Humm cause it is hard for them to trust women that only want their money~~~~~ or expect them to change or treat them like a queen but don't want to treat them the same~~~

Age
Wisdom
Necessity

It is inaccurate to group all of one gender in any stereotype.

Better question:
Why do some women consistently accept men that are not ready for commitment and are not trustworthy?

if a woman is worthy of being committed to,then we will...

Usually only committed when they are confirmed insane

The White and Shiny Armor syndrome! The Damsel in distress syndrome! gets men every time.

She needs me!

She wants me!

She can't live a day without me!

I have to be her savior!

Then the women get's all better, the man saves the women! Not needed any longer, the women has learned to be a sidekick instead. a Follower. The man gets bored and moves on to the next women in distress.

The fun and games are over and off to the next Damsel in distress to be a hero over and over again~

Note: some women take's the Man's place and they become "The Shiny Armor" for the man saving him from himself.

Or The women is saving another woman or a man is saving another man.

The question is why do we need to feel we have to save another person! To feel loved!

Doctors, Nurses, Teachers, and Preachers seem to be the saviors. Why are you a Savor or Why are you not one?

Agree, I made my X self-sufficient and she realized she didn't need me so she went looking for something else (drugs) and tried to hang on to me as a security blanket. Luckily, I removed my rose-colored glasses and put an end to it all.

Its not much fun being the only one in the relationship that is trustworthy, dedicated and committed to it. One-sided love can't work. An understanding that must be experienced to gain the wisdom.

Now my brain, and my eyes hurt.

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http://youtu.be/o9eOvBSgR2w

same reason some ladys arn't

notice i didnt say all

any who
i would think its cause you are around the wrong males

<shrug>
best wishes on your hunt

Ready for?

I think a man (like also a woman) is ready to be committed only in one case - when he (or she) truly wants to spend the rest of the life with you :)) In any other cases nobody's ready to be commited.

What are you talking about?
Men were ready an hour ago.
But while we were waiting for the women to be ready we found there was a game on, and then made nachos, and those jalapenos really got to us. So we had to put on some sweatpants and have a beer. Then we fell asleep.

You are very correct. If he truely wants to be with you in this life and eternity ,then he would commit.
Simply put, he does not genuinely love you thats why he would not commit.
Many unwise women make themselves cheap toys for instant sexual gratification.
Disadvantaged men too could be at the recieving end at the hands of powerful women.

I have no idea but I will say you have to take each one individually and find that person with shared interest and morals the proverbial needle in a haystack ... they say the best way to find that needle is to burn down the haystack ..In life you will find many haystacks but, only one may contain the needle...

Maybe women shouldn't be so fast to crawl in bed?

Usual response: if I don't I can't get his attention!
Then he's a JERK.

Some people in the world, both men and women dont want a commitment. They prefer having their options open all the time.
It is an individual's responsibility to discern and filter out the people who don't have the same values and goals that you do

And then there are some who are ready for a commitment but not with you, and thats okay too.

Either way , its up to you to recover from tbe loss at your own pace and move on.

They're still undecided, they're not yet ready or maybe they want lots of girls... no commitment =no super serious relationship