Who says she does.
Didn't Superman fly around the earth in reverse and basically undo time in Superman 2?
Maybe he just screws her to death and then flies around the earth backwards or whatever.

Depends on the the pension.

Huh?

This isn't all that clear.

Because I could say, for example, "A familiar pattern of what I do in a relationship is clear, direct, immediate, and honest verbal communication. What I am unfamiliar with is beating my partner senseless when they don't listen."

But according to your instructions I want to become more "unfamiliar" with clear, direct, immediate, and honest verbal communication, while becoming more "familiar" with physical abuse?


At best it looks more like an exercise in goal seeking.

If people can't be honest with themselves, an exercise based on biased memory, rationalizing, conflating, minimizing, and romanticizing/horrorizing their past isn't going to really do much.
So at best it's just a goal seeking exercise to help further rationalize and delude themselves as to the "truth," with a false sense of some kind of "accomplishment" for doing an exercise. Mental and/or emotional masturbation.

...But, again, the instructions aren't all that clear.


Is that why so many women put on their profile "Not looking for sex! No one night stands! I'm tired of that! It's time for me to settle down! You must be...?" and they're so successful?


Realize everyone is on a bell curve.
At least half of the population is to the left of average intelligence.
A lot of money can be made catering to them.

If you can't figure it out yourself, ask someone or people that know you.
Describe what you're feeling and thinking honestly to them.
See what they think.

Other than that, be mindful of your commitments, responsibilities, behavior, and choices.
Despite what a lot of books, songs, and movies portray, love doesn't conquer everything.

By nature? ...Yes.


Neither?
I have no idea who views my profile.


No.
I also don't follow home everyone that glances at me while waiting at a red light.


Attention and/or entertainment, possibly more if you (or your thumbnail) are attractive enough.

What do you like about yourself, that's gender specific, that you believe women should/would/do like, value, and/or appreciate?

Better for someone to ask the person they're in a relationship with than online strangers.

As a purely hypothetical it's just "depends."

Other than that, for me personally: " Is Flirting / Speaking sexually in a Chat Room considered an Affair ?? "
I see it more as a potential symptom of emotional, social, personal, or mental problems.
Most especially if you've never met the chat roomer in person.

You ever see the movie "Lars and the real girl?"
To me your question is like if Lars had a wife, then started a relationship with his doll, and then he comes online and asks "is dating my doll considered an affair?"

To me there's a deeper issue than defining what an "affair" is.

There you go.
Fixed that for you.


First time using an online dating site?

One that's appropriate to the occasion?
Since I've been invited, then most likely the party isn't really about me.
So if I go, it's about whomever is doing the inviting.
So...that would dictate what I would wear, in consideration of my hosts.


Light and movement, (contrast/change) attracts attention.
Other than that, specific colors cause different reactions in people.
So, color could attract one person while repulsing another?

Up to about 2-3 hours a day maybe, if "mingle2" counts as a "social networking site."
As it means any site that has any kind of messaging or comment section will count.

Most of the time is spent watching videos on YouTube.
"Per day" isn't that accurate of measurement, as it doesn't really take into consideration days spending no time on "social netwrkng sites" and then binging on a weekend.

Depends on the insult.
Depends on the motive.
Depends on the others we're in front of.

I mean there's a range of difference between playfully insulting me to set up a joke while at a dinner party with friends, on a first date saying or doing something insulting by accident in front of strangers, and out of malicious intent wanting to emotionally/mentally/physically/socially/intellectually harm me and potentially my friends or coworkers or family, using present company to maximize the effect with what they know to be the most insulting thing they can do/say to me.

I may feel hurt. I may feel relieved. I may feel anger or rage. I may feel curious. I may feel scared or cautious. I may feel happy.
Just depends.


Sure. Maybe.
Or maybe I don't react at all.
Or maybe do something self effacing.

Extremely.
If they aren't, then I'm at best being used as a masturbatory aid at worst impinging on their time.

I mean:

That shows his focus is on you and his actions are triggering associations.

If his focus wasn't on you he'd be muttering "if I hurry up I can get back to watching the mars rover live stream."

Or "I'm going to just sit here and twist these nipples while imagining they're controls for the mars rover, while saying 'errmmmmm, vrrrrrt, beep beep boop beep,' making sound effects, I wonder what that would actually sound like in martian atmosphere!"

Of course there is also surgical or hyper focus, which isn't all that better.


Kind of like driving.
I want someone to focus on driving.
If they're focused on texting, it's a bad thing.
And if they're far too focused on the road, they may stop checking far enough ahead to keep a safe distance, or they may miss the right exit.

So it's of extreme importance they are focusing on me during sex.
Just not too much, and not too little.

Dammit.
Are vampires coming back?
At least zombie apocalypse hysteria is dying down.
Oh crap.
Are the ladies zompires?
Oh god.
You want a Kristen Stewart and Kirston Dunst revival, don't you.
Nooooooo!


Ooooooooh!


Really?
So you would be okay if a "draft" for sex workers was enacted if the government deemed it as "necessary?"
Make everyone sign up for "sexlective service?"
Or would you treat it more like a "jury duty" summons?


I don't agree that sex workers are a "necessity" in society.
Because to me it's like saying "it is a necessity to have fast food workers in society."

And personally, IMO, I would say "sex workers" are actually a symptom of a societal problem, rather than a means to cure one.
Not to mention how casual sex/multiple partners screws with a persons ability to actually bond.

So I'll just throw these out there.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Effects_of_human_sexual_promiscuity

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201303/how-casual-sex-can-affect-our-mental-health

https://www.everydayhealth.com/longevity/can-promiscuity-threaten-longevity.aspx

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5072360/

Depends on how I got it.

I mean they mean something far different when I get them from digging up strangers in the graveyard before hitting the pawn shop vs. someone giving it to me because they love me.

Depends on my relationship to the couple.
A simple equation of my annoyance being inversely proportional to the depth of the relationship.


I know it's crazy, but language is a multipurpose tool.
Words, sentences, paragraphs, grammar,colloquialisms, slang, patois, etc.

People use language for something beyond simply remitting factual information.

I realized this a couple of years ago when someone had the audacity to steal my nose. We were having an enjoyable evening of strained peas and carrots and all of a sudden I just hear "gotcher nose!"
I simply stared at her, carefully removed my bib, leaned back in my high chair and with a tenuous hold on equanimity calmly queried in an attempt at implied social manipulation "how then will I smell?"
Her reply: "Terribly!"
After checking my diaper I found that while I was distracted she had, in fact, returned my nose, to my great relief, despite my most recent activity.


Based on being pedantic that sentence would scare me.
Who is expecting something other than a baby?
What are the other options?

I'd tell you, but I'd be violating the TOS.

Wasssssuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuup?
Not much.
Just imagining a great taste less filling argument between Fozzy bear and Twiggy.
"Wokka wokka wokka."
"Biddy biddy biddy."
"Wokka. Wokka. Wokka."
"Biddybiddybiddy!"


Oh.
I don't think it will be my last.


The positives to breaking up outweighed the negatives, and there were no major commitments to live up to?


That the relationship should end.


Turn back time to what point?
To the breakup? Yes.
To the time before the relationship? No. I would already know what was going to happen, so I'd choose to do something else entirely just for the new experience?


Not really.
Learning needs to be in service to something.
What you use that learning to do, making choices, decisions, experience, behavior, is more "life" than just "learning."

At least IMO.
Personally, I would respect the carpenter that only knew how to make simple bookshelves more than the person calling themselves a carpenter who was a perpetual student, read every book on carpentering, attended every expo, learned how to make anything and everything in the world, but never actually made a single thing, because they were too busy "learning."

I know I'd be far happier in a relationship with someone that was engaged, expressive, and communicative, than someone that had to hold themselves back and analyze everything in order to "learn."

That's just me though. I think life is about far more than learning.

At any time.
So beware and vigilant.
No one expects the Slapnish Inquisition.

Other than that, are you looking for pointers? Like how to set up the situation for some personal benefit?


Depends on the culture.
Depends on the situation.
Depends on the relationship.
Context matters.
Sometimes right and wrong don't matter in the face of "necessary."

But usually if it's an instance of one person using physical violence for their own (emotional) gratification against another without consent, it falls in the "wrong" category.

I think most men can.

Based on what you describe you are referring to "a vagina."

I mean, c'mon..."we have a comfortable place that is not good for us, but we go there...because it is what we have known and it is comfortable... can be a sad place, where we cry a lot or a place where we allow our self saboteur to win for awhile and we go into a place of negative thinking. Basically it is a dark, comfortable place that we avoid, but sometimes it wins and we slip there like slipping into warm fluffy pyjamas and a hot water bottle, savouring the dark..."


"Dark?" Not really. I enjoy the sun.
"Comfortable place?"
Tons. Mental, physical, social, emotional, financial, all sorts of different comfortable places.

Kinda depends on the scenario.

I mean huge difference between a 6 year old being forced into a van and a 30 year old woman kicking and hitting a guy until he gets mad, turns around and punches her to the ground, then walks away checking to see what she's going to do next.

Am I in the ghetto and it's an obvious hooker being "molested" by her pimp?
Or do I see a guy drag a drunk woman from a bar out into the bushes?

Is it a guy with a gun holding it to her head, meanwhile a bunch of his gang member friends are standing around laughing and posturing?

Is the guy a cop kneeling on the neck of a protestor?

Do I know the girl? The guy?
I mean there's scenarios where I could "step in" and help her, only the guy is her abusive husband, and she goes back to him, and he takes out his anger from my intervention on her, and she won't do anything about it.
Or possibly they both file police charges against me for intervening in a domestic thing.

Without any relevant details the best answer you'll get is "yes, no, maybe."