mg starts looking at plane reservations :)

Hi Izzy got ya this time. Thanks for clearing up.

Well my wife was a model so I guess that's the answer, but I think we met because of us both being in the entertainment biz. When I did relief work I was attracted to a different type, and on I think it goes for me.

I believe I'm probably more attracted to someone I find interesting or have a bond with somehow, more than I am looking at them.

Example, a jazz signer who I was seeing and a designer (in a wheel chair BTW). I can think of many more women who grabbed my attention and it had nothing to do with looks. I say that but to me they were very good looking.

A question for you.

Ever be sitting somewhere and a woman who you don't see walks behind you and you get a smell and a vibe from her? You can feel her presence and it makes you turn around? That to me is attractive.

Ever do some hard labor type (like I helped in this earthquake) thing and was working side by side with these women. They were spanish and didn't know english well. While working with them we ate and slept and showered all in very close quarters. Even in the middle of that I found myself extremely attracted to this one gal. There was something in your voice and the way she carried herself that drove me crazy. You've never had this?

Lastly, there was a lady (from mingle) who emailed me and asked me if I liked younger women. She told me her story and it wasn't a pretty one, and she showed me pics and I could see she was for real. We talked on the phone often. This gal would be either in a chair or need serious theropy for the rest of her life. She also would have had to go through some very serious mental stuff to make it through, but even with that I went pretty much head over heels for her, and very likely if she would have been able to over come her situation of dealing with men again I probably would have hopped on the plane.

You haven't experienced anything like this before?

Maybe I'm weird but there's something about the heartbeat of potentual love that makes me go blind, and I feel bad even saying that because the truth is I think all these women and a great deal more are absolutely beautiful.

I see girls on hear everyday that I think are absolutely stuning. I don't want to put them on the spot but I think, are the guys blind or what.

To me I see them give an answer and it makes me take notice. I think "I would love to spend my time talking to someone like that the rest of my life".

I believe that the soul of a woman goes way past her physical apperance or health. Everyone has a story, a history and a special gift. You know there may be someone close to you right now that you would look at as an ugly duckling through the wrong eyes, but put on the corrective vision and you may find them to be the godess you've always been looking for.

I don't make this up as I go, it's just the way I see it.

I'm not looking at a girl for offspring, if you are that's you. I'm not looking for a girl for sex. Sex is easy. I'm not sure I'm even looking for a girl period except for the fact that when we do meet my hands get sweaty and I'll be at a loss of words all over again.

But do I look at a girls medical record? maybe on the 3rd date (just kidding)

Oh BTW, would I marry a girl with HIV? Does she mind if my feet get smelly is a bigger question.

You know cancer was the no no at one time, and so was TB, and now there is AIDs Oh and lets not forget "fat" and count them. Does this mean that we are to cut off our heartbeats?

Sorry, let me add this.

Do I have any idea who I'm going to fall in love with? No clue.

but it's so obvious

That's very sweet, thank you navy (((hugs)))

Come over, I'll share, they are so good! Wish I could cook like that. Well maybe not, always taste better when someone else is cooking for some reason.

you guys must know by now

lets stop kidding yourselves

How super nice!

I'm not at home, but in a studio tonight (have been all week) and someone just came by and brought me some most excellent chesse rolls and turkey slices for my treat. I'm pigging out bigtime.

Their all heading out for the halloween parties.

hope everyone is having a good time :-)

agreed

It really does have it's own place. For a long time I didn't know if it was me being different about things or if it was because of the widowed proccess that made me think the way I did or even do now.

way too much time on your hands

Never thought about them being similar till now. So much fun to play tricks, or to be tricked.

Yikes, stuff like that gives me the chills.

Having a partner doing the random sex thing would have to be the nightmare of nightmares.

Yep, sometimes on mingle I get a little shocked too and I have to step back and think about some of these folks. Hard for me I guess to get my mind around the lack of caring I see sometimes. Some of us don't think twice about this stuff cause we see people as people (equals) but I guess if someone lives in a much smaller mindset they may see it totally different.

I think threads like these are pretty great to have on mingle. It helps us see a very important side to each other. Illnesses for example brings out the real us, whether we are the one ill or not.

Izzy, sorry for no answer, not sure I got the question. It almost sounded like you were asking me if a do mercy sex, but maybe that's not where you were going with it.

I know the scene you were talking about in fight club and found it sad even though the twist the movie put on it was pretty interesting.

great movie, with all of it's darkness yet deeper meaning

mg glues matching beards on both his and Zee's face, so we can trick or treat with style

anyone care to join?

Can't believe I'm still asleep

Kik is actually a biblical character. He's the example used when they said turn the other cheek. He did get in trouble though when in summer bible school he showed his teacher the wrong ones.

how you doin bro? good to see you

I'm here for the saturday morning pancakes, and to watch Kik get slapped.




Lots of different people, lots of different views.

Hi izzy

Is Julia still trying to get some of you? That girl won't let you be will she. Your gonna have to figure out some way to let her down easy.

nice!