I wrote a kind of harsh profile and now I'm getting men contacting me asking me where have I been ? When I was being nice and sweet, I wasn't getting any where. Now I'm showing some attitude, I'm getting a lot of replies.

Unfortunately no.

So far I have met a handful of wonderful people but they are all in the friend zone, but it's only been 5 months . I am willing to give it some more time. I still have hope.

guys are good at that type of deception .....question would it be great if your

mate was our activity partner..??.....so many couples stop dating after the

honeymoon...dates should be activities that are enjoyable for both....joy in our

lives is what keeps us young, healthy, and happy.......

but what if u always don't want sex. You might actually want partner or company for some activity and that activity sometimes might be Sexual in nature

I wanted to know what it means to different people?

The way I Look At It Being a Single Mother Or Father We Are Still People Just Like Everyone Else We Just Have Little Blessings to Take Care Of And love

Pppfff! No need to explain or justify, or apoligize for your statement, or phrase BLACK LADY, Ms Kind. Or your cultural identity. Especially to foreign socialists pushing their own P.C... that isn't working.

Hhhaaa..

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dnhblue, dont give up in your search...life is beautiful when shared with someone! :)

I am really enjoying the forums, though.

By the way,OP, I forgot I wanted to ask: I've heard people talking about people knowing that they are good looking, a bunch of times. Usually, there's another shoe to drop. Some idea that they had behind bringing the question up.

Sometimes, the person asking is trying to work out why someone who THEY think is really good looking, is also callous, rude, and generally obnoxious, and they suspect it's due to egotism connected to the good looks.

Do you have a secondary concern or question behind why you asked this?

All I know is...
I'm so pretty so pretty so pretty yes so pretty am I...lmao .

By the way,OP, I forgot I wanted to ask: I've heard people talking about people knowing that they are good looking, a bunch of times. Usually, there's another shoe to drop. Some idea that they had behind bringing the question up.

Sometimes, the person asking is trying to work out why someone who THEY think is really good looking, is also callous, rude, and generally obnoxious, and they suspect it's due to egotism connected to the good looks.

Do you have a secondary concern or question behind why you asked this?

...I think in some cases a person "knows" they are attractive..and what is considered attractive may not be in someone else's eyes...I have noticed that a lot of people that think they are nice looking may not be..but they carry themselves in a manner that allows them to feel good about themselves...then I have seen a lot of really nice looking people that pick themselves apart...but all in all...the ones that "know" they are..are usually down right ugly on the inside...

if they are not in the forums, i treat them as a scammer...

most of the women im currently comimg across either want to control mistaking me for a weak minded guy or they have some hidden agenda where they want to have endless emails and waste time and refuse to face and voice verify via skype or they really like me claim that they have "fell in love" with me and expect me to pay $1000 plus for their plane ticket. are yall having any luck on yalls side? been on this is site since last sunday and no dice as of yet.

...lol..and I thought all the new money that they printed that resembled Monopoly money was "off color"...it's kinda sad that they are doing this...it's almost an insult to people of color...I mean if you think about it..currency is losing its value by the minute...now that it's about worthless they want to put a black lady on it..?...please note that I am not insulting people of color...just insulting the idea...

Actually a person's pictures are the one of the last things I look at. I read the person's profiles, since I usually am attracted to someone in forums more than I am a cold profile.

It wouldn't bother me...

If and when I go off site I prefer to video to see what the person really is and how the facial expression interact with the personality I have had a glimpse of.

No.
But I wouldn't automatically distrust it.
Photo's don't really do anything online but offer a false sense of security.

You are never guaranteed the picture or video of the person you are interacting with is going to be who shows up to a date.


You don't really see their eyes until you actually meet in person.


Maybe.
Depends on a lot of things.


Maybe.
I wouldn't be all "I need to find me a cock eyed crossed eye person" but if they were highly attractive and great to interact with then the eye might not be that big of deal.

The more they are insecure about it, or the less attracted I am to them otherwise, the more it's going to matter, though.

Very few people are absolutely "unattractive."

Most everyone is "attractive" to a certain audience.

Many to most simply have a problem accepting or realizing the audience that will find them attractive.

And far too many preoccupy themselves with the flaws of others in deciphering that group, rather than their own.