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Hi Pumpi! I tried to message before, but I had sent too many. I am still off the web, for the most part -but wanted to send all the hugs I missed and remind you that you are cute and sweet and nice and awesome. I literally have no news to report except that the pups and I have walked about 3,000 miles... pretty much all we do. Don't let the news get you down -God knows what he is doing! :)

Howie Adoin

I have no idea what the hell is going on.

I'm cool with that.

My puppies stank -need a bath and spa day -get their nails did, too

If you send me money I will tell matches good things about you (like that you are generous).

You can find someone! Meet/talk to a lot of people -otherwise you are not likely to meet "the one"!
...but while meeting people, don't make that the goal -otherwise there will be pressure.

From my experience talking to many people -it happens for pretty much every possible reason...
Some might have some sort of intersex issue of the mind which makes them attracted that way -but for others it's just availability -or intimacy -just having no issues with it and finding it enjoyable or another beautiful -bad experiences with the opposite sex -finding no suitable partners of the opposite sex... you name it

It could be that it is often more of an innocent love when we are young -and we miss that as things get more complicated -but then it's definitely possible to meet the best person you'll ever meet when you are young -and others may disappoint.
Either way, just have to hope they had a wonderful life.

Speaking as an increasingly-reclusive curmudgeon, I am just glad I had wonderful people in my life at all -nobody can ask for more than that.

Giggle lady?

What's on your mind, buddy?

I don't take selfies... I take alonies

...and curmudgeon accessories

I want to start a club for curmudgeons -with a store for merch -and a curmudgeonwear clothing line

Letting the dog drive makes it funner.


I think I will become a foodie. I gave up cooking after absolutely having to do it three to four times a day for some years -but I need me some nom noms. I will keep it healthy, though. My present diet requires little cooking and is bland, but very healthy.

Otherwise... movies, video games, refurbing stuff, working on the van, making puppy smiles

I thought I had social anxiety -and I think I once may have -but I think it has flipped to being isolation anxiety. I feel great when out and about and interacting. The only real symptom is now worrying about every detail about the future -planning everything to the last detail -then worrying about every variable which might change the plan. I normally enjoy planning -but I think it's a matter of not enough opportunity to just do the stuff yet. When doing stuff, you just deal with variables as and if they vary -and you feel good about getting stuff done.
I once did not give a hoot about variables.
I would go on cross-country road trips with a couple hundred bucks and figure it out as I went.

Whippersnapper Head Slapper (when young'uns need discipline)

Spaghetti -if it sticks it's done

It is possible to have too many feelings -and for your brain to get tired. My brain crashes when I have strong feelings at present -like it has to finish processing the other stuff.
Nothing wrong with just living while your brain catches up.

Horsepuckey. Big world -lots of people.
Don't assume what others might think, feel -or even see when they look at you. That is not fair to them -even if many would not be attracted. Get out of your own way -and theirs. You don't need to find yourself attractive.

Go downtown -wherever -and do some couple-watching.
Give it enough time and you will be saying "What are they doing with that person?" a whole lot.
It won't make sense to YOU what some see in others -but it does not have to make sense to you.

The poster talking about Asia has a point, too -as different cultures are taught to see beauty and attractiveness differently -and to see different aspects of a person as important.

I am not tidy. I need lots of drawers to put things that would otherwise be all over the place. They would not be very organized.