape" based on bust, waist, and hip (BWH) circumference measurements. Note that only the "four most common female body shapes" are calculated and are based on societal standards that were, ironically, developed around the height of the civil rights movement in the 1960s. Note that "ideal body type" is subjective and largely arbitrary and that the calculator is not intended to be a serious indication of health or an ideal that must be met.

Bust Size
Waist Size
Hip Size
body measure

Most common female and male body shapes

Apple (triangle downwards) Ages (20 to 30)generalized only!
This body shape describes a person who has broader shoulders and bust or chest than they do hips or butt. These people are putting on an image to date and are young and carefree to the world they see no image only a beating heart.

Banana, or straight for some men are called a bean post or pencil(rectangular) Ages (30 to 40)generalized only!
This body shape describes a person who typically has waist measurements that are less than 9 inches smaller than the hip or bust measurements. Tall and Slender happy and jolly.

Pear, spoon, or bell (triangle upwards) Ages (40 to 50)generalized only!
This body shape describes a person who has hip measurements greater than their bust measurements. for women it is called sexy for men it is called a beer belly. most have been divorced or widowed.

Hourglass or curvy, (triangles opposing, facing inwards)Ages (50 to 70)generalized only!
This body shape (typically presented as the "ideal") describes a person with hips, and bust measurements nearly equal in size, with an even waist measurement. These people are comfortable in their own skins, life has treated them well in society.

2. Ask yourself: Can you stop thinking about past relationships? Are you ready to find a new person, a different type of person, a person that is not compared to so the image you have in the past is not reflected in another relationship. Can your Eyes See something NEW and not something Old, Outdated, or Expired. They are out of your life for a reason. So make the best of it and Move on with your life start anew, ANEW LIFE with A NEW PERSON!

If I had an old toaster and it always burnt the toast or maybe it just stopped working. Do I stop eating burnt toast, or do I look for a New Toaster? Do you want it simple, complex with many adjustments, do you have to have a color or a shape? These are important questions before you buy your new toaster. Or are you happy with the one that was given to you on your birthday this year?

3. Can you easily imagine being with a new person in your life? in your home or their home? Can you adjust to looking at, being around and sitting next to a new person? Can you be yourself and give them a chance to fit into your lifestyle. That is one of the hardest things to do in life. Give them a chance try it for 3 months and get to know them if in 3months you can't handle it then you know your not ready to date anyone. You are still holding on to the past relationships.

4. Determine if you need to do some self-work. If you have gotten to this part of the question, and you have thought of the last few people you have dated or been on dates with you have realized you didn't give them a chance nor did you allow yourself get over the past. Don't you think its about time to love yourself so you can love another person in return? Confidence is a Key to Relationships.

Read all of these then figure out which one fits you the best: Post it here:

Aromantic: A person who experiences little or no romantic attraction. The aromantic attribute is usually considered an innate attribute rather than a choice. Aromantic people typically get their empathetic support from platonic relationships.

Biromantic: A person who is romantically attracted to both sexes or genders. Biromantics are not necessarily sexually attracted to both/any sexes or genders.

Heteroromantic: A person who is romantically attracted to a member of the opposite sex. A heteroromantic person is not necessarily sexually attracted to the opposite sex.

Homoromantic: A person who is romantically attracted to a member of the same sex. A homoromantic person is not necessarily sexually attracted to the same sex.

Panromantic: A person whose romantic attractions are not influenced by sex or gender identity.

Polyromantic: A person who is romantically attracted to all or many genders or gender expressions.

Greyromantic: The grey area being aromantic and experiencing romantic attraction. Some people identify as being somewhere between aromantic and experiencing romantic attraction. Greyromantic identifying persons can include people who do not normally experience romantic attraction, but do experience it sometimes; experience romantic attraction, but not strongly enough to want to act on it; people who experience romantic attraction but only under very limited and specific circumstances.

Demiromantic: A person who does not experience a romantic attraction unless they have formed a strong emotional bong. A demiromantic person may or may not experience sexual attraction.

I have not had a Relationship for over 10yrs. I have not dated or spent time with anyone other than my own family I created.

I have devoted myself 100% to raising my family for 33yrs. To make sure my children are College Educated and have careers. out of the 33yrs, 11yrs was given to my grandchild raising her so my Daughter and Son in law could finish college and get BS Degrees, then jobs, a home, cars. Today they are in great jobs state and city.

I was the 50's Mother in the 80's world, I treated my (ex)husband like a king, maybe too good. Baths ready when he arrived home, 8course meals, robe, slippers, drink waiting for him, the house was spotless. I was always dressed and beautiful for him. My idea of a family was not his idea of a family or a life I placed a world TV image on him that I thought was Reality. I learned this lifestyle was too unlivable for him.

18yrs later, I created a new life as a single mother raising a new type of family, Mother putting 2 kids through college running a daycare inside the house to pay for college.

Then I tried to date but a man can not understand the Mothers devotion to her family so it was best I was alone.

Today: My kids are grown, they have a life of their own and I myself have decided to find what I never found. A Person who remembers the 50's and enjoyed that type of lifestyle.

Again the image I have for my life does not fit everyone it only fits the image I seek. When I find a person who seeks the same lifestyle I will then devote myself to only that one person, I will not date anyone but one who has the courage to be loved with a heart and mind. and who understands what lovemaking is.

Can a man be Masculine and Feminine at the same time and be a good husband? Yes! He is sensitive, compassionate, understanding and understands the mind and soul of a women's heart and needs.

Why am I still single because my generational thought of a Man is fading out soon there will be none left.

323.1 million people(2016).
The number of men was 119.4 million.

Most of the Men at this age 65 and older, there are almost twice as many women as men (4 million vs. 2.1 million).

That leaves .1% that I will find the person I am seeking. I have hope! I seek a 10 yr to 20yr different in age as I said in a woman in the past who chooses to stay in the past. I was born in the wrong year.