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Sat 07/08/17 02:30 AM
Edited by jazzinc on Sat 07/08/17 02:31 AM
Definitely;this is a relevant topic in the lives of all of us(active life..);you have said it all(or almost..)in your comments; a simple question for a complex topic.I'm trying to comment and thinking at the same time.

LOVE,SEX and HAPPINESS...what a trio!!..woow!!

For a single person;who tries to find and enjoy happiness every single day in several ways;regular or occasional sex;can be an essential part of existence as a normal human being;IF he/she considers it like that.Sex completes happiness;sex with or without love involved.Sex for a single person is not complicated;it's a personal choice and decision. Happiness with or without it.

Sex within the couple is another very different situation.If the formal relationship has been built based in love and sex(and more..);happiness can be ruined or even disappear if sex is absent in everyday lives;putting the relationship itself in a risky field(rupture or divorce).On the other hand;if the couple decides to decrease the frequency of sex or stop it for specific reasons;keeping the best level of possible happiness;life goes on

If sex is absent or almost in the couple for other bizarre reasons;happiness and love are ruined; then....separation or divorce;is coming..

Thanks for your interesting comments for this topic

have a wonderful weekend

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Thu 07/06/17 02:47 PM
FRIENDSHIP
LOVESHIP
PARTNERSHIP

The most difficult to find and keep is...??

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Tue 07/04/17 09:02 AM
GOD chooses and sends the right person to share your life with love; or
YOU choose that person with your own decisions; or
A strange combination of both

what do you think??

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Tue 07/04/17 08:52 AM




In some place;you meet GOD and you see and feel HE has compassion on you and your "eternal life of single"; HE wish you have Love and HE ask you; what kind of partner you are looking for and HE will give you the person you want.
GOD warns you: Perfection doesn't exist!!

What is your answer?


I put my life in your hands oh Lord, I trust you. You know the desires of my heart and I am confident that you have a plan for me. My faith is strong , in your time I believe you have a special someone in store for me. I will patiently wait oh God for my heart will rest in peace with the comforts of your love and grace happy :heart: :angel:


Yes dolphin, but I've seen so many religious people on here when talking about poor people or bad people say it's down to them, so has god given them a rubbish plan and the better plans to those better off?


Everything happens for a reason, to teach us a lesson, to seek God and his righteousness . We all have a freedom to choose, sometimes we get lost along the way due to our selfishness and being stubborn. We suffer from the consequences of wrong choices we make in our lives. But I must say being rich does not necessarily follow that you have a better life. Whether rich or poor happiness, love and contentment live in our hearts when we totally surrender ourselves to God's hand . In God's love we take refuge and comfort, no more pain and suffering. We seek the things of God rather than the things of the world. Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these. things shall be added unto you.happy :heart: drinker


Real and wise words about GOD in our lives. A real truth for believers with faith. Thanks my dear friend for your inspired comment. flowerforyou :heart: :heart:

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Sun 07/02/17 07:58 AM

I really get confused by some of these religious threads.
I'm not putting down those who believe but one minute people say god has chosen your path then they say your destiny is of your own making? whoa
Looks to me like if things go well its gods input, if it goes wrong then it's your own fault? slaphead


Just 2 or 3 words about:
- You believe in GOD or not
-You are not perfect
-You decide what to do in your life at any time

...think about it. That's it

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Sun 07/02/17 07:48 AM

thank you jazz ... saying it is one thing but truly practicing our faith is the hardest part. god bless you sir :angel:


You're welcome. GOD with you. HE never will leave you alone.

Peace:heart:

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Sun 07/02/17 07:44 AM


In some place;you meet GOD and you see and feel HE has compassion on you and your "eternal life of single"; HE wish you have Love and HE ask you; what kind of partner you are looking for and HE will give you the person you want.
GOD warns you: Perfection doesn't exist!!

What is your answer?


I will play in your delusion:

I am but a mortal man. How could I know the mind of God. I will not try to tell God what I want, but humbly accept the path He chooses for me.

with that said, back to the harsh reality.


You can talk with GOD and ask for your life and happiness;GOD is symbol of LOVE;HE loves you;but you must have HIM in your heart.Don't try to know "GOD's mentality"..this is for humans only.HE knows your needs even when you sleep.

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Sun 07/02/17 01:59 AM

God i dont want perfection i only need what you think i truly need for me because i do understand that i will not always get what i want. i take comfort in knowing that you will give me what i deserve :angel:


Congratulations for your excellent answer;it's makes sense because you fully trust GOD and his choice for you. He will give you a man who will love you for the rest of your life; that is what you deserve;no matter the distance,the sun or the moon;no matter the light or the dark.

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Sat 07/01/17 06:11 PM
In some place;you meet GOD and you see and feel HE has compassion on you and your "eternal life of single"; HE wish you have Love and HE ask you; what kind of partner you are looking for and HE will give you the person you want.
GOD warns you: Perfection doesn't exist!!

What is your answer?

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Sat 07/01/17 05:29 PM
Edited by jazzinc on Sat 07/01/17 05:30 PM
We must know and understand very clear the essential differences between 3 verbs:
-To have fun
-To cheat
-To betray

And be your own judge where you belong in your behavior

...with honesty and sincerity.

Not less than that

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Sat 07/01/17 05:13 PM

Often times the man loves her more or the woman loves him more! Probably rare love is 50/50 between them! Imo


Several points dear Lady:
-Honesty and sincerity are absent from mind and heart
-many people like only to receive and almost nothing to give
-many people have difficulty to trust other persons
-A lot of perfectionists around there...
-Many people see more weaknesses than the strengths
-Many people don't love anybody...only themselves
-Too many bad experiences in their lives
-etc etc....

Then....Impossible to give love and receive love at 50/50

People prefer stay single and live in total peace and with love from families and maybe good friends. That's it!!

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Fri 06/30/17 08:20 AM

would you choose to love someone who doesn't love you as much or be with a person you know who loves you but you dont truly love? or...just stay single till the time that equal love happens if there is such thinkthinkthink


I posted something similar few weeks ago. Some good comments we had.

But in general; Love given=love received ...or nothing at all.

Love equation : 1+1=1

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Fri 06/30/17 08:03 AM

Life is nothing without love relationship:heart:


It's a kind of "extreme phrase". Life is full of situations and moments where you can give and receive love; GOD first;after; family;friends,neighbors,etc. A romantic relationship is even better; but it's not all in life.

Take your time,be patient and be open mind in society and you will have it.

Give first with your heart and you'll receive it

G L.

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Thu 06/29/17 06:20 AM

Hi is what the site puts in at top if it is left blank
ask for photo is what it says when you don't post a profile picture
I'll tell you later is what the profile says when left empty


if you see any of these it just means this person did not bother to fill anything out


Thanks TMommy for your short explanation; I take note.
But even with that;a person who writes nothing at all in a site like Mingle2 and no matter the reasons this person has and his/her purposes;it makes no sense.Empty lines can't be called a PROFILE; and even more empty without a recent or old photo.

It's a personal choice;so....good luck to them.

Thanks again for your comment.

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Wed 06/28/17 03:39 PM

Tell
.me
.. when was the last time anything on this planet made any sense at all..???..hmm..
Price of gas through the roof..
Banks making money hand-over-fist off of us..
Housing prices through the roof average person can't afford to buy their own home..

Children going hungry
. Corporations raping the planet for profit..
A little you and me just trying to get by..
Not stepping on any toes keeping our side of the fence clean and tidy...

All the while being bent over by government and corporations and taking it hard up the..axx.. buy them well we smile and say more please.....lol...soooo... tell me when was the last time anything made sense to you....hmmmmm


TODAY.....and TOMORROW too!!

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Wed 06/28/17 07:42 AM

I believe that everyone has their own reasons why they fill up a profile or does not completely fill it up. We cannot blame people if they have fears and hesitations to give out information. And yes it is true that not all members here are looking for a date , some maybe just like the forum and want to gain friends . Anyway, here online it is a fact that people don't trust so easily, there are real and fake people, the profile alone is not a basis to judge someone, though yes it helps and gives us information about the person that we want to talk to. But are we really sure that everything they write is true? I guess not, everyone is a suspect that is why we have to communicate, get connected with whoever we are interested with in order to get to know them well. Only after getting in touch we can make an impression, judgement or discernment depending on the conversations. But yes i would say a good profile helps in some ways for those who seek honest communication, and if you don't fill up a good profile, probably you will have a hard time catching somebody's attentionwhoa ohwell


As always; another excellent comment;it's real,logical,clear and true. This kind of comments makes sense and contribute to clarify various situations. I like your words. Thank you!!

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Tue 06/27/17 08:56 PM

What do you think?

I think conversation with people matters infinitely more than a static profile that can be filled with anything and is generally worthless.

I think if it matters all that much to you, then you should email the people with no info on their profile and ask them about themselves rather than possibly complain they didn't turn their life into cliff notes focused on considering your dating desires.

I think people are looking for a personalized experience with online dating anymore, especially with apps like tinder.
an attempt to treat it like meeting someone at a bar.
I think it's more unusual for people looking for live immediate interaction to rely on an impersonal self description rather than wanting to have it all come out during conversation.


Your recommendation or advice is not possible and is illogical ....no sense!
Thks!!

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Tue 06/27/17 09:44 AM
Edited by jazzinc on Tue 06/27/17 10:25 AM
Many many profiles have only 3 simple words in the introduction page: HI(in About section) and NO ANSWER (in Physical appearance and Lifestyle).

I consider that "absolutely no sense"; it's extremely private;it sounds mysterious and so incognito. That people doesn't want to give any information about them...and they are looking for love and affection or friendship in this site.It's essential and normal to have some basic information in profile page;just to have an idea of the person; no more than that.But to write nothing at all;it's no sense at 100%.People has the choice;full basic info; only some info or any info.

What do you think?

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Sun 06/25/17 08:29 AM
What is the impact or the impression of the Profile Photos??

We can see all kinds of photos in profiles....

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Sat 06/24/17 07:34 AM
If a "gentleman" (not an ordinary man) gets a 1st date by a couple of written,audio or video communication sendings; then; that is a giant 1st step in the dating objective. After that;all can follow right or not.

First date comes from a genuine interest by both;actor and actress.

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