Community > Dating & Relationships

Previous 1 2 3 Next

Topic: Questions for women who KNOW they are attractive to men
1kevin32 Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 9	Tue 05/29/12 09:15 AM
You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. And after years of experiences like these, you've come to realize that you're attractive to men, and you know it. I have 3 questions about this: 1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men? 2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time? 3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks.

Mz_Rocker Joined Sun 04/29/12 Posts: 7	Tue 05/29/12 09:25 AM
1. it makes you more confident in yourself but the downfall is that you think your attractive to anyone now. 2. I expect him to behave like his trying to be my friend first or get to know me more. 3. I think some men are just out their for sex and the others are being serious. Some just simple lie to just to get in your pants.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45325	Tue 05/29/12 10:36 AM
1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men? Yes, you learn how NOT to make eye contact. 2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time? You will see the wheels turning, trying to figure out what move to make. I move fast and try to look stupid. 3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks. I believe them to be shallow, grass is greener types.

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Wed 05/30/12 12:03 AM
I'm not sure i can answer this without coming across as being arrogant or full of myself, but i'll give it a fair shot. 1. It's a double edged sword. It's nice to be desired, yet makes me somewhat stand offish because you KNOW what they want before even getting to know what kind of person you really are. 2. I have learnt that being a stare bear and making them laugh by throwing a left fielder at them does one of 2 things. It either unsettles them, or they run in the opposite direction. 3. Men are visual creatures, and have some kind of fantasy going on inside their head...which explains the blushing and looking at their feet all the time when speaking with them.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 05/30/12 12:21 AM
I deter unwanted advances on mingle and in real life by talking about my faith. It is amazing how fast I can make most men uninterested.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 05/30/12 04:34 AM
What's with all the questions? Is there a purpose to this thread?

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 05/30/12 04:47 AM
What's with all the questions? Is there a purpose to this thread? Shhh. You're being recorded.

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Wed 05/30/12 05:12 AM Edited by justme659 on Wed 05/30/12 05:21 AM
You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Never happened to me. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Never happened to me. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. Never happened to me. 1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men? Sorry no I can't. 2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time? He runs quickly in the opposite direction. 3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks. Since they are not attracted to me, I think they are chickens, but what do I know? Oh wait, this is only for women who KNOW they are attractive to men. Sheesh I thought this was to make me feel bad about myself because no one notices me.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 05/30/12 05:25 AM
What's with all the questions? Is there a purpose to this thread? Shhh. You're being recorded. from now on I am copywriting my 'fountains of wisdom' I flower upon the poor mingle folk!! IFP c

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Wed 05/30/12 06:10 AM
You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Never happened to me. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Never happened to me. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. Never happened to me. 1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men? Sorry no I can't. 2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time? He runs quickly in the opposite direction. 3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks. Since they are not attracted to me, I think they are chickens, but what do I know? Oh wait, this is only for women who KNOW they are attractive to men. Sheesh I thought this was to make me feel bad about myself because no one notices me. Join the club!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 06:13 AM
What's with all the questions? Is there a purpose to this thread? What's wrong with questions?

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Wed 05/30/12 09:59 AM
What's with all the questions? Is there a purpose to this thread? nope

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Wed 05/30/12 11:28 AM
1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men? Yes, you learn how NOT to make eye contact. 2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time? You will see the wheels turning, trying to figure out what move to make. I move fast and try to look stupid. 3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks. I believe them to be shallow, grass is greener types. This-ish I am also great at not making eye contact and looking as though I am not even in the slightest bit interested. Which is not difficult because I am not. I don't think men are shallow for liking how I look but I do think that coming on to someone you don't know anything about is a bit moronic.

paul1217 Joined Fri 01/29/10 Posts: 904	Wed 05/30/12 11:35 AM
I noticed! You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Never happened to me. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Never happened to me. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. Never happened to me. 1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men? Sorry no I can't. 2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time? He runs quickly in the opposite direction. 3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks. Since they are not attracted to me, I think they are chickens, but what do I know? Oh wait, this is only for women who KNOW they are attractive to men. Sheesh I thought this was to make me feel bad about myself because no one notices me.

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Wed 05/30/12 02:02 PM
I noticed! And what store was that? I missed it!

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Wed 05/30/12 03:34 PM Edited by 42BlackBBW on Wed 05/30/12 03:38 PM
1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men? Yes, you learn how NOT to make eye contact. 2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time? You will see the wheels turning, trying to figure out what move to make. 3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks. I believe them to be shallow, grass is greener types. It's like you read my mind Soufie with this answer I would also add to 3. that it makes most insecure.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 03:58 PM
1. Can you describe what's it like to be attractive to men? Yes, you learn how NOT to make eye contact. 2. How do you now expect the average man to behave when he notices you for the first time? You will see the wheels turning, trying to figure out what move to make. I move fast and try to look stupid. 3. What do you think of men in general as it relates to them being attracted to you? Thanks. I believe them to be shallow, grass is greener types. Or, to make eye contact when you are also attracted to them. The trying to look/act stupid part still confuses me. I don't understand why women do that. I have no problem if a man is attracted to me.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Wed 05/30/12 04:05 PM
sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this...

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 05/30/12 04:10 PM
sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this... I kind of wondered the same thing..

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Wed 05/30/12 04:18 PM
sheesh, after looking at these answers, no wonder there are so many women without a man...i hope you women are happy by purposely taking yourself out like this... I kind of wondered the same thing.. not trying to be rude, but seriously, just because a guy is interested is a reason to be like that? that just amazes me to no end... to bad there is not more women with your attitude, sing...