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Mon 08/15/11 03:51 PM
Edited by exxman on Mon 08/15/11 03:55 PM



However the last first date i had i did not kiss her when i could have. As i told her "I am not looking to define a moment, i will know because the moment will define itself." And this i believe.:smile:

She prolly thought you were gay. js.


or at least not interested in her. Gotta kiss the girl, to confirm chemistry that supposedly existed before goin on a date. Did you shake hands, or arrange date 2?



:smile: I waving


And there was chemistry but again for me timing is everything, and i am at a point in my life where i understand things a lot better now then say 10 years ago.

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Mon 08/15/11 03:49 PM


However the last first date i had i did not kiss her when i could have. As i told her "I am not looking to define a moment, i will know because the moment will define itself." And this i believe.:smile:

She prolly thought you were gay. js.


laugh Prolly, you know some women aren't use to a man showing respect like that. Did i mention i gave her dozen roses and open doors? Just being me. :tongue:

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Mon 08/15/11 03:46 PM
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frustrated frustrated frustrated

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Mon 08/15/11 11:56 AM
Edited by exxman on Mon 08/15/11 11:56 AM
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flowerforyou flowerforyou Ladies


GUYS !!!grumble

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Mon 08/15/11 02:51 AM
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bigsmile

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Sun 08/14/11 06:44 PM
Edited by exxman on Sun 08/14/11 06:45 PM
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grumble

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Sun 08/14/11 06:36 PM
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Art must be painting some where laugh

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Sun 08/14/11 06:31 PM
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laugh Shes on the run now !!!

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Sun 08/14/11 06:29 PM
:smile: flowerforyou Grats on quitting and always be happy to be you, no one could be you better. :smile:

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Sun 08/14/11 06:22 PM
laugh 568

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Sun 08/14/11 06:17 PM
Edited by exxman on Sun 08/14/11 06:19 PM

If you'd read the new book from Steve Harvey "Act like a lady, think like a man". He talks about the 90 day rule.


Steve says to really understand a man’s intentions; women should make the men they are dating wait 90 days before they have sex.

“The biggest mistake that women make is they find out the information too late. You find out he’s married too late, you find out something’s wrong with him, he’s not really working, he’s not really a committed-type guy,” he says. “You can get this figured out in 90 days if you give yourself a chance, but once you commit yourself physically to a guy, you become emotionally involved, and you try to force it to make it work because ‘I slept with the guy.’ And you end up dragging yourself through the mud with a relationship that you really need to get rid of.”

Women: Do you think it’s reasonable to ask a man you’re dating to wait 90 days before having sex?



“If you’re looking for a lifetime commitment, what’s 90 days? You’re trying to have something real,” Steve says. “Now, if you just want to have a fling, then knock yourself out. Most guys, we don’t want to take home to our mothers the loosey-goosey babe. We’re not taking you down off a pole in a strip club and taking you home to our mama’s house. That ain’t what we’re looking for!”

Men: Would you stick around 90 days before having sex with the woman you’re dating?

I believe I know what the guys are going to say. :smile:
What say ye men, women, is it a good rule?



Mom taught me few things. one of which is "Robert if something is worth having, it's worth waiting for." If i had only been wiser youngerfrustrated frustrated .......

As for time frames, i agree some time is best before sex for one simple reason. If you are there for the relationship the sex is not a for front factor. It's about the quality of what you do and whom you are doing it with that make's it special.

And when that time comes,pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork all hell breaks loose!! lol

I do not agree though on a time frame (for me i'll know when:smile: ) unless you find you lack the control on making good decisions when it comes to sex. Then perhaps you do need to set a personal time frame on it.

And as to answer the question, if that is when it is meant to be it will be. So yes i can see that. Now if you are going to ask me if i have used such restraint in my past, No i have not.

However the last first date i had i did not kiss her when i could have. As i told her "I am not looking to define a moment, i will know because the moment will define itself." And this i believe.:smile:

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Sun 08/14/11 06:00 PM

570 bigsmile

569!!!
laugh laugh flowerforyou

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Sun 08/14/11 05:49 PM

Awesome movie & music through out...........drinker :banana:


^^ Agreed. Several head shakes for the movie with a lol following.

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Sun 08/14/11 05:48 PM
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noway De Ja Vu

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Sun 08/14/11 01:12 PM
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spock Sneaks away :angel:

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Sun 08/14/11 05:35 AM


Saying a prayer for Bill Scheel and his family.

He recently received news he has 4 cancer tumors in his stomach and is putting his trust and faith in The Lord's healing hand to guide him through this time of pain. His journey will take him to Guatemala for alternative treatment.

May your belief and faith in the lord guide you in your upcoming travels my friend.
I will also keep Bill in my prayers...I am a cancer survivor, trust in the lord!


:smile: Thank you. He has been blessed once to have survived cancer in his throat(last year) but was recently diagnosed with 4 new tumors in his stomach. One of them is said to be softball size.

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Sat 08/13/11 04:35 PM
Kid Rock - All Summer Long


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwIGZLjugKA&ob=av2e

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Sat 08/13/11 03:55 PM
Hinder - lips Of An Angel


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiSfTyrvJlg

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Sat 08/13/11 03:52 PM
Lita Ford & Ozzy - Close my eyes forever


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zy3fJ8Nmzyw

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Sat 08/13/11 03:43 PM
Edited by exxman on Sat 08/13/11 03:44 PM
574* Naw i m just drifting off with music and enjoying some memories:smile:
Now we need rara to hit 572 or someone else :-" grabs a net if its a woman muahahahaha

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