i dont deal with ex's thats just weird n disrespectful to the current one

I'd rather she talk to her x than to her parole officer or credit collecting agencies.

It depends on if you can convince both of them your not sleeping with them at the same time..

lol

or not. Do what you think is necessary ... it's all situational.

shame this woman is acting the fool - if she has a beef at all it's not with you but with her man. Were it me, I'd let her know not to call again as I would report her telephone calls as harrassing and threatening to the cops.

another question, why isn't your friend handling this?

My other ex hated any girl that would talk to me, as a matter of fact she would threaten any girl that would talk to me. and even though this girl was magazine quality, this is when I learned looks will never be the sole determining factor of a relationship for me ever again! That type of jealousy drove me away far away! lol

They need to graduate high school and grow up. I`m still friends with several ex`s but it will never be anything more, it is possible to just be friends.

Shirt On...(Speaking for myself only)

what irks me is how some people have this tendency of allowing another person to dictate their actions??? If people treated one another the way they would like to be treated, with respect and trust, there'd be no damned need of boundaries nor these silly requests... sorry jumping off soap box... now back to our regularly schedule show

would you also stop talking to your butcher because your significant other was jealous?

would you stop smiling and saying hello to complete strangers (people you pass on the streets) because your significant other told you to/asked you to?
wtf!!!

If children are involved and it's stricly dealing with the children that is a common sense issue where two parents must communicate in many forms. If a new boyfriend/husband, or new girlfriend/wife is trying to get inbetween communication with the ex, this is not good, it is not there business to interrupt parental rights. Past flings, past ex's is always a debatable topic where you have to look at things with fine lines. Some say you should trust that they will be fine, since they did not work out and that is why they are an ex, othere's say well, they slept together what will stop them from doing it again, others say don't try to control your other partner as this is not right, and others say the ex should not be present in your life. The plain and simple truth is that if there are no children from this past relationship here is my opinion:
If two people love each other, no party will bring in possible influences that possibly could pose or ruin a relationship, thus the one who is "friends" with the ex and saying it's my right, is not looking after the relationship, but rather the their sole self. The vice is not good either, if you just lose the friend because the other person said so, they may try to stop all opposite sex friends, this is controlling and is not healthy for a relationship and it cann be perceived as abuse. I am pretty much saying use your common sense and just say do I want my current relationship to last or not? You will then have you answer, relationships are about give or take, but give and take is not about bringing potential harmful influences to your relationship. Truly perceive yourself in their shoes and think how you might feel. Talk about it, set agreements that both parties have to ablige to with the opposite sex or ex, it's not so hard, we are adults, not children.