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Topic: How many others?
beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:23 PM
When someone is coming onto you through mail and says they are interested. First thing that comes to my mind is how many others are they saying the same exact thing to laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:25 PM
I don't think about it. I try to get to know them first

no photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:25 PM
i dont get emails.....

sad sad sad

erowid1's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:25 PM

When someone is coming onto you through mail and says they are interested. First thing that comes to my mind is how many others are they saying the same exact thing to laugh
youll never get anywhere thinking like that! give the guy the benefit of the doubt!

no photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:27 PM

When someone is coming onto you through mail and says they are interested. First thing that comes to my mind is how many others are they saying the same exact thing to laugh
Well to me its not how many THEY first write to.
Its how many THEY COMMIT TO....:wink: flowerforyou

alon4now's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:29 PM

When someone is coming onto you through mail and says they are interested. First thing that comes to my mind is how many others are they saying the same exact thing to laugh


True but this is a dating site and if they are looking but not playing you is it wrong. I met a lot of nice ppl on here that should be complimented on things. I think anyway.

Tameka's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:30 PM
They probably are saying similar things to other people. The fact is this is the internet. And the point is to get to know people. Many people should interest everyone. As you get to know someone, thats where it gets narrowed down to friendship, or more.

no photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:31 PM

When someone is coming onto you through mail and says they are interested.


What's that like, anyway?


FAK's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:32 PM
I'm looking for the intimate encounters
laugh laugh laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:32 PM

They probably are saying similar things to other people. The fact is this is the internet. And the point is to get to know people. Many people should interest everyone. As you get to know someone, thats where it gets narrowed down to friendship, or more.










You hit the nail on the head

alon4now's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:33 PM

They probably are saying similar things to other people. The fact is this is the internet. And the point is to get to know people. Many people should interest everyone. As you get to know someone, thats where it gets narrowed down to friendship, or more.

You said it better than I.

MissBehaving's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:35 PM

laugh :wink: laugh

Always the first thing I think - some I reply with a joke about it ...other just get a simple " Thanks for stopping by blahblahblah"

:tongue:


TheLonelyWalker's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:36 PM
well that is the purpose of a dating site.
get to know some people and to see if there are common interests to see if a relationship is viable
u have to try several people as friends, and then see what else can go with ONE.

BlackForkFella's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:36 PM
Maybe as many read/deletes I get; a form letter as an introduction might be a good way to go. Just click a button and its there. For me , its just as hard to e-mail someone as it is to walk up to a woman in a bar or some such place. Just a short "not interested" is better than a read/delete. Makes you feel like you're not even there. (well you are but...just my 2 cents

msmyka's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:38 PM
Im sure he is saying that to other women.... just as im sure you are talking to other guys... thats what dating is all about

beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:40 PM
Confession! laugh I get sick of the same ole lines that I often delete without a response.....especially the ones telling me I'm sexy...

jonny63's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:41 PM
Every email I write is different because each profile is different. What I say to the person I write to comes from what I read about them or what they say in their posts. People that do what your talking about cause the sincere ones to be overlooked.flowerforyou

beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:41 PM

Im sure he is saying that to other women.... just as im sure you are talking to other guys... thats what dating is all about

that may be what a "dating site" is all about, but not dating....Lord I hope not. I don't date more than one person at a time noway

beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:43 PM

Every email I write is different because each profile is different. What I say to the person I write to comes from what I read about them or what they say in their posts. People that do what your talking about cause the sincere ones to be overlooked.flowerforyou


I actually enjoyed yours....thanks :smile:

msmyka's photo
Sun 03/30/08 03:43 PM
Take it how you will I was just commenting that talking to more than one person is how you find out which one you want to date

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