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fathers.
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why do you think some fathers distance themselves from their pregnant partner or the child after it's born? Some people are incapable of being a parent, even though their body is able to produce children, they lack the mentality, maturity, and emotional capacity to be a responsible adult, and a parent. There's all kinds of reasons why one would be this way. And boys feel like sex is a freebie and they don't want to take responsibility for the life they created. girls too,,,,but boys dont have abortion as an option Boys think if they get a girl pg, she can just abort. I heard that is very psychologically draining on a to-be mom to abort her baby! I know I would not. |
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Topic:
fathers.
Edited by
msharmony
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Sun 02/26/12 05:35 PM
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why do you think some fathers distance themselves from their pregnant partner or the child after it's born? Some people are incapable of being a parent, even though their body is able to produce children, they lack the mentality, maturity, and emotional capacity to be a responsible adult, and a parent. There's all kinds of reasons why one would be this way. And boys feel like sex is a freebie and they don't want to take responsibility for the life they created. girls too,,,,but boys dont have abortion as an option |
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The War On Drugs
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ouch,, two hours
I will bookmark it for later but I totally agree with your POV, most of the incarcerated are either impoverished or uneducated,,,, |
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Topic:
A BETTER YOU
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I am striving toward a permanent CAREER and a self business
through furthering my education |
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Topic:
fathers.
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why do you think some fathers distance themselves from their pregnant partner or the child after it's born? I just think some people were not meant to be parents. I am not one to judge their decision but maybe the kid is better off without the dad. JMO No no no you're a little off this time. There were studies done and the biggest forewarning of a kid going to jail, etc., was lack of a father figure involvement. I think they were 3x more likely to have societal, behavioral and criminal activities. I'd have to look it back up and be for sure, but 3x sounds right, and I don't feel like looking it up tonight!! For all that info the ladies owe me a smooch! ![]() lol well, I already kind of new that,, thats why I Said I would NEVER keep a child from their father unless that parent was abusive to the child personally,,, The study didn't specify but I feel sure it meant a good father figure, it might not have, you can never tell if they don't specify. yes, a father is better than no father,, UNLESS that father is tainted (abusive) just like eating SOME food, is better than eating NO food, unless that food is tainted,,, Ahhh I forgot about me. Mine was verbally, physically and mentally abusive. That's what made me swear when I was a kid I'd never treat anyone like that, and I made it out. I am distanced from my father (he died) and mother (she's 82) cuz I remember my youth and resent it. Im sorry to hear it, but even that experience with your father taught you valuable lessons so it wasnt really a loss |
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fathers.
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why do you think some fathers distance themselves from their pregnant partner or the child after it's born? I just think some people were not meant to be parents. I am not one to judge their decision but maybe the kid is better off without the dad. JMO No no no you're a little off this time. There were studies done and the biggest forewarning of a kid going to jail, etc., was lack of a father figure involvement. I think they were 3x more likely to have societal, behavioral and criminal activities. I'd have to look it back up and be for sure, but 3x sounds right, and I don't feel like looking it up tonight!! For all that info the ladies owe me a smooch! ![]() lol well, I already kind of new that,, thats why I Said I would NEVER keep a child from their father unless that parent was abusive to the child personally,,, The study didn't specify but I feel sure it meant a good father figure, it might not have, you can never tell if they don't specify. yes, a father is better than no father,, UNLESS that father is tainted (abusive) just like eating SOME food, is better than eating NO food, unless that food is tainted,,, |
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Topic:
Scary Obituary
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I agree, which is why we're long over due for a new government that truly represents the people. its something to work towards, for sure but in an electorate , those who dont participate rarely get 'represented' , whether they are excluded by choice or by chance,,, |
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fathers.
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why do you think some fathers distance themselves from their pregnant partner or the child after it's born? I just think some people were not meant to be parents. I am not one to judge their decision but maybe the kid is better off without the dad. JMO No no no you're a little off this time. There were studies done and the biggest forewarning of a kid going to jail, etc., was lack of a father figure involvement. I think they were 3x more likely to have societal, behavioral and criminal activities. I'd have to look it back up and be for sure, but 3x sounds right, and I don't feel like looking it up tonight!! For all that info the ladies owe me a smooch! ![]() lol well, I already kind of new that,, thats why I Said I would NEVER keep a child from their father unless that parent was abusive to the child personally,,, |
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grabbing his beard and sign?
and the version I read claimed someone was choked,,,,,smh media ![]() |
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my rights end where anothers begins
my disagreement is probably one of the main reasons for the variance in opinion whether or not another life constitutes a strict issue of one persons privacy, or whether that life has similar 'personhood' to be protected |
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Topic:
Scary Obituary
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our founding fathers had strong ideals while continuing to own slaves
the country has never been perfect, and never will be, but we can strive to do better, no matter how good/bad we already are,,, |
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'used against you',,,,lol
whatever dude,,, MsHarmony...at first you claim that those that never personally observed or experienced God would require "Faith" to believe then you tried to use Columbus as an example ...you claim that since you never met columbus you would need faith in the authors that wrote the books about Columbus, that what they wrote was truth and then I said wouldn't the same also apply to the bible...that someone they never personally observed or experienced God would require Faith in the authors of the bible that what they wrote about God was truth and then finding yourself in a pickle you then claim that you had "personally experienced God" so what the heck does "personally experienced God" means?...is that the same double talk believers use to claim that the bible was "inspired by God" ... but anyway...if you claim that you personally experienced God...then why would you still need Faith ...unless you had doubts that it was God that you had that personal experience with...because it could have been Satan but anyway...can you explain the term "personally experienced God"...er...without sounding delusional? probably not to you,,,, carry on,,, apparently not to yourself either keep trying, maybe some valid point will arise from the circular rhetoric,,, |
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'used against you',,,,lol
whatever dude,,, MsHarmony...at first you claim that those that never personally observed or experienced God would require "Faith" to believe then you tried to use Columbus as an example ...you claim that since you never met columbus you would need faith in the authors that wrote the books about Columbus, that what they wrote was truth and then I said wouldn't the same also apply to the bible...that someone they never personally observed or experienced God would require Faith in the authors of the bible that what they wrote about God was truth and then finding yourself in a pickle you then claim that you had "personally experienced God" so what the heck does "personally experienced God" means?...is that the same double talk believers use to claim that the bible was "inspired by God" ... but anyway...if you claim that you personally experienced God...then why would you still need Faith ...unless you had doubts that it was God that you had that personal experience with...because it could have been Satan but anyway...can you explain the term "personally experienced God"...er...without sounding delusional? probably not to you,,,, carry on,,, |
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Topic:
Doomed
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two universally controversial truths about human individuals 1. They can have a healthy happy life without an intimate partner. 2. They can have a healthy, happy life without sex,,,, BUT They have to love themself enough to manage either one,,,,and be able to cherish more than one type of relationship or one type of 'intimacy' or love ,,there, thats better,,,lol Truth is.... If we aint happy with ourselves....... we don't have anything to offer anyone else. Soooo many people don't realize this and rush into the next relationship, without first finding peace and happiness with themselves. well done ![]() |
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took a while for them to accept africans as persons too
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I can't help but notice that black public figures are labelled 'crack-head' far more often than white public figures, without any regard for those person's actual habits. true its considered a harsher and more addictive drug, I guess, and carries harsher sentencing people needing drugs or alcohol to cope are all in the same boat in my opinion, but popular opinion is a bit different,,, |
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Topic:
fathers.
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why do you think some fathers distance themselves from their pregnant partner or the child after it's born? fear insecurity selfishness |
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Topic:
Doomed
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two universally controversial truths about human individuals
1. They can have a healthy happy life without an intimate partner. 2. They can have a healthy, happy life without sex,,,, BUT They have to love themself enough to manage either one,,,,and be able to cherish more than one type of relationship or one type of 'intimacy' or love ,,there, thats better,,,lol |
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Topic:
Disgusting
Edited by
msharmony
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Sun 02/26/12 10:30 AM
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two universally controversial truths about human individuals
1. They can have a healthy happy life without an intimate partner. 2. They can have a healthy, happy life without sex,,,, BUT They have to love themself enough to manage either one,,,,and be able to cherish more than one type of relationship or one type of 'intimacy' or love,,,, SORRY CLICKED THE WRONG THREAD,,,lol |
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Topic:
Disgusting
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It's time for a witch-hunt! Who needs facts? Its more fun to accuse people, hate people, demonize people based on allegations. We have nothing here except the allegations of bereaved parents. true as well that is why I said there was not enough information but culturally, if it happened in a place where locking a door in a room that has a child in it is deplorable,, no more information would be needed,,, |
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