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Fri 05/27/16 07:39 AM
Getting back to work :smile:

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Fri 05/27/16 07:37 AM

I generally prefer women a little older than younger
Seems like it's just easier to get on the same page for whatever reason

Speaking reasonably older here
I do not chase 75 year old ladies
lol but 75 yr Olds are chasing me. What are they thinking? shocked

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Fri 05/27/16 07:26 AM
Sorry I posted in the wrong topic area embarassed

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Fri 05/27/16 07:25 AM
Some people's responses are so long winded that you skip over them?
For me..I don't have that kind of patience unless I am reading a good novel

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Thu 05/26/16 09:19 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Thu 05/26/16 09:20 PM


I checked out my images today on Google to see if I was fake.

Phew! IOh what a relief it is :smile:


..How do you do that?..
lol just after I said this...someone reported me as a spammer.. Sheesh..some peoples kids :laughing:

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Thu 05/26/16 08:11 PM
Getting ready for bed

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Thu 05/26/16 07:51 PM
Yes it does work when I focus..problem with me is that I keep falling back into my old way of thinking

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Thu 05/26/16 07:48 PM

The blunt truth. The great majority of younger guys that hit on older women are looking for one thing, sex with an older woman. The game is, If they can talk you into it, you teach them what they need to know. So when they find the young girl they desire to be with, you get dumped. Then again, There are older women out there that like teaching young boys. I had mine many years ago. It was my summer of 42.
For most yes but there are some who truly do fall in love with older. Let's face it...for most of any age, it's all about sex these days.

Lately for a few days now...been fighting off a 75 yr old hitting on me for sex frustrated

But am finding it amusing as well :sweat_smile:

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Thu 05/26/16 07:36 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Thu 05/26/16 07:37 PM




After I started talking to men online..I noticed how many young men were hitting on older women. Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet or...has this always been the norm? I was kinda shocked by it all.
I then remembered back to when I was 25 and caught my then husband flirting with an older woman with teenagers.



I get more messages from younger men then I do from men closer to my age.... some are younger then my kids...
But it is nice to know somebody still finds you attractive... even if they are to young.. lol
For me..either too young or too old sad



I know what you mean.. I have the same problem.. glad to know I'm not the only one feeling that... Do you have the answer of what to do... let me know if you figure it out...lol
lol no answer and haven't really tried to remedy it yet. I guess I'm not looking so doesn't really matter :banana:

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Thu 05/26/16 07:32 PM
Cuz I am a firm believer I The Law Of Attraction, I believe that you attract what you think. Sadly we all are bombarded with so much negativety that we hold those thoughts that not many people know how to love anymore. Then we attract that into our lives.

There is much LOVE, you just gotta believe :laughing:

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Thu 05/26/16 06:22 PM
I am a complete coward this way unless the guy hurts me.

I make it his decision by doing something mean....(hides under table)

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Thu 05/26/16 06:17 PM
Good luck btw

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Thu 05/26/16 06:12 PM
I checked out my images today on Google to see if I was fake.

Phew! IOh what a relief it is :smile:


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Thu 05/26/16 05:43 PM


After I started talking to men online..I noticed how many young men were hitting on older women. Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet or...has this always been the norm? I was kinda shocked by it all.
I then remembered back to when I was 25 and caught my then husband flirting with an older woman with teenagers.



I get more messages from younger men then I do from men closer to my age.... some are younger then my kids...
But it is nice to know somebody still finds you attractive... even if they are to young.. lol
For me..either too young or too old sad

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Thu 05/26/16 05:41 PM

Was it always this way?

Here's what you're ultimately saying:
I noticed men were hitting on women

Yes.
It was always that way.
Age is the least of what matters to getting laid.

Is this a new phenomenon with young men brought on by the Internet

I think it has far more to do with medical technology than internet technology.
There's a reason why The Graduate did so well in the box office.
It's not a new phenomenon.
The internet just allows more people to know and gossip about what all of their neighbors in other houses, neighborhoods, cities, states, and countries are doing.

has this always been the norm?

Not really a "norm" like openly accepted as a standard, just not uncommon and usually more subtle and kept away from the neighbors.

Has it always been kinda the "norm" to hit on women in the same manner as on the internet?
No. The internet provides anonymity and safety.
Instead of being extra nice and helpful to your friends mom, you can go online and ask directly for sex.
Instead of buying apples and candy for the teacher, you see a teacher from another school on a website and send her pictures of your junk.

No slapping, no calling someone's mom to tell them what you did, no "my kid won't be hanging out with you anymore," no, "you've got a reputation."
Chris Rock's routine about is probably more helpful.
https://youtu.be/_xJHJAPIx_I

yes I believe you are right :laughing:

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Thu 05/26/16 05:12 PM

It's all about the disclaimer..lol..
It's all about the disclaimer the disclaimer..
Ok.. it is really.. all about ...the bass about the bass....
Great now I have that song stuck in my head..lol..
Hahaha hehe!
I deserved that rofl

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Thu 05/26/16 05:10 PM

Yes good point.. The Untold Truth generally comes out during a break up..
now that you are well aware of "why" this happens....

Don't do it again! :laughing:

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Thu 05/26/16 05:06 PM

Ohh.. did I forget to mention this topic is not about me..lol..wink
Then you better change the "I" ASAP at the beginning of your novel laugh

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Thu 05/26/16 04:59 PM
Did I say me? winking waving :angel:

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Thu 05/26/16 04:58 PM
Should this topic have a disclaimer? rofl

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