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Topic: Who do you think controls the start of a relationship?
becauseisaidso's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:31 PM
Edited by becauseisaidso on Wed 04/16/08 04:36 PM
Who do you think controls the start of a relationship...men or women? Who do you think mostly initiates the relationship? Just curious of your opinons. Like when you intially meet, who do you think is in control of if you date or not..mutual, one gender more over the other. I guess i have to detail this question more than I thought, when you meet someone for the first time who do you think decides if they want to pursue something. My friend said that women have more control. And they decide if they are going to pursue the guy or not. He said that he thinks men dont have much control on initiating the relationship.

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:31 PM
whoever wants to.

Bornnaked's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:32 PM
What relationship?

mephistopheles's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:32 PM
It\'s usally when i have them in a headlock, they finally give in.

Lily0923's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:32 PM
Whom ever cares the least about it controls it.....

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:32 PM
I forget

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:33 PM

Who do you think controls the start of a relationship...men or women? Who do you think mostly initiates the relationship? Just curious of your opinons.
flowerforyou women control when it ends usually.flowerforyou

bgeorge's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:33 PM
me...but i'm not shy or afraid to get shut down...which rarely if ever happens...when i see a guy i want...i just walk up and start talking...no giggly girly sh*t...just be myself

irad8you's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:34 PM
my right hand wears the pants here

tims1fundude's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:36 PM
Who do you think controls the start of a relationship? my guess would be the lady as if she isnt attracted to the guy its not going to happen...Who do you think mostly initiates the relationship? id have to say the lady as she wants a meaningful relationship not just sex... as most guys are like race cars in a big hurry to get to the finish line i think more guys need to be careing and more open to what they want dont want....

becauseisaidso's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:37 PM

Who do you think controls the start of a relationship? my guess would be the lady as if she isnt attracted to the guy its not going to happen...Who do you think mostly initiates the relationship? id have to say the lady as she wants a meaningful relationship not just sex... as most guys are like race cars in a big hurry to get to the finish line i think more guys need to be careing and more open to what they want dont want....

Thanks for you answer

bad_girl's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:38 PM
laugh laugh

my right hand wears the pants here

Peccy's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:39 PM

Whom ever cares the least about it controls it.....

Think I recall reading that somewhere.....lol

Lily0923's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:40 PM


Whom ever cares the least about it controls it.....

Think I recall reading that somewhere.....lol


Yes, and I was the only one on your side with it too.....

Peccy's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:41 PM
Edited by Peccy on Wed 04/16/08 04:42 PM



Whom ever cares the least about it controls it.....

Think I recall reading that somewhere.....lol


Yes, and I was the only one on your side with it too.....

well we were right! One for the history books!

MrWrongman's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:42 PM

Who do you think controls the start of a relationship...men or women? Who do you think mostly initiates the relationship? Just curious of your opinons. Like when you intially meet, who do you think is in control of if you date or not..mutual, one gender more over the other. I guess i have to detail this question more than I thought, when you meet someone for the first time who do you think decides if they want to pursue something. My friend said that women have more control. And they decide if they are going to pursue the guy or not. He said that he thinks men dont have much control on initiating the relationship.


The one who loves least :wink:

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:42 PM
flowerforyou I think Peccy controls the start of a relationshipflowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:42 PM

well we were right!


I'm always right, you just happed to get lucky that day....laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:43 PM

Whom ever cares the least about it controls it.....



You mean the least about the relationship not the least about controlling it, correct?

That makes perfect sense to me.

hellkitten54's photo
Wed 04/16/08 04:44 PM
In my current relationship I think we both have equal control. Well, I do control certain areas.bigsmile

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