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sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this... Personally, I don't think honesty should make someone less attractive to another. I also don't think that it's a character flaw to know what about you attracts someone to you. |
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Topic:
What type do you attract?
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Was having a bit of a man bashing chat to a good (female) friend of mine the other day about the type of man that we seem to attract.
My friend and I are quite independent, self sufficient women. We are (mostly) easy going, intelligent and have a carpe diem attitude. When we do flirt manipulatively, we are upfront, obvious and you’d have to be blind not to see it coming from a mile off. We differ in the sense that she likes pretty, well groomed, successful types and I’m more flexible - basically she’s more materialistic than I am (and she’ll readily admit that)..however our personalities often attract the same type of man i.e. subs or men that appear ok initially but are so insecure that they kill the relationship before it starts. I’m not asking for a character assassination as I'm more than familiar with my flaws. This is more about whether you’re aware of the type(s) of person that you attract. |
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Edited by
42BlackBBW
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Wed 05/30/12 03:38 PM
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1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men? Yes, you learn how NOT to make eye contact. 2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time? You will see the wheels turning, trying to figure out what move to make. 3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks. I believe them to be shallow, grass is greener types. It's like you read my mind Soufie with this answer  I would also add to 3. that it makes most insecure. |
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14 (similar to 1). They want to turn you into someone you're not.
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Topic:
finish my sentence - part 23
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connects with the right side of...
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Congrats. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you.
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Topic:
finish my sentence - part 23
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and overdosing on cakemix and..
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Topic:
Pictures & Attraction
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I've been on too many dates whereby the person doesn't match their picture - it's usually an old picture. I have also and that's not honesty, and most likely means FAIL It brings up a bit of a dilemma for me though because on the one hand, I can understand why some people may choose to misrepresent themselves in this way...online daters are a shallow lot and put so much emphasis into aesthetics and visual attraction etc. On the other hand, itdoes make me wonder if ‘they’ can lie about their picture, what else are they lying about..hence the dilemma. Long and short of it is that I agree with you. By lying about something so basic automatically cancels out any hope of anything else developing. |
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Topic:
finish my sentence - part 23
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tastes good like mellons and...
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Topic:
Pictures & Attraction
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I'm more attracted to what a person writes on their profile as well as how we interact in our msgs because I've been on too many dates whereby the person doesn't match their picture - it's usually an old picture.
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Topic:
finish my sentence - part 23
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with some honey which goes great on...
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I'll put money on the fact that I'm gonna wake up and there'll be a msg from you
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Topic:
finish my sentence - part 23
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goldilocks and the 3 bears to play with while...
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Topic:
finish my sentence - part 23
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until it bursts all over..
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Topic:
COMPLICATED LADIES
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Are Ladies really hard to understand. The older ones say "sorry,you're too young!" while the younger ones say "sorry, i'm not ready yet". Yes but the good things in life never come easy 
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Topic:
finish my sentence - part 23
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with the deep heat. It always feels better..
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Topic:
Ladies...fess up
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1. The feel of their arms around me
2. Their conversation 3. Their laughter 4. Their ability to focus on one thing at a time 5. The sight of him interacting with his kid(s) |
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Topic:
finish my sentence - part 23
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sticking the hair back onto my...
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I kind of regret telling you not to contact me until Friday but I'm not gonna tell you that
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Topic:
The Avengers!!
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I saw the Avengers last night. Even without seeing the previous movies except for Ironman, I really enjoyed it. Lots of fun. I thought Mark Ruffalo made a completely awesome Hulk. Marvel has come up with a winning formula. The personalities of the characters "feed" certain parts of the plot so to really "get it" you might want to go back and see the earlier movies which makes Marvel (and Disney) a few more bucks. The character development of Thor and Loki are set up in Thor, which I liked a lot. Ed Norton played Hulk before and set up the conditions where Hulk can be a good guy or a bad guy, depending upon circumstances. The scene in this movie where he attacks Natasha didn't seem to follow the character development but was a good scene anyway. The Hulk generally does not smash women. I would think if you liked this movie you would like the ones that lead up to it too. It's like a big soap opera. I thought that bit was odd as well especially when in later scenes the Hulk demonstrated that he was consciously aware of his actions i.e. he knew when to 'smash' and when not to. |
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